We've all seen plenty of threads here that either start off, or end up on the topic of us men wanting Godly, emotionally stable, intelligent women that dress modestly, have similar interests, etc. and the ladies commenting that it seems that men don't prove it by actually getting involved with that type of woman.
So the question is, what's holding us back? I'm sure most of us have met a couple of ladies that fit the idea of the "perfect woman" that we hold in our head, but haven't pursued her. Has it been due to fear of rejection, feelings of inadequacy, thinking that an other guy showing her attention is better for her, etc? It kinda hit me hard over the weekend that many of us guys sell ourselves short and miss out on some great Godly women (at least I have) because of this sort of thing.
Proverbs 31:10 NIV A wife of noble character who can find? She is worth far more than rubies.
The thought came to mind that if someone told us where we could find a huge monetary treasure many of us would research the evidence and, if it was credible, take off in pursuit of it. I don't think any of us would think to ourselves, "well I just don't deserve that kind of wealth, or "that other guy deserves it more." Yet when we find a Godly woman who Solomon says is worth more than monetary treasure rather than pursue, we do this very thing and sell ourselves short.
So the question is, what's holding us back? I'm sure most of us have met a couple of ladies that fit the idea of the "perfect woman" that we hold in our head, but haven't pursued her. Has it been due to fear of rejection, feelings of inadequacy, thinking that an other guy showing her attention is better for her, etc? It kinda hit me hard over the weekend that many of us guys sell ourselves short and miss out on some great Godly women (at least I have) because of this sort of thing.
Proverbs 31:10 NIV A wife of noble character who can find? She is worth far more than rubies.
The thought came to mind that if someone told us where we could find a huge monetary treasure many of us would research the evidence and, if it was credible, take off in pursuit of it. I don't think any of us would think to ourselves, "well I just don't deserve that kind of wealth, or "that other guy deserves it more." Yet when we find a Godly woman who Solomon says is worth more than monetary treasure rather than pursue, we do this very thing and sell ourselves short.