Is there a big shortage of Christian men for Christian women to marry?

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Those don't sound like Christian girls in the first place:

"No one who is born of God will continue to sin, because God’s seed remains in them; they cannot go on sinning, because they have been born of God. 10 This is how we know who the children of God are and who the children of the devil are: Anyone who does not do what is right is not God’s child, nor is anyone who does not love their brother and sister." - 1 John 3:9-10

Well I hate to say this to you but after fully reading your starting post on this, I think you are as messed up as the christian girls you can't find because they aren't christian at all. Who told you its a christian thing to tirelessly earn billions of dollars so you can support all of the ILLEGITIMATE children of the world? Especially since you were able to find a quote like this one. How do you turn it around and claim that there is something GODLY about encouraging the world's status quo of population problems caused by nations and societies insisting they have the right to breed with no foresight or relationship in place as demanded by God? I am curious where all of you breed and feed "christians" are coming from and who told you it is your role to be a feeder to cover for all of the sinful breeders.
 
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Crystalgar

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They are good Christian men/woman out there, I found one. I have prayed every day on what he will be and he is everything I ever wanted and more. The only thing is right now its a long distance relationship, and now we talk everyday I really love him and I care for him.
Its possable to find someone iti just takes a lot of work and prayer.
 
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Well I hate to say this to you but after fully reading your starting post on this, I think you are as messed up as the christian girls you can't find because they aren't christian at all. Who told you its a christian thing to tirelessly earn billions of dollars so you can support all of the ILLEGITIMATE children of the world? Especially since you were able to find a quote like this one. How do you turn it around and claim that there is something GODLY about encouraging the world's status quo of population problems caused by nations and societies insisting they have the right to breed with no foresight or relationship in place as demanded by God? I am curious where all of you breed and feed "christians" are coming from and who told you it is your role to be a feeder to cover for all of the sinful breeders.
There are many verses which cover various things

"Religion that God our Father accepts as pure and faultless is this: to look after orphans and widows in their distress and to keep oneself from being polluted by the world." - James 1:27

"A father to the fatherless, a defender of widows, is God in his holy dwelling." - Psalm 68:5 (and we are to do God's will)

"The soul who sins is the one who will die. The son will not share the guilt of the father, nor will the father share the guilt of the son." - Ezekiel 18:10a

"Fathers shall not be put to death for their children, nor children put to death for their fathers; each is to die for his own sin." - Deuteronomy 24:16

And on 'creating human life' there is Psalms 127, "Be fruitful and mutliply'...there are also many verses on that we should work in order to have something to give...really more references than I have mentioned on most all of what you mentioned, but nobody told me to make a specific amount...I am just trying to good w/ my life, though my sorrow about perhaps having to do it alone is currently impairing my performance a bit lately. :\
 
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There are many verses which cover various things

"Religion that God our Father accepts as pure and faultless is this: to look after orphans and widows in their distress and to keep oneself from being polluted by the world." - James 1:27

"A father to the fatherless, a defender of widows, is God in his holy dwelling." - Psalm 68:5 (and we are to do God's will)

"The soul who sins is the one who will die. The son will not share the guilt of the father, nor will the father share the guilt of the son." - Ezekiel 18:10a

"Fathers shall not be put to death for their children, nor children put to death for their fathers; each is to die for his own sin." - Deuteronomy 24:16

And on 'creating human life' there is Psalms 127, "Be fruitful and mutliply'...there are also many verses on that we should work in order to have something to give...really more references than I have mentioned on most all of what you mentioned, but nobody told me to make a specific amount...I am just trying to good w/ my life, though my sorrow about perhaps having to do it alone is currently impairing my performance a bit lately. :\
Well this is all very good. I find a lot of women like me but I don't have the finances to pursue things. Please keep my women in mind when I'm being fruitful and multiplying.
 
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Hello

Christians where I live believe that Christianity is a man's faith and a women cannot become a Christian as she cannot be christened in Christ's church.

According to this belief a women cannot enter Christ church until she marries Christ and the only way Christ will permit a women to enter his church is if she intends to marry him. I have been told to advise you (please be aware that I am not telling you what to do) to go to a catholic church until you are ready to marry a Christian man (Christ). I'm sure you'll be permitted to enter his church when you are ready.


