It is just me, or does it all seem... rather overwhelming at times?
I mean, not only do we have to find someone we're supposedly attracted to and they're attracted to us, but then you have to find someone who has similar views on:
* faith and how to express it
* doctrine (Does an argument break out every time "Speaking in tongues" is mentioned?)
* family, how many children to have, and how to raise them
* where to live, and how (Renting vs. owning? Country vs. city? Staying in one place forever or moving from here to there?)
* finances and how to handle them
And then, of course, there's "minor" things like diet, fitness, lifestyle, pets, "other" family values (how many times is the mother-in-law on either side allowed to drop by unannounced)... etc. etc. etc.
Talk about... finding a needle in a haystack? I know everything is possible with God. But... every time I wander into the Family Forum, I think about the reality that there seems to be a lot more misses than hits (Are people misinterpreting what God wants for them or do many of us just have a knack for choosing the wrong person?)
I mean, not only do we have to find someone we're supposedly attracted to and they're attracted to us, but then you have to find someone who has similar views on:
* faith and how to express it
* doctrine (Does an argument break out every time "Speaking in tongues" is mentioned?)
* family, how many children to have, and how to raise them
* where to live, and how (Renting vs. owning? Country vs. city? Staying in one place forever or moving from here to there?)
* finances and how to handle them
And then, of course, there's "minor" things like diet, fitness, lifestyle, pets, "other" family values (how many times is the mother-in-law on either side allowed to drop by unannounced)... etc. etc. etc.
Talk about... finding a needle in a haystack? I know everything is possible with God. But... every time I wander into the Family Forum, I think about the reality that there seems to be a lot more misses than hits (Are people misinterpreting what God wants for them or do many of us just have a knack for choosing the wrong person?)
All so so very true but when God brings two people together and you get to observe what true biblical intimacy looks like.....it literally takes your breath away as there are no words. I have seen it in a few wonderful Godly unions.