Girls do you like guys with long hair?

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What kind of hair do you like on guys?


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DHZ, look at 1 Corinthians 11:14.
I think pictures of Jesus with long hair are prevalent for two reasons:

1. To feminise Jesus and make him appeal to women.
2. To make Jesus look weak and therefore making it easier to attack christianity.

Jesus was a carpenter. I reckon he was muscly and rugged.
Men are not supposed to look like women.
I think your comments are pretty demeaning and ignorant to guys who have long hair. As I used to have shoulder length hair myself. You need to educate yourself before throwing around nonsense comments like that. In making out that guys with long hair are feminine and not allowed.

In 1 Corinthians 11:14 the Greek word translated "long hair" is komao which means tresses of hair or locks. It comes from the root word meaning "to take care of" which indicates some kind of preparation to make the hair appear in tresses. Komao appears only three times in the Bible, and all three times are right here in the 11th chapter of 1 Corinthians. The usual word for hair is thrix. Paul is referring to some pagan practice of fixing the hair in a feminine manner, and this is what he is condemning for men. Some hairstyles were considered immodest and condemned in 1 Timothy 2:9 and 1 Peter 3:3. At any rate, Paul would not teach anything contrary to the rest of scripture.

A lot of Biblical men had long hair - Samuel, Samson, John the Baptist... Numbers 6:5 & 7 even speak of the Nazarite vows’ requirement of not cutting the hair. Judges 16:17 state that Samson never had a razor that touched his head. Nowhere in the Bible are they condemned.

In 2 Kings 1:8 the messenger’s description of a man with long hair and a leather girdle caused the king to instantly realize it was the prophet Elijah. He must have had long hair indeed. The Hebrew words the servant used to describe Elijah were ba’al sa’ar which actually means "lord of hair."

In 2 Samuel 14:25-26 Absalom’s long hair was praised.

Do you still hold your opinion after reading this that long hair on guys is feminine and wrong? I hope not.

Anyway, back to the OP. If you want long hair, go for it man. Do not worry what girls like and what they do not. Be yourself. All you need at the end of the day is that one special girls opinion. It takes great commitment for guys to grow long hair, I do not think a lot of people understand this.
 
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Suzi44

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yes yes yes!!! long hair on dudes! longer and less tame... :p
 
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When its talked about men looking like women, I believe that's referring to not being able to tell, if you can tell a guy is a guy, it doesn't matter, the bible says men should dress like men and women should dress like women, but that's depending on what your society deems proper, people have different traditions and customs, you wouldn't say a Scottsman with a kilt and long hair looks like a woman,at least it wouldn't be a good idea, got aflack? Lol
 
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Relena7

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Long hair on men is hot.
I've thought so ever since the age I became old enough to be attracted to men.

Short hair can be nice too, but it's less likely to really grab my attention from across a busy room the way longer hair would.

Ultra short buzz haircuts are a turn-off for me. :p

That's just my opinion though. Different women like different things.
 
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GreenNnice

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Well, in that case , rel and suzie, I got myself a mane :D
 
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iTOREtheSKY

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Well..I think that's the only reason I ever got dates when I was younger...I had long long hair & played drums...lol I chopped it all off when I was hmmm like 20-ish. Never grew it long again...not like that at least. Short hair is just easier to maintain. I did the mohawk thing for a year or so,but my hair grows so quick,it needs to be cut every 3 weeks. Right now it's getting long again...mmmm my hair dresser is gonna kill me. LOL My hair style of choice now is the faux hawk,and I don't care what the ladies think of it! lol
 
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Chrissy77

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I threaten to cut my hair and people freak out on me!
 
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iTOREtheSKY

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LOL...I used to get that too...then they saw how handsome I was without it & they soon changed their tune. LOL hair always grows back. (well,for some)
 
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OceanGrl

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I think guys look better with shorter hair. With that, I'm just not a fan of guys with long hair, especially if it's 'girl' long kind of hair.
 
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MySavior

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I have long hair, sometimes girls likes my long hair and sometimes they don't.
I don't think theres a problem with guys having long hair unless they have it wash and clean.
 
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Richie_2uk

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No offence, but is this thread that important? is attraction to long hair really that important? Sorry to put a dampener on this. But Jesus is coming back soon and we are living in end times, and hair shouldn't be that much of a priority or worry. Shouldn't we focus on trying toi save people? or there hair?
 
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JesusMyAll

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I do find men with longer hair attractive now whether it's right still not sure because I don't know how men where able to cut there hair often.
 

Lynx

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Well the sign says
Long haired creepy people
Need not apply
So I tucked my hair up under my hat
And I went in to ask him why
He said you look like a fine
Upstanding young man
I think you'll do
So I took off my hat
And said imagine that
Huh! Me, working for you?



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Oh, and um... this thread is a really old one.
 

Oncefallen

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2y 6m 9d......................
 
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HisHolly

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the right one wont overlook you just bc your hair is long. take care of it and its just that, hair.. on the other hand that one might love it too..
 
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Mrobbins81

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Samson had long hair. I think its what you like, you have to live with it.
 
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AuntieAnt

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Speaking of hair........... :rolleyes:

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