hmm those rules are too complicated tourist and I dont think the layperson can understand them or follow them all.
so, to keep it simple
if you are wearing a ring, you are engaged
if you are not, you are not.
In the islands, if lady has flower over left ear, shes taken
on the right shes available.
so, for any guys out there, have a ring or flowers ready.
Honestly, dont think too hard about it. Men can talk a lot of rot but if theres no ring or flower they aint getting anywhere. A lady will only wear a ring if she agrees and she also will only accept flowers if they are given, but if you dont make the effort for any of these things, then its just all talk.