Yeah better to "fellowship" first here and "socialize" then maybe share a little on "feelings" you have concerning a relationship otherwise people may think you "a creep" even if "you aren't trying to sound like one" best not to be "forward" ,I've "calmed down" now and focused on "fellowship" and "socializing" it really is "more healthy" than "looking for someone frantically to be in a relationship with" because to be honest most "friends" end up as more "overtime" even many "years".