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Life is a gift. Everything in life is a gift. Yes, singleness is a gift. Does that mean I'm content with it? No. Is that right? Well, how would YOU feel if you gave your most treasured possession to buy someone a gift, and they said "thanks, but I don't care for it." I guess that's how God feels when we are discontent with the gift of life that he gave His son to buy. So, with that crushing bit of logic I think I have to work on contentment lol
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Jesus purchased Heaven for us, and I don't think anybody is going to be sad about that gift!
Life is a gift because we then have the capacity to go to heaven.
God wants us to suffer a bit, to appreciate heaven more? I dunno. He also wants to remove the weeds from the wheat.
For the non-christian, life is the greatest gift they'll ever have, then face an eternity of condemnation for not accepting God.
Life is a gift because we then have the capacity to go to heaven.
God wants us to suffer a bit, to appreciate heaven more? I dunno. He also wants to remove the weeds from the wheat.
For the non-christian, life is the greatest gift they'll ever have, then face an eternity of condemnation for not accepting God.
T
Jesus purchased Heaven for us, and I don't think anybody is going to be sad about that gift!
Life is a gift because we then have the capacity to go to heaven.
God wants us to suffer a bit, to appreciate heaven more? I dunno. He also wants to remove the weeds from the wheat.
For the non-christian, life is the greatest gift they'll ever have, then face an eternity of condemnation for not accepting God.
Life is a gift because we then have the capacity to go to heaven.
God wants us to suffer a bit, to appreciate heaven more? I dunno. He also wants to remove the weeds from the wheat.
For the non-christian, life is the greatest gift they'll ever have, then face an eternity of condemnation for not accepting God.
J
Come to think of it isn't Galatea kind of turning against some women because I hear all the time from typically women"sex is not love" and I myself believe sex is not love,nor necessary for a relationship,a relationship can go that way but I would rather have a relationship with "talking" to the girl I like all day without the troubling thought of sex,I think many people have forgotten what "True love" is...
It's not about sex,or having kids,it's about caring so much for whom you love that you long to be around them,worry about them when they are away,want to know genuinely about them instead of thinking on explicitness,you don't have to have such things immediately or really at all,I for one like talking to someone and am not concerned about rushing to such stupidity,I have seen so many people rush to sex like they just have to have it and end up breaking up or not caring for one another,and it's better in my opinion to not think on it so much because it leads to backsliding or pushing someone away,I believe a relationship should be more about getting to know each other,heart wise is alot better,because anyone can just up and find someone and have sex in this corrupt world that is getting worse by the day,but that isn't love.
I could've done something ludicrous like that years ago but I didn't because I have always searched for that special someone whom I can talk to hours on end,laugh with,cry with,praise God with,(church not required),I may be an outcast in my own generation and time,but I for one though my idiotic hormones torment me,am not looking for any female to have sex with because it is not what I seek in a relationship,"talking" and "caring" is what I seek,I may be labeled a fool for that,but that's just me.
Sure I have watched fleshy things in the past and my body has gotten excited,but my heart has sunk there after,so I really don't like thinking on that stuff because it pains me,physically,spiritually,and mentally,I really could do without that sort of thing,and would "only" even consider sex or physical intimacy in any form if the female I was with "wanted" such a thing,I am not some dominant idiot looking for a female that I can tell what to do,I "have respect" for women,and who ever I may end up with in years to come I have no desire to seek sex,I only wish for a partner in life that I enjoy company with,you know that age old thing that people used to do...
Talking to who you like and getting to know them by actually listening and conversing with them,that to me is worth more than any form of money,sex can be part of relationship,but it doesn't habe to be one's first focus or center of a relationship,God should come first,in one's life and in a relationship,and "learning about each other and caring for each other" should be there long before even considering sex,because what is a relationship without both of you eventually "genuinely caring for each other and taking an interest in each other"?
In my view that's a dead relationship,I for one prefer a "lasting relationship".
It's not about sex,or having kids,it's about caring so much for whom you love that you long to be around them,worry about them when they are away,want to know genuinely about them instead of thinking on explicitness,you don't have to have such things immediately or really at all,I for one like talking to someone and am not concerned about rushing to such stupidity,I have seen so many people rush to sex like they just have to have it and end up breaking up or not caring for one another,and it's better in my opinion to not think on it so much because it leads to backsliding or pushing someone away,I believe a relationship should be more about getting to know each other,heart wise is alot better,because anyone can just up and find someone and have sex in this corrupt world that is getting worse by the day,but that isn't love.
I could've done something ludicrous like that years ago but I didn't because I have always searched for that special someone whom I can talk to hours on end,laugh with,cry with,praise God with,(church not required),I may be an outcast in my own generation and time,but I for one though my idiotic hormones torment me,am not looking for any female to have sex with because it is not what I seek in a relationship,"talking" and "caring" is what I seek,I may be labeled a fool for that,but that's just me.
Sure I have watched fleshy things in the past and my body has gotten excited,but my heart has sunk there after,so I really don't like thinking on that stuff because it pains me,physically,spiritually,and mentally,I really could do without that sort of thing,and would "only" even consider sex or physical intimacy in any form if the female I was with "wanted" such a thing,I am not some dominant idiot looking for a female that I can tell what to do,I "have respect" for women,and who ever I may end up with in years to come I have no desire to seek sex,I only wish for a partner in life that I enjoy company with,you know that age old thing that people used to do...
Talking to who you like and getting to know them by actually listening and conversing with them,that to me is worth more than any form of money,sex can be part of relationship,but it doesn't habe to be one's first focus or center of a relationship,God should come first,in one's life and in a relationship,and "learning about each other and caring for each other" should be there long before even considering sex,because what is a relationship without both of you eventually "genuinely caring for each other and taking an interest in each other"?
In my view that's a dead relationship,I for one prefer a "lasting relationship".
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It is a long story, told by a fool, and one I don’t want to elaborate. Suffice it to say, I only want and love the one who caught me and threw me back. I keep swimming around looking for his boat in case he wants to catch me again. I am an unusual fish, highly evolved. I only respond to his bait. No one else has it.
Sounds weird, but I am weird and abnormal.
Thank you for being kind, though.
Sounds weird, but I am weird and abnormal.
Thank you for being kind, though.