Just want to get intimate with someone here. Its boring here without someone to talk to

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Humbleboi

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Can someone just talk to me please, a lady who is single , separated or divorced. I really wanna get going with a woman here . life is just empty without a woman. No wonder God gave Adam a woman after seeing how boring life was for him. Please some woman should talk to me.
 

blue_ladybug

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Welcome to CC. :) It's highly doubtful that any woman here is going to "get going" with you, since CC is not an actual dating site. It's probably better to look for someone in actual life, instead of online since online romances rarely ever work out anyway.
 

blue_ladybug

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And seeing as how you've already hit on Julie Marie, Juliet19m AND Ruby123, it's highly doubtful that you'll last very long here.. lol
 

Lynx

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If life is that boring without a spouse... You really need to get a life. If you did find somebody you would probably bore her to death. Before you find a spouse you need to have something to offer.
 

Godsgirl83

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Sooooo, the tittle on the "newest postings" list on main page caught my attention, just going to jump right in here.
1)Intimacy DOES NOT come from just typing away on the computer/phone.
and 2) as Lynx above said
If life is that boring without a spouse... You really need to get a life.
As a married person, let me just say....... it's not always rainbows and sunshine and glitter and roses..............
even with a spouse there are times we bore each other out of our minds!
Ir you want TRUE intimacy............. get alone with Jesus. Get to know Him! Let Him become the lover of your soul! The One who created you and knew you before you were born while you were still in your mothers womb (Psalm 139:13) is the same One who can fill that emptiness and void from loneliness. Because with out Him, any other relationship will still leave you a void.
 

cinder

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Why should some woman talk to you? The only thing you've put on the table is that you're lonely and bored without a woman. What would she talk about with you? What is interesting about you? If a lady can't answer those questions she's unlikely to initiate conversation with you. And what kind of pressure does it put on a woman if you expect her to suddenly make your life not lonely or boring anymore?

Pretty much every personal conversation that starts around here starts when person 1 says something interesting that person 2 wants to keep talking about or person 1 asks for advice on a situation that other people have experience with. Best advice we can give you for singles forum conversations is when all else fails, talk about food.
 

tourist

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Can someone just talk to me please, a lady who is single , separated or divorced. I really wanna get going with a woman here . life is just empty without a woman. No wonder God gave Adam a woman after seeing how boring life was for him. Please some woman should talk to me.
I am sure that there will not be any female member on this site who is going to 'get going' with you as you are an unknown entity and besides that, you don't know who the members are and what they are about. Not really wise either to seek out a relationship out of desperation. Perhaps after a few months of being a regular contributing member someone may take a chance of you but in all likelihood this may not happen either. This can be a great site for Christian fellowship if you give it a chance as that is really the purpose of this place. Regardless, glad to have you onboard. Welcome to CC.
 

tourist

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If life is that boring without a spouse... You really need to get a life. If you did find somebody you would probably bore her to death. Before you find a spouse you need to have something to offer.
...yeah, somthin' substantial too.
 

tourist

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Sooooo, the tittle on the "newest postings" list on main page caught my attention, just going to jump right in here.
1)Intimacy DOES NOT come from just typing away on the computer/phone.
and 2) as Lynx above said

As a married person, let me just say....... it's not always rainbows and sunshine and glitter and roses..............
even with a spouse there are times we bore each other out of our minds!
Ir you want TRUE intimacy............. get alone with Jesus. Get to know Him! Let Him become the lover of your soul! The One who created you and knew you before you were born while you were still in your mothers womb (Psalm 139:13) is the same One who can fill that emptiness and void from loneliness. Because with out Him, any other relationship will still leave you a void.
Words of wisdom spoken from experience.
 

tourist

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Why should some woman talk to you? The only thing you've put on the table is that you're lonely and bored without a woman. What would she talk about with you? What is interesting about you? If a lady can't answer those questions she's unlikely to initiate conversation with you. And what kind of pressure does it put on a woman if you expect her to suddenly make your life not lonely or boring anymore?

Pretty much every personal conversation that starts around here starts when person 1 says something interesting that person 2 wants to keep talking about or person 1 asks for advice on a situation that other people have experience with. Best advice we can give you for singles forum conversations is when all else fails, talk about food.
Coffee is a good conversation starter as well. Then again, there's the chocolate, preferably of the dark variety for the true connoisseur with the taste for the finer edibles in life. For myself, I'm just goin' scarf down a box of Munchkins and call it good. :)
 

Dino246

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Jun 30, 2015
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... and if the above responses aren't sufficient, I'll add one more:

You have absolutely NO BUSINESS on a Christian site (or anywhere else, for that matter) hoping to "get going" with a woman who is separated!

Instead, you need to put your trust in Jesus Christ for salvation from your sin.
 

tourist

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Welcome to CC. :) It's highly doubtful that any woman here is going to "get going" with you, since CC is not an actual dating site. It's probably better to look for someone in actual life, instead of online since online romances rarely ever work out anyway.
I just read a study off Google that states that more than 1/3 of marriages in America are as a result of first meeting online. Those married between 2005 and 2012 (the time duration of the study) out of a sample size of 19,131 were slightly less likely to divorce than those of more traditional venues such as first meeting in person and that those that first met online had a slightly higher marital satisfaction.

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Lynx

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Aug 13, 2014
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But the only matches I have seen here are accidental. I have never seen anybody come here looking for a match and find it.
 

Ellorah

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I’m sorry but I admit I chuckled reading this. First, welcome to CC. Christian fellowship is what gets us going as you put it. Other than that this motor is stalled 😂😂🙏
 

NotmebutHim

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I’m sorry but I admit I chuckled reading this. First, welcome to CC. Christian fellowship is what gets us going as you put it. Other than that this motor is stalled 😂😂🙏
Good analogy!! :D