Can married people post on the singles forum???
I can tell you what attracted me to my husband back in the day, 25 years ago, but I think it's still significant in today's world.
He was willing to kill spiders for me LOL!
Seriously though....
Yeah, that is kind of true.
He was rugged, yet clean cut. (There's something to be said for flannel and a pair of jeans.)
Patience was very important to me, no bad temper.
Was willing to accept my apologies without rehashing my mistake.
Was willing to apologize when he was wrong.
Admitted his shortcomings and didn't pretend to know something he didn't know. He was confident in the strengths and knowledge he already had.
But first and foremost he attended church with me. All of the above wouldn't have mattered otherwise.
Now, let me add some things that would have been the icing on the cake.....
Communication skills..... He's a closed book.
Affection. A hug goes a long way, as does hand holding and a simple touch.
Compliments are important. A "you look nice today" can mean a lot.
Just some things I personally like.