I have found not a one, that this kind of behavior did not effect. Yes some are stronger and can handle it better. For me there were 2 things I knew that would break me down. The lose of a child and the betrayal of a spouse. My Ex knew this. It took me to a very dark place. But God is good and used it to show me I could trust him. It has only been 2 years. for me and my children. As of now, no it would make no difference. That is why I have not dated. Even in the future, The answer is still no. ( Equally yoked ) There was only 1 thing I truly ever put before God, My family. Money, is not an issue, 2 hurricanes and addict parents, worldly items was never an issue for me. Things come and Go. and the Lord promise to take care of my needs. Lust is not an issue for me either. So again, no they would have to have a weakness that would not bring down the unit, if i was to date or marry them. I am not perfect. nor do I expect anyone else to be. But Lust and greed are to things that are not equally yoked to me. I had warning signs, before I married. not huge red flags, but the signs were there if I would have paid attention. I learn from my mistakes. Not being equally yoked, only brings misery and heart ache. If they want to change then they need to change before they involve someone else. I am not dating because me nor my children have not fully healed. I do not want to date someone, and he gets a call from a woman ( family, friend, co worker, ect.. ) and it makes me insecure. That would be selfish of me to put that on someone else. I need to have my life in order, before I involve someone else. We all have baggage after time, should we not deal with our unresolved baggage before you put it on a future partner???