I have gone back and read most of the thread, but not all, so forgive me if this has been answered but a poster back asked Misty what that thing is she is holding in her picture. Was there an answer to this?
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I didn't subject myself to the video, as the whole concept that ANYONE but the rapist is to blame is insulting, condescending, and is counter-productive. So I don't know where this ridiculous 1 in 3 men are potential rapists stat came from.
I have no idea where the truth lies (get it!) when it comes to actual numbers but here wikipedia has the rape of men by women percentage close to the reverse! Not saying I buy it but it does prove the axiom that if you torture stats long enough they will confess to anything:
Rape by gender - Wikipedia, the free encyclopedia