"Man Up": How "Christians" Are Abandoning Single Men

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Lynx

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Booooo.

Coffee = magical
Dark chocolate = Knight
Dark chocolate with peanut butter = Prince
Dark chocolate with almonds = King



There are no heretics, court jesters, pretenders or witches in my kingdom. ;)
Deceived, you have been. A delusion, you have.
 
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RodB65

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Booooo.

Coffee = magical
Dark chocolate = Knight
Dark chocolate with peanut butter = Prince
Dark chocolate with almonds = King



There are no heretics, court jesters, pretenders or witches in my kingdom. ;)
Coffee nut m&m's = Prime minister
 

Lynx

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Man it got real quiet all of a sudden. And the OP's profile is suddenly unavailable...
 
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RodB65

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Yes, I'm wondering if Rick and daven are the same person?
 
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MULTIPLE JOBS you incompetent idiot. And NO KIDDING it leaves no time for a relationship! Guess what douche? MOST Millennials work just as much. Clearly I have to walk you by the hand ... that means, derrrr, that they have no time either, derrr.

"Bitter". There's that denigrating language again!

Because certainly, you'd be fine with everyone believing you are "homosexual" because you are highly masculine ...

WHY do you FAKE CHRISTIANS have such a PROBLEM with single men??? Your HATRED is REALLY unbecoming ...
Being christian had nothing to do with anything I said. If you want to go through life blaming society for your problems and lashing out at people instead of looking at where and how you can make improvements in your life, then go ahead. Good luck to you!
 

Lynx

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This is probably a bad sign...

When trolls get banned and I feel disappointed because this has been the most entertainment we have had on the forum in months and now the fun is over... is that a bad sign?
 
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RodB65

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I remember one word that sparked a lot of conversation here once.... Meatloaf

Let's see what happens...
 

Lynx

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I remember one word that sparked a lot of conversation here once.... Meatloaf

Let's see what happens...
Meatloaf can be awesome or terrible, depending on who makes it.

People can think meatloaf is awesome or terrible, depending on which kind they have tried.

People can get an opinion either way, lock it in, cement it, superglue it, coat it in bronze and never consider changing it... so they will continue thinking it is either awesome or terrible, even in the face of proof to the contrary.
 

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The thread I just posted and hope gets approved is bound to find a troll or two. So, maybe more entertainment. Hopefully, it's just a nice convo. ;)
 

CharliRenee

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The thread I just posted and hope gets approved is bound to find a troll or two. So, maybe more entertainment. Hopefully, it's just a nice convo. ;)
Curious what it is about, now I'm looking to see.
 
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theanointedsinner

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The thread I just posted and hope gets approved is bound to find a troll or two. So, maybe more entertainment. Hopefully, it's just a nice convo. ;)
hi flower, it's always good to meet new people, do you agree?
 

CharliRenee

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It seems to me men don't like women more and more. They often tell their boys you throw, sound or act like a girl. It is like from early on, you tell the youngsters to be like us is repulsive at best. Don't get me wrong, I like gender differences, God's design and nature seemed to make us that way. So no this isn't another feminist perspective, who I am is far from it. It just seems they are told to be different from us cause who we are is not good. Men often ignore the female of the species unless she is catching their eyes. Often they don't want much more to do with us otherwise.

Listen to this tone in this thread, it is like we are bad and we are less. I think God made men with strengths just like women. I think we should start being people of valor, centered in Christ. Let us be kind and thoughtful, respectful of each other. Maybe not think the worst of one another.

I think that the problems your presenting are true. Humans fall short. Both genders have their own set of struggles.

Showing and pointing to the One we need to go, asking for direction with or for a partner or how to live without one.

I appreciate seeing your points of view, it helps to see how society for men is also skewed. We all need Yeshua desperately.
 
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It seems to me men don't like women more and more. They often tell their boys you throw, sound or act like a girl. It is like from early on, you tell the youngsters to be like us is repulsive at best. Don't get me wrong, I like gender differences, God's design and nature seemed to make us that way. So no this isn't another feminist perspective, who I am is far from it. It just seems they are told to be different from us cause who we are is not good. Men often ignore the female of the species unless she is catching their eyes. Often they don't want much more to do with us otherwise.

Listen to this tone in this thread, it is like we are bad and we are less. I think God made men with strengths just like women. I think we should start being people of valor, centered in Christ. Let us be kind and thoughtful, respectful of each other. Maybe not think the worst of one another.

I think that the problems your presenting are true. Humans fall short. Both genders have their own set of struggles.

Showing and pointing to the One we need to go, asking for direction with or for a partner or how to live without one.

I appreciate seeing your points of view, it helps to see how society for men is also skewed. We all need Yeshua desperately.
The tone in this thread is because of the OP's attitude.
 
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theanointedsinner

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Charli Renee is right,

neurologically, women are web thinkers, and men are step thinkers

let's respect the strengths and weaknesses of these difference


and also, if you judge a fish by it's ability to climb trees, the fish will spend the whole life wallowing in low self-esteem and depression.
 

CharliRenee

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You THINK you'll have many choices in life that you won't have. I thought I was going to be an NFL Wide Receiver; I had the speed, the hands, the strength, but not the height … and well, guess what?

You don't have a choice of when you work; they place you where they place you.
I'm so sorry your dreams and efforts towards them didn't work out. Hugs and God Bless.
 

CharliRenee

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Charli Renee is right,

neurologically, women are web thinkers, and men are step thinkers

let's respect the strengths and weaknesses of these difference


and also, if you judge a fish by it's ability to climb trees, the fish will spend the whole life wallowing in low self-esteem and depression.
It can be truly said that you do not truly know someone until you step back and observe and watch their behavior and character. It is true that in this day and age, women have become more and more independent and less understanding of men, and the same could be said with men not understanding women. Fact is, that maybe, our Lord is trying to send those of us who struggle with finding a good hearted Christian man or woman, a message that we need to lean on Him for a partner, and not go out and seek without Him at the forefront. He always provides what we NEED, not necessarily what we want, but you can rest assured what He provides for us, is beautiful, pure and everlasting and satisfying to the soul.
BAM, spot on!!!
 

CharliRenee

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Nope. Some business partners are wanting to relocate our venture to Texas ... but I've been there, done that. There is just too much risk involved with uprooting your life to start anew. No woman is worth the risk.
No woman is worth the risk? Maybe that is the same attitude your potential Ruth is sporting, therefore her nonsacrificial mindset diminishes her outcomes.