God Bless!

I can't even follow you.

Christian men are to stay in protestant churches (which you call Christian churches) because those are the churches where men are supposed to be?

Christian women are supposed to stay in Catholic churches (which you call Catholic churches) because those are the churches for women?

And then when a man gets married he is then supposed to go to a Catholic church? What happens if he becomes a widower, he has to go back to a protestant church?


You're not making any sense.
 
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Congratulations! You've resurrected a thread that DIED OVER TWO YEARS AGO. There's a reason this discussion died. There's also a reason this discussion was resurrected. It's because someone was bored, and decided to sift through OVER 180 BACK-PAGES OF ABANDONED THREADS.

You know, just so we can be trolled about whether or not women can be saved. I call it trolling, because if ANYONE has ACTUALLY read the Bible, rather than just believing stuff that someone told them once (whether it was from someone who was drunk-high-and-possibly-demon-possesed OR from someone at the pulpit), they'd know that this stuff about "men-go-to-THIS-church" and "women-go-to-THAT-church" is completely and utterly unbiblical and has ZERO foundation in scripture. Because, you know, they'd have been READING scripture and saying, "Hey, the Bible doesn't say that! Maybe this dude is wrong!"

But clearly, since we have time to look through EVERY THREAD from the last four years, we don't have a lot of stuff to do. Like, actually read the Bible. And pray.

It is physically impossible, without the aid of cybernetic enhancements (and even then, doubtful), to facepalm as hard as this actually requires.
 
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Congratulations! You've resurrected a thread that DIED OVER TWO YEARS AGO. There's a reason this discussion died. There's also a reason this discussion was resurrected. It's because someone was bored, and decided to sift through OVER 180 BACK-PAGES OF ABANDONED THREADS.

You know, just so we can be trolled about whether or not women can be saved. I call it trolling, because if ANYONE has ACTUALLY read the Bible, rather than just believing stuff that someone told them once (whether it was from someone who was drunk-high-and-possibly-demon-possesed OR from someone at the pulpit), they'd know that this stuff about "men-go-to-THIS-church" and "women-go-to-THAT-church" is completely and utterly unbiblical and has ZERO foundation in scripture. Because, you know, they'd have been READING scripture and saying, "Hey, the Bible doesn't say that! Maybe this dude is wrong!"

But clearly, since we have time to look through EVERY THREAD from the last four years, we don't have a lot of stuff to do. Like, actually read the Bible. And pray.

It is physically impossible, without the aid of cybernetic enhancements (and even then, doubtful), to facepalm as hard as this actually requires.
Shodan will not be pleased...

 
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Jullianna

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I would like to give you some advice but first let us understand and agree on why the church was built.


Jesus built the church for men to get married.


According to some Christian beliefs Jesus himself got married in church.


The church was also built to teach Christians males how to walk a divine path.


you mentioned work, well according to some Christian followers they believe that a Christian single male living in today’s heaven (earth) should only be working part time, the rest of the time should be spent searching for a wife and attending Christian church every Sunday.


By neglecting a women because of work you are not fulfilling the full duties of a Christian male.


According to some Christian followers there is no such thing as a Christian women. Please read a copy of my recent post below and supporting evidence to back this belief.


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People around where I live believe that the Christian church exists only for men and that the catholic church exists just for women.


I have been told by some Catholic and Christian believers that the catholic church exists just for women and that a man cannot become a catholic through christening as this must be done in a Christian church.


I have also spoken to a few Christian followers and they seem to agree that a man and only a man can be baptised in a Christian church.


Christian followers of this belief also believe that if a man wishes to marry he must first be christened in Christ’s church and only after christening will he be permitted to go out into the world in search of a catholic women (Christ knows the catholic faith) for the purpose of marriage, only then will a catholic (women) be allowed to enter into marriage with a Christian (Man) and allowed into Christ’s church.


I have also been told by this group that there are rules when it comes to baptism and Christ’s church.


Rule 1. Man can baptise man in Christ’s church but cannot baptise women (I believe the reason for this is because it must be done in a catholic church).


Rule 2. Single women are not permitted to enter Christ’s church unless for the purpose of marriage, married women are.


Rule 3. Only married men are permitted to teach in Christ’s church, women cannot even after marrying a Christian man.


