Rules of Engagement
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On a serious note: TO THE GUYS........
Be sure that the moment is a special moment for her. Regardless of the pain it might cause you. By this I mean, forget the ballgame you are missing, the nice clothes you are wearing, the flowers you bought, the romantic site you chose....... That moment when you pop the question really, really is a very special moment for her. Do not do this at Burger King or Taco Bell.........ok?
Prior to leaving to meet her, Google the definition of "romantic moment." Learn.
Be sure that the moment is a special moment for her. Regardless of the pain it might cause you. By this I mean, forget the ballgame you are missing, the nice clothes you are wearing, the flowers you bought, the romantic site you chose....... That moment when you pop the question really, really is a very special moment for her. Do not do this at Burger King or Taco Bell.........ok?
Prior to leaving to meet her, Google the definition of "romantic moment." Learn.
There is a new thread started about whether or not you should compete for the one that you're interested in. I believe that you at least should do something that shows an interest and giving yourself a chance to stand out from the crowd. I was single at the time that I created this thread and wrote the OP. Hopefully, somebody might find it useful. It's not good to be alone.
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Hopefully, some of the single members who are lonely and want someone in their lives will stop being so tentative and making excuses why they are still alone in this world. As I said earlier in many posts the fear of rejection and fear of commitment will end many prospective relationships before they even start. Also, some people are unrealistic in their approach and raise the bar so high that no one can possibly reach, waiting for all the "I's" to be dotted, the "T's" to be crossed and all the lights to be green before even considering a prospect to began a relationship with.
hmm those rules are too complicated tourist and I dont think the layperson can understand them or follow them all.
so, to keep it simple
if you are wearing a ring, you are engaged
if you are not, you are not.
In the islands, if lady has flower over left ear, shes taken
on the right shes available.
so, for any guys out there, have a ring or flowers ready.
Honestly, dont think too hard about it. Men can talk a lot of rot but if theres no ring or flower they aint getting anywhere. A lady will only wear a ring if she agrees and she also will only accept flowers if they are given, but if you dont make the effort for any of these things, then its just all talk.
so, to keep it simple
if you are wearing a ring, you are engaged
if you are not, you are not.
In the islands, if lady has flower over left ear, shes taken
on the right shes available.
so, for any guys out there, have a ring or flowers ready.
Honestly, dont think too hard about it. Men can talk a lot of rot but if theres no ring or flower they aint getting anywhere. A lady will only wear a ring if she agrees and she also will only accept flowers if they are given, but if you dont make the effort for any of these things, then its just all talk.
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