Mr./Mrs. Perfect.
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For me the following is important:
1. She has to be christian (and a protestant, bc if she is not, there would probably be some problems along the way).
2. She must be faithful, just like i am faithful.
3. She has to understand my culture and preferably has to have lived in it (therefore she should origin from Europe, America or any other place that identifies with most of the values I do).
4. She should want to have children one day, bc it is the will of God that we reproduce.
Bonus, but not necessary:
be fun
want to live in Denmark (AWESOME healthinsurance, almost all educations are free except for pilot (unless you join the army)) or somewhere else in Scandinavia. But I would also like to live in the US or Canada once.
be somewhat good at cooking (bc i'm not)
like to go to the cinema
want to learn some danish and/or be willing to let our future kids learn danish (since a big part of my family doesnt speak other languages than danish (and a little bit german).
like to read
not drink too much (in denmark it is very normal to drink quite bit, you can buy alcohol when you are 16).
I guess that's it.
1. She has to be christian (and a protestant, bc if she is not, there would probably be some problems along the way).
2. She must be faithful, just like i am faithful.
3. She has to understand my culture and preferably has to have lived in it (therefore she should origin from Europe, America or any other place that identifies with most of the values I do).
4. She should want to have children one day, bc it is the will of God that we reproduce.
Bonus, but not necessary:
be fun
want to live in Denmark (AWESOME healthinsurance, almost all educations are free except for pilot (unless you join the army)) or somewhere else in Scandinavia. But I would also like to live in the US or Canada once.
be somewhat good at cooking (bc i'm not)
like to go to the cinema
want to learn some danish and/or be willing to let our future kids learn danish (since a big part of my family doesnt speak other languages than danish (and a little bit german).
like to read
not drink too much (in denmark it is very normal to drink quite bit, you can buy alcohol when you are 16).
I guess that's it.
K
Heres my must haves
- Must be adventurous
- Must be calm and patient and honest
- Must be passionately in a relationship with Jesus
- Must be a tea drinker lol
- Must have a cute dent in their forehead when they're concentrating
- Must allow me to be smarter than them in one area and them in another (lol ie computers), and be able to blend them well together
- Must be good with kids
- Must be naturally affectionate
- Must be perfectly imperfect
- Must love cats and dogs
- Must have a collection of funny tshirts
That should do it.. lolololol
- Must be adventurous
- Must be calm and patient and honest
- Must be passionately in a relationship with Jesus
- Must be a tea drinker lol
- Must have a cute dent in their forehead when they're concentrating
- Must allow me to be smarter than them in one area and them in another (lol ie computers), and be able to blend them well together
- Must be good with kids
- Must be naturally affectionate
- Must be perfectly imperfect
- Must love cats and dogs
- Must have a collection of funny tshirts
That should do it.. lolololol
B
Things I look for in a guy.
1. Christian who puts God first in his life.
2. likes animals.
3. likes kids.
4. funny
5.smart
6.under the age of 35
7. sweet
8. honest
9. light brown, medium brown, dark brown hair color
10. tall
11. has pretty eyes
12. sweet
13. creative
14. likes nature
15. Does not drink
16. Does not smoke
1. Christian who puts God first in his life.
2. likes animals.
3. likes kids.
4. funny
5.smart
6.under the age of 35
7. sweet
8. honest
9. light brown, medium brown, dark brown hair color
10. tall
11. has pretty eyes
12. sweet
13. creative
14. likes nature
15. Does not drink
16. Does not smoke
One who will love God with every breath within him, like I do.
One who will walk beside me, not in front of or behind me.
One who will take my hand and prayerfully lead our lives together in our marriage.
One who will be patient and gentle with me, kind at heart when I have no clue what I'm doing.
One who will have a love for reaching out to people who don't know God.
One who will have a spirit of gratitude for all things God blesses our life with.
One who will put up with me and my silliness... *grin
One who will walk beside me, not in front of or behind me.