My question is What do you think about these views and do you believe the Christian church will follow these beliefs?


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EVIDENCE CHRISTIAN CHURCH IS A MAN’S CHURCH


I was told by a source ( a catholic women) to visit this website The Catholic Parish of Marychurch, Hatfield with St Thomas More, Welham Green, Hertfordshire and read the verse.


May you know the love and blessings of God in Christ in your lives.


She told me that this verse speaks directly to women not men. She also told me that a women is speaking to a women not a man and she is speaking to single unmarried women who want to know Christ and marry a Christian male.


Translation of verse: May you (you implies women) know the love and blessings of god (god implies good spirit) in Christ (Christ implies man) in your lives.


Further translation: May you women know the love and blessings of the good spirit in men in your lives.


people around where I live still believe that the Christian church exists for men and was built for men hence the name Christ's church (a man's church) named after a Christian man and that the catholic church exists for women and was built for women and given a female name (catholic) named after a catholic women (A WOMEN’S CHURCH).


My question remains what do you think about these views and do you think the Christian church will soon follow these beliefs?


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After listening to what your money is being spent on I live believe that your money would be better spent on educating Christian males on marriage to catholic women and by so doing will eliminate huger and all the problems faced by those in unfortunate situations.


Christian males must evolve with good women in order to save the planet. By feeding Christians and not educating them on Christianity you are not solving the problem and they will continue to go hungry


I hope this advice helps you.


God Bless!
Hello

Christians where I live believe that Christianity is a man's faith and a women cannot become a Christian as she cannot be christened in Christ's church.

According to this belief a women cannot enter Christ church until she marries Christ and the only way Christ will permit a women to enter his church is if she intends to marry him. I have been told to advise you (please be aware that I am not telling you what to do) to go to a catholic church until you are ready to marry a Christian man (Christ). I'm sure you'll be permitted to enter his church when you are ready.


God Bless!
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Erekson714

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I can see it now, a guy approaches Jullianna at the grocery story to ask her out, and she responds with, "oh, ok...hold on and let me check my calender to see how my week looks." as she digs for her calender out of her purse, she takes our her taser and lays it aside, takes out her colapsable night stick and lays it aside, and the new box of ammo she just happens to have with her (since she is on her way to the gun shooting range)....by this point, the guy is probably high-tailing it out of there. ;) lol
That made me laugh !
 
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Erekson714

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I think there is more or less both Christian men/women to marry eachother than just one or the other.
 
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FireWire

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Well one less from my point of view.
 
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GreenNnice

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Doesn't matter. like God provided the Lamb for Abraham as he took his son, Isaac, up to the mountain to sacrifice him, Isaac was spared when a Lamb was provided. God will provide a perfect husband or wife for you when His time is right and you, of course, have gone along with Him, up that 'mountain.'
 
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#74
Congratulations! You've resurrected a thread that DIED OVER TWO YEARS AGO. There's a reason this discussion died. There's also a reason this discussion was resurrected. It's because someone was bored, and decided to sift through OVER 180 BACK-PAGES OF ABANDONED THREADS.
Relax brutha, at the bottom of every thread there's links to old threads which are related (see below..). That's probably how it got attention, not by sifting through 180 pages lol. Of course, there's also the chance I could be wrong.. o_o
 

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Relax brutha, at the bottom of every thread there's links to old threads which are related (see below..). That's probably how it got attention, not by sifting through 180 pages lol. Of course, there's also the chance I could be wrong.. o_o
I must confess.... A few days ago I did sift through 180 pages of old threads to find one good old one to resurrect. . But that was only to annoy Ugly. Whew... I feel better now that I've confessed.
 
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Ugly

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I must confess.... A few days ago I did sift through 180 pages of old threads to find one good old one to resurrect. . But that was only to annoy Ugly. Whew... I feel better now that I've confessed.
So the advanced search feature was too easy? :p
 

Pipp

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Oh hey there.....umm.. I had to find the right one.... and of course I didn't literally go through all 180 pages... doof
 
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Ugly

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Oh hey there.....umm.. I had to find the right one.... and of course I didn't literally go through all 180 pages... doof
179?
And you could've done a search through all 2009 posts... but too easy =P
 

Pipp

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well.... don't yo have all the answers today -__-
Lol