What are some of your biggest turnoffs?

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Lanolin

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well that narrows it all down to the needle in a haystack.
What I would do is ask God to blow the haystack away and get the strongest magnet or metal detector I could find to get this needle.

Surely it wont take as long as trying to pick through every straw.
 

Lanolin

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I had thought about this again.

Biggest turn off. When he says he's massive Star Wars fan and starts quoting everything in Yoda language. He thinks you should dress up as Princess Leia. NOOOO!
 

Prycejosh1987

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It depends there are physical turnoffs and there are personal turn offs. I am not too fussy to be honest. I tolerate a lot.
 

Camess

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Drinking alcohol of any kind (stupidity)
Smoking
Cussing/dirty talk/foul"jokes"
Chewing tobacco (disgusting!)
Speeding (dangerous)
Short temper
Tatoos/piercings/unnatural hair color
Controlling personality
 

kinda

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When they ask about prior relationships.

When they are single.

When they are beautiful.....This is like a red flag...Major!

When they ask relationship questions.

Yeah. I see so much freedom in being single, not sure why people sign up for relationships. Have fun with that!


 
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CozHElivesIcanface2morrow

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When they ask about prior relationships.

When they are single.

When they are beautiful.....This is like a red flag...Major!

When they ask relationship questions.

Yeah. I see so much freedom in being single, not sure why people sign up for relationships. Have fun with that!



May i ask, why being beautiful is a red flag? Or a biggest turn off?
 

kinda

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May i ask, why being beautiful is a red flag? Or a biggest turn off?


You know that old saying, looks are deceiving?

Genesis 3

6 When the woman saw that the fruit of the tree was good for food and pleasing to the eye, and also desirable for gaining wisdom, she took some and ate it.

2 Corinthians 11

14 And no marvel; for Satan himself is transformed into an angel of light.
 

Lighthearted

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We all have flaws. At this point in my life there are things that are absolutely important. Does anyone think these are too harsh?
1) True faith in God
2) Forgiveness and Empathy in any valleys for one another.
3) Pray together that you always give one another your best each and every opportunity you have to uplift each other. A smile, a laugh, a kiss.
I found out this exists.
 
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CozHElivesIcanface2morrow

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You know that old saying, looks are deceiving?

Genesis 3

6 When the woman saw that the fruit of the tree was good for food and pleasing to the eye, and also desirable for gaining wisdom, she took some and ate it.

2 Corinthians 11

14 And no marvel; for Satan himself is transformed into an angel of light.

Neither of those verses have anything to do with beauty being a "red flag" as if daughters of God cant be beautiful.
 

kinda

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Neither of those verses have anything to do with beauty being a "red flag" as if daughters of God cant be beautiful.
You know your so right. You know what else? They don't mention red flags either in those verses.
 

JosephH

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Worldliness,obsession with social media status,overconfidence.
 

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non stockings
 

She_is_Legendary

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I can handle a lot, I’ve dated a few different personalities... but the biggest one thing that I can NOT do... is being disrespectful towards myself or my family. Meaning my mom or my brother or my relatives. I know kind of odd right? 😏. But you would be surprised how “judged” people get when they find out about my family and how I was raised. You can’t change who your family is, but you CAN change your friends.

There, my 2 cents.
 

Going_Nowhere

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I know kind of odd right? 😏
Not at all. If you really love your family, it makes sense why you wouldn't want people showing disrespect to them. I wouldn't want people showing disrespect to my family members either.


People can disrespect me all they want, but please leave my family alone.
 

Lanolin

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Goes without saying....racists
and
dissing where you are from...which is kinda the same thing sometimes. People that come to my hometown and then diss it or complain about it. Ok then why are you STAYING then. People that grow up in hometowns often have no choice but to stay because of family ties or whatver, but people who *didnt* grow up there actually have a choice to stay or leave.

And if you are complaining about stuff what are you actually DOING to improve things.