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So let's discuss what I did on my birthday wendesday.
I got up early and for the first time in my 38 years, I got a massage. It was weird. Then I started feeling sick and had to go to the doc in the box. I picked up my kids from school. They both got me presents. My daughter got me a dvd of a cartoon she wants to watch and my son got me a lego set he wants to play with. I took them to Texas Roadhouse, where we got the worst service and food that I have ever had at that place. Usually they are good. My wife didn't go because I don't think she likes me too much. But the kids were happy.
I got up early and for the first time in my 38 years, I got a massage. It was weird. Then I started feeling sick and had to go to the doc in the box. I picked up my kids from school. They both got me presents. My daughter got me a dvd of a cartoon she wants to watch and my son got me a lego set he wants to play with. I took them to Texas Roadhouse, where we got the worst service and food that I have ever had at that place. Usually they are good. My wife didn't go because I don't think she likes me too much. But the kids were happy.
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I don't remember exactly who said I needed to find a different site for "my needs", but don't worry, I asked a moderator to delete my account on here and I'll walk out the door. You won't have to see me posting on this Christian forum again. Thanks to those who understood, and didn't judge. And thanks to those who helped. I really thought I could be a part and feel a part of this forum. Being someone who has been a little isolated lately for various reasons, still coping with the death of a loved one (my mother) and dealing with a little social pressure on this issue (now that everyone knows who the virgin girl on this forum is, I don't even care anymore, "thanks" to whoever spit it out there) I thought I could use some help. I understand that from a women's perspective they might think I am doing the wrong thing, but trust me, when there is no one you can talk to, you kind of hold onto whatever chance of help you can get. I felt questioned, judged, lectured, and so on. My identity was even questioned, some saying I might be a guy posing as a girl. And precisely because people here don't know me, I shouldn't have been judged. It's all. Just because someone just signed up on a site a few minutes ago and the first thing is posted is about that, doesn't mean they've got a different intention. Just because someone states they would like the opposite sex perspective on the matter, doesn't make them an male attention seeker looking for a creep to privately message them and it sure as hell didn't mean I didn't want women to help me. (Again, read the original post). Just because someone does not want to share a certain thing, doesn't make them someone who is hiding something else and is so suspicious because if they are not hiding anything "they could just share it publicly". There was a man who replied with what I wanted to ask, and right here so everyone could see, making me extremely uncomfortable. I kind of felt my privacy was being invaded. As a man, he could've just said " can't help you, sorry", and move onto the next thing. Yet he chose, without my consent, to let everyone know what I was asking privately, making it even worse for me, since he said something like "she's asking questions that are inappropriate and blah blah blah". I wanted the Earth to swallow me in that moment. So seeing this went on an on for a few days, my email all flooded with notifications of dozens of replies, and without having even posted anything else on here yet, I am leaving. I hope the ones who started jumping to conclusions so fast had a good time. I hope you had a good laugh. Because I didn't.
God will deal with those people galathea, i understand how you are feeling but try not to let a couple of people ruin your experience on here. There is nothing funny about the situation. What matters is you received the help you were seeking. People who ridicule the situation will be judged. You are loved just know that
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