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She had a bunch of slaves. Here men want to play video games and you can work and be the perfect housewife. My ex: oh his new wife is such a virtuous housewife. Ehm yeah well she doesn't have to work because you finally took a job. Wow. If I have nothing to do I turn into a cleaner too out of pure boredom.
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I agree when God teaches you about growing into a man a husband and let's you know who your future spouse is your focus will be to love God and her as God had been teaching me about my future spouse I m soo much more focused on loving him and but putting God first when God shows u your spouse this what happens its not about us shes not miss perfect. Forgive women re: feminism you need to love your wife . whenever God is involved its about laying down our lives for others
I'm not sure it's even useful to know what "most" men look for in a woman. After all, you're not going to date "most" men...nor will you marry "most" men. Additionally, I think it's silly to try to shape oneself to fit some "most."
Your best bet is to become the woman that God is calling you to be. Don't worry about pleasing men. Worry about pleasing God. You may or may not marry. It's your relationship with God that is going to be the most significant in your lifetime.
And really, it's a win-win. If you build a strong relationship with God and never marry...no worries, you're tight with God. If you build a strong relationship with God and marry...no worries, your strong relationship with God will only make you a better wife.
Your best bet is to become the woman that God is calling you to be. Don't worry about pleasing men. Worry about pleasing God. You may or may not marry. It's your relationship with God that is going to be the most significant in your lifetime.
And really, it's a win-win. If you build a strong relationship with God and never marry...no worries, you're tight with God. If you build a strong relationship with God and marry...no worries, your strong relationship with God will only make you a better wife.
I can speak only for myself, and I'm not even sure I can answer fairly. I have not started dating since my marriage ended, so most of my answer, particularly about personality, would describe what my ex wasn't.
What will I look for when the time comes to look? Aside from externals (yes they do matter, no they aren't the final arbiter), of course, she must believe in Jesus. I think that owning responsibility for wrongdoing would be a very significant positive trait, as would evidence of and desire for growth in her Christian walk. I would want to see that she takes disappointments from others to the Lord. I'd want to see good fruit (of the Spirit) in her life. Openness to communicating and working through issues would be important. She must understand biblical forgiveness, because I will fail at times, as will she.
JustViv... is there some context behind this question?
What will I look for when the time comes to look? Aside from externals (yes they do matter, no they aren't the final arbiter), of course, she must believe in Jesus. I think that owning responsibility for wrongdoing would be a very significant positive trait, as would evidence of and desire for growth in her Christian walk. I would want to see that she takes disappointments from others to the Lord. I'd want to see good fruit (of the Spirit) in her life. Openness to communicating and working through issues would be important. She must understand biblical forgiveness, because I will fail at times, as will she.
JustViv... is there some context behind this question?
Wow iam out of that 
i hv no quality mentioned above
I must find the one that will be accepted me in my weakneses coz i will do the same to him n let him be himself
i hv no quality mentioned above I must find the one that will be accepted me in my weakneses coz i will do the same to him n let him be himself
P.S. She hasn't even offered to make me a sammich until now. This is all hogwash. jk jk
Galatians 6:2 Carry each other's burdens, and in this way you will fulfill the law of Christ.
Proverbs 15:22 Plans fail for lack of counsel (in another translation counsel is replaced with advice), but with many advisers they succeed.
As much as I agree with a lot of what you said, I'm sure we can give each other G-dly advice. She also implicitly asked for advice in her op.
Proverbs 15:22 Plans fail for lack of counsel (in another translation counsel is replaced with advice), but with many advisers they succeed.
As much as I agree with a lot of what you said, I'm sure we can give each other G-dly advice. She also implicitly asked for advice in her op.