Put your big boy pants on!!!!!!

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wisebeardman

wisebeardman

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Grace-Like-Rain said:
I've never seen these posts. I only see posts speaking of how you've been mistreated by women. I am not insulted by your hatred of women, but you yourself are being damaged by it, and I believe you should be discouraged from such talk at every turn. These words harm yourself and those around you who read them.

And yet bitterness is a poison, and you would do well to fight against it. Perhaps your life would be happier.

Let all bitterness and wrath and anger and clamor and slander be put away from you, along with all malice. Be kind to one another, tenderhearted, forgiving one another, as God in Christ forgave you. Ephesians 4:31,32

See to it that no one fails to obtain the grace of God; that no “root of bitterness” springs up and causes trouble, and by it many become defiled. Hebrews 12:15
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Hatred? No. very distrustful yes.

And I learned that distrust from women. So maybe it should be a lesson for women in the world. next time any woman decides to call another man ugly,good for nothing, never will amount to anything, never worth having a relationship with. it could be the straw that brakes the camels back and the world is left with another guy like me.

It really is no diferent then a pet dog in a way. that dog can be the happy,friendly dog. but take that stick and start beating on that dog, poking him, bagering him. and that dog will turn. he wont be a happy friendly dog anymore.
 
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wisebeardman said:
I am just speaking my mind. But you know it does appear that from a lot of women, that its OK for women to reject tell guys they are ugly, not good enough, ect, ect. but don't dare a guy do it.

Have I been deeply hurt? yeah. females were down right cruel to me. so cruel I finally at about 16 said forget it. and decided at that point, why even care? could of cared less if I lived or died. could care less if someone likes me or not. and I leaned don't trust anybody.

truthfully, I don't care if I live another day or not, I really do not care.
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Wisebeardman, if you don't see value in yourself, what does it even matter what women think of you, or if they reject you?

For someone who claims he doesn't care, you've made a lot of posts on how you've been burned by people, or what you perceive to be your inadequacies.

If I didn't care as much as you say you don't, I'd be out taking a lot more risks and doing a lot more things, consequences be damned. Perhaps for someone such as yourself who seems to post from a bleak viewpoint, so frequently, you could look at this at an opportunity to shake things up, since whatever it is you're doing is not working out for you.
Let's pretend you were in your idea of a perfect relationship/money wasn't an issue/perfect health/no responsibilities/whatever, what would you want to be doing with your life? If you truly have nothing to lose, go do whatever that is. You're not just a hopeless victim of your circumstances, brother.
I say this in the hopes that you realize that you do have worth --7 billion people on Earth and God knew you, personally, in the womb. Go do something. Or do nothing, keep your lamp under the bushel, and squander your life on a bunch of what ifs and regrets.
 
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Yes. I'd be drinking more water.
 
wisebeardman

wisebeardman

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Hellooo said:
Yes. I'd be drinking more water.
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I much prefer mnt dew honestly.

as for what I post, isnt that what forums is all about. people posting what they think and feel? ideas they have?

as for doing stuff, I have. only 2 things eluded me, but I gave those ideas up honestly.
one thing I did do was see the USA and Canada. I did that, only 2 states never seen were Alaska and Hawaii.. and my travels were not jumping in a car and staying at motels. it was traveling by foot or hitchhiking and sleeping under bridges or where ever else I could sleep.
 
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That's awesome WiseBeardMan,

Takes a lot of courage and go-getter to go around the country like that. Very cool. You seem like an awesome guy to me, I read a few of your posts and while some women and men may be jerks, it doesn't mean all are. It also doesn't mean that all women feel you are worthless, ugly, whatever. The truth is what they said about you doesn't define you, but defines them. It shows they are hurting themselves and don't know better. And like Jesus in mercy we say, forgive them Father for what they did. Just like He forgives us. And you.

We don't forgive people because they deserve forgiveness, but because Christ does. And He told us to forgive or we ourselves would be in torment. That's not a good place to be. When God first started talking to me about forgiveness I used to go to bed at night and ask Holy Spirit, okay God who do I need to forgive still?

And names would start coming to mind, past hurts, past wounds, things that conflicted with who God said I was. And slowly every night I would forgive them. And sometimes every night the same names would keep coming to mind. After about a month no more names came to mind. And I started to feel emotions again. I started to care again.

I still remember spontaneously crying to silly disney movies when I hadn't cried in years. God had restored my heart and taught me it was okay to be vulnerable because He will always be my Healer.

You have so much to give WiseBeardMan, the world needs what God has placed in you. You carry value. The past doesn't define your future. God's promises do. Love people like He loves you. Bless you brother.

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Oncefallen said:
I'm still trying to figure out where this modern idea of Jesus being a "nice guy" came from. The last time I checked "nice guys" aren't too prone to chase people with a whip or verbally attack those in authority who are in the wrong.
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Have you ever had to rebuke a pastor who was in the wrong? It never goes well for the watchman.
Anyway, I love your post. I agree that men should lead in matters of courtship.
 
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