One who will take my hand and prayerfully lead our lives together in our marriage.
One who will be patient and gentle with me, kind at heart when I have no clue what I'm doing.
One who will have a love for reaching out to people who don't know God.
One who will have a spirit of gratitude for all things God blesses our life with.
One who will put up with me and my silliness... *grin
P
I need there to be an emotional connection. I have dated a guy who was extremely gorgeous, smart and very determined to succeed in life (Every thing that was on my list before) . He also turned out to be judgmental, cynical, heartless and unwilling to listen to me. I couldn't figure out for the first year we dated that he put up a front just for me. He pretended to care for people just because I wanted to be a social worker. He pretended to read the books I read. He agreed with me on everything, even faith. After year a things started unraveling. He turned out to be the opposite of what he portrayed. So, I have altered my list and here's the list of qualities I need in my Mr. Perfect: (I am sorry if I sound whiny. Life experience has made me a bit bitter recently)
***He should be a Christian***
1) He has to be my soulmate. I should be able to tell him every thing that's on my mind without being afraid of judgment.
2) He should know why I want to do what I want to do and understand that.
3) He should be able to understand my culture and have respect for my Parents and their beliefs even if he doesn't agree with them.
4) He shouldn't pretend to be anything he is not. I want honesty.
5) It's okay if he drinks occasionally, but no smoking. He shouldn't ever expect me to drink.
6) He should be able to provide for his family.
7) He would eat whatever I cooked no matter how badly burnt.
I would like it if he is intellectual, likes to read, wants to do well in school and likes cookies.
***He should be a Christian***
1) He has to be my soulmate. I should be able to tell him every thing that's on my mind without being afraid of judgment.
2) He should know why I want to do what I want to do and understand that.
3) He should be able to understand my culture and have respect for my Parents and their beliefs even if he doesn't agree with them.
4) He shouldn't pretend to be anything he is not. I want honesty.
5) It's okay if he drinks occasionally, but no smoking. He shouldn't ever expect me to drink.
6) He should be able to provide for his family.
7) He would eat whatever I cooked no matter how badly burnt.
I would like it if he is intellectual, likes to read, wants to do well in school and likes cookies.
L
wow to be miss perfect or mr perfect??thats really need hard work.. I had try to be perfect but still not working,, people alwys say im nice,good,polite,friendly,cheerful..i admit that im good girl cos i never smoke,never drink alcohol,never take drugs*except medicine*,hate to be rude,dont like yelling...but its still not make perfect because i cant be 100% like God ask us to do...
J
I will never be Miss Perfect, and will always be far from it, but my goal is to constantly strive toward Christ and be ever changing to be more like Him. As God called David a man after His own heart, so I want to be a woman after God's heart. I want to be a woman who fears the Lord, and who seeks Him with all of my heart.
A man who's definitely a family guy. Who isn't surprised by a womans emotional changes or if she has mood swings from time to time. Also a man that can hold his own as far as emotions go. Someone that can be the stronghold in the family when everyone else is crumbling down. An honest man, most definitely, but also a sincere and considerate gentlemen. A definite humanitarian.
I would also like a man who was into the same things as I am or half of the same things as I am into. A man who loves music as much as I do (or maybe an aspiring musician possibly a guitarist, but who's taking names here,
HELLO GOD? lol) I kind of go for that whole leather jacket, long hair, rocker look thing but I don't really boast on appearance as long as the guy treats me with love and respect. But, if he looked like Johnny Depp, who am I to complain, tehe.
I would also like a man who was into the same things as I am or half of the same things as I am into. A man who loves music as much as I do (or maybe an aspiring musician possibly a guitarist, but who's taking names here,
HELLO GOD? lol) I kind of go for that whole leather jacket, long hair, rocker look thing but I don't really boast on appearance as long as the guy treats me with love and respect. But, if he looked like Johnny Depp, who am I to complain, tehe.