If you’re planning to go on a date with someone special, who should pay for it?

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Who should pay for the date?

  • The woman should pay.

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Kaps89

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Those dates that you had, did you take them all out for fish n chips? :LOL:
Ha no I didn't. I went on a date to a cat cafe and also just out for coffee. But I stopped dating because I needed to work on myself a bit. Only special people get the fish and chip treatment :)

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Mel85

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Ha no I didn't. I went on a date to a cat cafe and also just out for coffee. But I stopped dating because I needed to work on myself a bit. Only special people get the fish and chip treatment :)

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Fair enough, my delima now is whether NZ fish n chips is better than British fish n chips.
 

Kaps89

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Fair enough, my delima now is whether NZ fish n chips is better than British fish n chips.
Well that's just preposterous!!! I'm not flying to NZ to buy you fish and chips. It's our national dish and we're very good at it. :eek:. Quite frankly I'm insulted.


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Mel85

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Well that's just preposterous!!! I'm not flying to NZ to buy you fish and chips. It's our national dish and we're very good at it. :eek:. Quite frankly I'm insulted.


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Funny that, I thought bangers & mash was🤣

Ps I can make my own fish and chips :)
 

Kaps89

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Funny that, I thought bangers & mash was🤣

Ps I can make my own fish and chips :)
I think we're confused about our national dish. It's one of the following:

  • Roast dinner
  • English breakfast
  • Fish and chips
  • Curry. Not proper curry. British curry. Like a tikka masala.
We're just very confused in general atm. :LOL: Well I'm sure you can but sometimes it's nice to be cooked for. Or to pay someone else to cook.

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Mel85

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I think we're confused about our national dish. It's one of the following:

  • Roast dinner
  • English breakfast
  • Fish and chips
  • Curry. Not proper curry. British curry. Like a tikka masala.
We're just very confused in general atm. :LOL: Well I'm sure you can but sometimes it's nice to be cooked for. Or to pay someone else to cook.

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Bullet points! Love that 👍🏽👍🏽

And I love butter chicken. And yes, it’s nice to have someone cook for ya. If my date offered to cook, Id still help in anyway I could.
 

Kaps89

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Bullet points! Love that 👍🏽👍🏽

And I love butter chicken. And yes, it’s nice to have someone cook for ya. If my date offered to cook, Id still help in anyway I could.
Well I'm glad you enjoyed them. Hmm pretty sure I've made butter chicken before. What date would you feel comfortable going to a guys house for dinner? Nah sorry you'd be banned from the kitchen. You can help with the washing up after if you really must. ;)

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Mel85

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Well I'm glad you enjoyed them. Hmm pretty sure I've made butter chicken before. What date would you feel comfortable going to a guys house for dinner? Nah sorry you'd be banned from the kitchen. You can help with the washing up after if you really must. ;)

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Tbh, I wouldn’t feel comfortable going to a guys house on a date, if it got to a stage where we were a couple who been together for a couple of months then yes I would - and of course washing up would come with prepping dinner :)
 

Kaps89

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Tbh, I wouldn’t feel comfortable going to a guys house on a date, if it got to a stage where we were a couple who been together for a couple of months then yes I would - and of course washing up would come with prepping dinner :)
Nah I also wouldn't go to a girl's house unless we ended up as a couple because there's always a slight chance I'd wake up in a seedy motel with some vital internal organ missing. It's an irrational fear but a fear none the less. Excellent. Well if we're ever I'm each others respective countries we can argue about fish and chips and washing up. :giggle:

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melita916

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Lucky you! I haven't had a date in three years :( I would like to go on one, but it's seeming more and more impossible as I get older.
After my 1st relationship, I was single for 5 yrs, no dates. It’s ok! :)
 

Mel85

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I would like to add, Christmas and New Years seasons, the men should pay.

😂
 

BrotherMike

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The man should pursue, the man should pay. Once the relationship is a mutual agreement, the woman should offer to pay and let the man decide if that's ok with him... I'd imagine it would be lol.
 
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I always just gave my bank card and then wondered why they walked all over me lol.
 

Karren

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I think ,if both known each other for 2 or 3 months already and want to go in a special date ,they should atleast pay for own expenses ,i mean we are on a era were both genders is earning for themselves,,and for my ladies out there we are strong independent woman