Where are the Lines Between a Compliment, Flirting, and Just Plain Creepy?

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seoulsearch

OutWrite Trouble
May 23, 2009
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#21
no body stalks me anymore :( LOL

I guess that's what I need to find, a guy who actually ENJOYS being stalked... er, pursued... er, casually surveyed. :)
 
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missy2shoes

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#22
Now....THAT'S CREEPY!!! LOL.......uhmmmm that was to Sam's previous comment lol
 
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SamIam

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#23
hahahahahahhaa...... what can i say....... im just all around creepy
 
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Groundhog

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#24
I make it one of my goals in life to be as un-creepy as possible. I hope I succeed. We ugly guys don't need any more reasons for women to dislike us. :)
 
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missy2shoes

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#25
awwwwww lol
 

Kakashi

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Being proposed to for your height and hand preference, and a thread being dedicated to you, also, being nudged and called "dock" while being winked at constantly might be crossing the line. but that hasn't happened to me....oh wait..yes it has DUN DUN DUNNNN!!!

* note: I strangly didn't think those things were that weird which says alot about me lol*
 
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MusicalMe

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Alright guys... I've been trying to come up with another comment to this thread all night because it will be my 100th post and nothing has been coming to me. So I'm just going to post about nothing and here it is.

Anne's 100th post!!! Yay!!!

Am I a senior member now?
 
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pinkstix56

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#28
I think it all depends on what your standards are. If you let that person know from the beginning where you are coming from , and what your standards are and that you respect yourself and that you consider the person nothing but a friend etc. Then I think in most cases things go smoother.
 
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pinkstix56

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#29
Oh my goodness.... i'm a senior member lol ..ooh wow i feel so cool lol
 
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Narn

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#30
I guess that's what I need to find, a guy who actually ENJOYS being stalked... er, pursued... er, casually surveyed. :)
Eh.. I had two "casual Surveyors" it was whatever until they like posted their successes on facebook... then I was not cool with the whole being stalked thing. I am probably being watched right now...
 

Sharp

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I used to have a casual surveyor. This girl used to hang around outside the pizza shop where I worked and wait for me to come back from deliveries and smile at me, trying to act like she was there for some other reason besides me, when she was there almost every day. Although she was way too young, I was flattered by the attention, and very impressed by her unwavering commitment, which is why I don't understand why girls don't like being st...uh I mean casually surveyed.
 
Jan 8, 2009
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I drew the line at say 10 SMS's a day. Any more than that is considered stalking IMO. If you can't say what you have to say in 10 SMS's then don't say it at all. Tell me tomorrow. Or else stop bugging me!!

Now that's for internet dating.

In real life, same rules, but maybe a bit more flexible. 20 SMS per day. 2 phone calls maximum. No weird creepy faces.
 
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Stalk between the hours of 3 and 5 pm only. Outside of those times is no-gone zone. Cone of silence.
 
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sorry, I should have expressed my opinion better. I have a few guidelines for stalkers or would-be stalkers.

Rule number 1. You can look, but don't touch.
Rule number 2. Stalk between the hours of 3 and 5 pm only. Outside of those times is no-gone zone. Cone of silence.
Rule number 3. Don't draw unnecessary public attention to yourself (or myself).
Rule number 4. No group stalks, i.e. don't bring your friends.
Rule number 5. If you are Egyptian, don't treat me like a pyramid. I'm not your tourist attraction.
Rule number 6. If you aren't an Egyptian, then don't bother me with trivial facts about pyramids.
Rule number 7. Don't forget rules 1.-7.
 
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missy2shoes

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I drew the line at say 10 SMS's a day. Any more than that is considered stalking IMO. If you can't say what you have to say in 10 SMS's then don't say it at all. Tell me tomorrow. Or else stop bugging me!!

Now that's for internet dating.

In real life, same rules, but maybe a bit more flexible. 20 SMS per day. 2 phone calls maximum. No weird creepy faces.
Define....weird creepy faces ;)
 
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hmm, bulging eyes, staring look, dilated pupils, profuse salivation, twisted grin, sadistic snarls. etc. *shudders* You get the idea, hopefully :).
 
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missy2shoes

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#37
Yup :p :p...........on the whole texting thing.......this is what I do.....I don't text fullstop..........I hate texting...........
 
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SamIam

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#38
I drew the line at say 10 SMS's a day. Any more than that is considered stalking IMO. If you can't say what you have to say in 10 SMS's then don't say it at all. Tell me tomorrow. Or else stop bugging me!!

Now that's for internet dating.

In real life, same rules, but maybe a bit more flexible. 20 SMS per day. 2 phone calls maximum. No weird creepy faces.

sms?????????
 
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missy2shoes

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#39
SMS = short message service ie texting ;)
 
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SamIam

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#40
ohhhh text messages!!!