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CatHerder

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Mar 20, 2013
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#61
1. Pride - I'm with you on this one.

2. Swearing - An occasional four letter word is one thing - in a weird way, I may even appreciate it from a brother or sister in Christ every now and again because I feel that they trust that I am open enough for them to feel that they can be "real" around me, but dropping the f-bomb every other word is just plain low class. I also cringe inside whenever I hear "God" as a swear word.

3. ummmmm.......I can't think of a third one. I guess I'm pretty easy going......maybe women who scrapbook.....or vegetarians.
.......oh, and women who chew gum with their mouths open, or making that crackling sound when they chew gum. I don't know why they do that. I have never heard a man do that when they chew gum.
5? I guess I'm on 5 - saying "irregardless."

6. If she does not laugh during "Young Frankenstein," I will dump her. A sense of humor which is somewhat compatible with mine is important.

7. Narcissism.
 
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Bryancampbell

Guest
#63
A woman who doesn't have a mind of her own and does what ever she listens to....huge turn off lol
 

BillyTheKid

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Feb 17, 2009
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#64
My biggest turn-off......
When a woman says she is going to cook dinner and I hear the microwave beep. Also, putting the tp on the roll backwards, same with paper towels, and leaving cabinet doors open. Other than that I am pretty.good at ignoring things :p oh and I hate cats, so when a woman says she has cats that kills my interest.
 
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blueorchidjd

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#65
Peeves
-Self righteousness/ Not Leaning on God's word
- Shifty/ Lusty eyes
-Fast to anger
-Degrading speech
-Lacks sense of humor
-Legalist mentality
-Slanders Others.
-Inability to try new things.
-Manipulation
-Dishonesty
-Neutrality to important issues
 
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Bryancampbell

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#66
My biggest turn-off......
When a woman says she is going to cook dinner and I hear the microwave beep. Also, putting the tp on the roll backwards, same with paper towels, and leaving cabinet doors open. Other than that I am pretty.good at ignoring things :p oh and I hate cats, so when a woman says she has cats that kills my interest.
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Dude just just no....
 
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Bryancampbell

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#67
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agirlandherguitar

Guest
#68
I'll skip the whole "if he's not a man of God" answer since that's an OBVIOUS.

I'll just share what I don't like from experience:

1) Grabby! If you're a Grabby Gus then noooo thanks. Don't grab my boobs or butt whenever you want. Not for you! Down, boy! Or out comes the spray bottle!

2) Doesn't like animals. I love animals, all animals, big and small. Everyone has their reasons but the people I've met who don't like animals tend to be not that compassionate. Don't want to lump them together but that's just what I've noticed.

3) Not generous. Basically if he's tight with his money and gripes and moans when he spends something that's a dollar more than something else just REALLY irks me. People have too tight a hold on money.

4) Straight face. I don't like it when it's hard to make somebody smile. They rarely laugh and everything they say is delivered in a deadpan manner. I like an easygoing guy who doesn't take everything so seriously and can just laugh and be a goofball. If he's not there emotionally I can't be comfortable around him.

5) Gamer. I'm sorry guys. Video games are fun part of the time and it's fine to sit back and play for an hour every so often but if he's a hardcore gamer and he'd rather spend his evenings in his man cave playing WoW then spend time with me then it's not gonna work.

I could think of more but it's not that fun thinking of things I don't like about a potential mate :\
 

BillyTheKid

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Feb 17, 2009
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#69
I could think of more but it's not that fun thinking of things I don't like about a potential mate :\
I think it is a really good idea to think of things. There is nothing worse than NOT thinking about it, then realizeing there are a ton of things that you just don't like about the person. Better to be prepared imo.
 
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agirlandherguitar

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#71
I think it is a really good idea to think of things. There is nothing worse than NOT thinking about it, then realizeing there are a ton of things that you just don't like about the person. Better to be prepared imo.
It's okay to think of things and not to dwell on them. There are some obvious turn offs but there may be some that you think would bother you until you're in the situation and it could turn into something endearing. Or you could find out some real turn offs that you didn't know existed until somebody did something. It's all circumstantial, my friends!
 

starfield

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Jun 13, 2009
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#72
What r the things that drive u crazy about the opposite sex or the things that is a deal breaker in a relationship?For me it's smoking, drinking, and pride.
Well, not a deal breaker but rather a pet peeve is being afraid of cooking, or worse, can't cook without setting off the smoke alarm. :rolleyes:
 
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MissCris

Guest
#73
Any form of removing mucus from one's sinuses that does not involve a tissue.

The moment I see anybody- ANYBODY- performing the "farmer blow", I know that person can no longer be allowed to exist in my world.
 
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twill

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#75
I don't see how this would work for you. You would never experience any real intimacy. It would be all fake, wait that's like some relationships out there.
Would you want them to take the make-up off when you're out and about? There are many mimes out there, make sure you pick the right one and let us know how it turns out.

I said DATING a mime.

Not MARRYING a mime.

DATING a mime.

And you do realize it's a job, not a lifestyle, right?
 

rachelsedge

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Oct 15, 2012
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#76
I actually thought twill was just joking, hence the gif she posted...

ETA: Fun fact, I realized I was pronouncing "gif" wrong last week. My brother lovingly corrected me. :)
 
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twill

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#77
I actually thought twill was just joking, hence the gif she posted...

ETA: Fun fact, I realized I was pronouncing "gif" wrong last week. My brother lovingly corrected me. :)
I kind of was. In hindsight, dating a mime probably would be interesting.
 

maxwel

Senior Member
Apr 18, 2013
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#78

I said DATING a mime.

Not MARRYING a mime.

DATING a mime.

And you do realize it's a job, not a lifestyle, right?

Such MIME HATE!

They just want to be loved for who they think they are... and what they try to say but can't.

They would have so much to teach us... if we could just stop pushing them off their imaginary tightropes.

For the innocent, those who live in imaginary worlds, we should protect them at all costs...
we should shower them with imaginary love, and guard them with imaginary laws.

Why does there have to be such hate?

Why?

Oh why?
 
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twill

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#79
Such MIME HATE!

They just want to be loved for who they think they are... and what they try to say but can't.

They would have so much to teach us... if we could just stop pushing them off their imaginary tightropes.

For the innocent, those who live in imaginary worlds, we should protect them at all costs...
we should shower them with imaginary love, and guard them with imaginary laws.

Why does there have to be such hate?

Why?

Oh why?