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No problem, you didn't seem angry or anything. My Sister and I were just having this conversation a couple of weeks ago. Someone we both know has a tendency to talk about women in ways that I don't appreciate. She said, "Oh Jen, guys do that." So I said, "No they all don't do that." I know and people might think I'm naive but my Husband and the friends he will go out with once and a while, they don't talk like that. I've asked him and he has said, no. They talk about comic books and Dr. Who. I believe him. Even if they see someone attractive I know they aren't saying vulgar things about her.
I told her most Men of God don't do those things. Or they shouldn't and woman shouldn't do it either. It's disrespectful and crude.
T
Doctor Who! Love it!
I'm no angel. I do sometimes get frustrated with girls and how they communicate so differently than us guys. I like blunt, straight-to-the-point communication. And that's not always possible.
I do sometimes get frustrated with girls who talk a lot and say little (if you know what I mean) but I try to keep my thoughts to myself. And while I'm tempted as much as any guy to check out girls, I don't, because it's objectifying them. It's quite tricky to get some of my friends to understand that "look but don't touch", isn't an innocent mantra. I try my best to respect girls but I don't always succeed. Thank God for forgiveness.
I'm no angel. I do sometimes get frustrated with girls and how they communicate so differently than us guys. I like blunt, straight-to-the-point communication. And that's not always possible.
I do sometimes get frustrated with girls who talk a lot and say little (if you know what I mean) but I try to keep my thoughts to myself. And while I'm tempted as much as any guy to check out girls, I don't, because it's objectifying them. It's quite tricky to get some of my friends to understand that "look but don't touch", isn't an innocent mantra. I try my best to respect girls but I don't always succeed. Thank God for forgiveness.
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"Fear is easy, but love is hard." - Jason Gray
If I could fight with a song, I'm fighting this one. It causes such a war within me. Struggling to let a heart that's been broken love again. I want to love again. Not a romantic love, but just love itself. It's hard knowing the love of Jesus yet knowing I'm holding back.
If I could fight with a song, I'm fighting this one. It causes such a war within me. Struggling to let a heart that's been broken love again. I want to love again. Not a romantic love, but just love itself. It's hard knowing the love of Jesus yet knowing I'm holding back.
I think it important to listen to each others stories, and make sure as best as possible to really hear without condemnation or interruption. I see much learni ng to be accomplished from and through each other. God gave me two ears to listen twice as much as I speak, I am still a work in progress. Learning to fully listen before saying what I see as well
Random life updates from iTOREtheSKY #9827341
Hi all! Just taking a moment to let everyone know I survived my nearly 14hr trip to NY.
So yeah. Here I am. Sitting here alone in my friends apartment while he's at work,and grateful in a way to be far from Maine,but still feeling displaced...trying to put on a brave face.
He's not a Christian...actually he doesn't believe in God,but he's always been one of those people that is "ok" with me being a Christian. lol I guess 'cause I've never tried to be all preachy at him or whatever. I think he's one of those well if there is a God then...yadda yadda yadda? Being back here is pretty unsettling in an odd way. Thing's have changed around here for sure,as to be expected.
So yeah,I don't know what I'm saying...I'm just sad...for many reasons...none of which I will go into. Thing's will pan out eventually. I won't be here long. God is faithful.
Just wanted to say hi.
So I clean, do laundry, wash dishes and whatever I can do with my disabilities I am diagnosed with
Go ITORE go, brother, just bloom wherever you are planted
M
Everyone has the right to their own opinion whether we agree or not, If I asked God to take away free choice, that would mean for mine to be taken away. So I say, thank you for free choice and I agree with you, God uses who God wants because God does not see in the flesh, rather the Spirit where there is no male, female, Jew or Greek
God just loves us all, This is what I see
God just loves us all, This is what I see
After being settled ans seeing God's lov e that casts out all fear, the opposite of waht you said is true
Love is easy and fear is not
1 John 4:18
There is no fear in love; but perfectlove casteth out fear: because fear hath torment. He that feareth is not made perfect in love.
Love is easy and fear is not
1 John 4:18
There is no fear in love; but perfectlove casteth out fear: because fear hath torment. He that feareth is not made perfect in love.
Unfortunately, a lot of people are taught to love their neighbor as self in the way of lying
to not hurt their feelings, actually excusing lying to our neighbor.
And when one finds out you lied, are they hurt deeper than if one told the truth to begin with. And are we going to say I did it to not hurt you? What a crock
Tell truth, and say when the other acts upset over it. Ask then would you rather me lie?
There are many untruths preached and much misleading taught that harms us not edifies us.
to not hurt their feelings, actually excusing lying to our neighbor.
And when one finds out you lied, are they hurt deeper than if one told the truth to begin with. And are we going to say I did it to not hurt you? What a crock
Tell truth, and say when the other acts upset over it. Ask then would you rather me lie?
There are many untruths preached and much misleading taught that harms us not edifies us.