I guess I'd like to add a question.... "If you saw someone dehydrating from a lack of water, but it's a good distance and a big effort to get them a cup of water would you go out of your way to keep the person from dying?" When I was married my love cup was empty, the needs were never met, so I was a thristing, dehydrating person, begging for a even a drop of water, which left me continueously lonely. When a love language isn't being met the person feels starved for affection and attention, which leaves them vulruable to temptation. It's very important to meet a spouses love language. Love dies from a lack of pouring the water of their love language on them. They can be either be a blooming flower or a wilting, dying flower. What type of flower do you want? If you pour soft water which taste good, but isn't what the flower needs it will kill it, but hard water has just what the flower needs and it will thrive and live! On the most part, when it is a good man I've seen when they love a woman and when she is loving him and treating him with respect, he will do everything within his power that he can do for her and it is a beautiful thing to behold. I want that <3.