How Long Has Everyone Here Been Single? (Updated 2015 Edition.)
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To me, single is unmarried. Unavailable is a different concept.
For example, a nun would be single (perpetually) and unavailable (perpetually). Whereas I am single (perpetually....hahahahaha) and my availability varies.
Thus, as a single, never-married female, I fall squarely in the "I have been single my whole life" category. Except here's one issue that I've not seen anyone mention...
When do you start counting "single?" After all, isn't EVERYONE single at age, say, 4? And marriage isn't even a possibility. So where do we start? From somewhere in the mid-teens, from the time a woman begins to menstruate, from age 18 and the availability of legal marriage in all 50 states? I consider myself single since age 18. So, this means I've been single for 27 years.
For example, a nun would be single (perpetually) and unavailable (perpetually). Whereas I am single (perpetually....hahahahaha) and my availability varies.
Thus, as a single, never-married female, I fall squarely in the "I have been single my whole life" category. Except here's one issue that I've not seen anyone mention...
When do you start counting "single?" After all, isn't EVERYONE single at age, say, 4? And marriage isn't even a possibility. So where do we start? From somewhere in the mid-teens, from the time a woman begins to menstruate, from age 18 and the availability of legal marriage in all 50 states? I consider myself single since age 18. So, this means I've been single for 27 years.
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I don't even think I should comment being just a little kid, lol, but I've been single for a little over 6 months now. It's funny. Everyone is so optimistic on this thread about how long they've been single, and yet they all seem really sad at the same time.
It's not as bad as it can sometimes seem, I suppose. I've met people who have been single for years, and they seem more satisfied than someone like me who has a fresh wound.
So I guess the saying is true. Time does heal all wounds. So for those who are like me, let's find hope in that.
And especially to those close to my age. The likability of us not finding someone is slim. And even if we don't, we always have God and He's much more important. So let's all be happy and grateful for what we have. The Bible says, "[FONT=Corbel, Verdana, sans-serif]Rejoice in the Lord always; again I will say, Rejoice." Philippians 4:4[/FONT]
It's not as bad as it can sometimes seem, I suppose. I've met people who have been single for years, and they seem more satisfied than someone like me who has a fresh wound.
So I guess the saying is true. Time does heal all wounds. So for those who are like me, let's find hope in that.
And especially to those close to my age. The likability of us not finding someone is slim. And even if we don't, we always have God and He's much more important. So let's all be happy and grateful for what we have. The Bible says, "[FONT=Corbel, Verdana, sans-serif]Rejoice in the Lord always; again I will say, Rejoice." Philippians 4:4[/FONT]
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I don't even think I should comment being just a little kid, lol, but I've been single for a little over 6 months now. It's funny. Everyone is so optimistic on this thread about how long they've been single, and yet they all seem really sad at the same time.
It's not as bad as it can sometimes seem, I suppose. I've met people who have been single for years, and they seem more satisfied than someone like me who has a fresh wound.
So I guess the saying is true. Time does heal all wounds. So for those who are like me, let's find hope in that. And especially to those close to my age. The likability of us not finding someone is slim. And even if we don't, we always have God and He's much more important. So let's all be happy and grateful for what we have. The Bible says, "Rejoice in the Lord always; again I will say, Rejoice." Philippians 4:4
It's not as bad as it can sometimes seem, I suppose. I've met people who have been single for years, and they seem more satisfied than someone like me who has a fresh wound.
So I guess the saying is true. Time does heal all wounds. So for those who are like me, let's find hope in that.
And especially to those close to my age. The likability of us not finding someone is slim. And even if we don't, we always have God and He's much more important. So let's all be happy and grateful for what we have. The Bible says, "Rejoice in the Lord always; again I will say, Rejoice." Philippians 4:4
All wounds will heal..it will...eventually..and you are still young!! Just enjoy your youth first!
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I haven't had a relationship for about two and a half years. It's not like I haven't had the opportunity though. But after my last relationship I decided that I didn't want to waste my time with anyone that I couldn't have a potential future with for whatever reason. I don't want to date someone I'm not physically attracted to, and I don't want to date someone whose personality I don't like. I also don't want to date anyone who isn't at least a christian. I don't really care what type of Christian they are, but I don't want to date someone who is atheist or Mormon or anything. We need to have the same views on that stuff. I'm just picky I guess, but I'd rather be picky than waste my time and energy with someone who it just plain isn't going to work with.