Why am I having so much of a problem getting a good Christian girlfriend?
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You said in your first post that you don't even have female friends...i.e. the girls who hang out with you don't even consider you as a friend. You also said that you're shy and have low self confidence.
Seems like your problem is more than just about getting a girlfriend. Its also about socializing and making friends with girls your age.
You've already accepted that you're shy and suffer with low self confidence. Admitting it is the first step. The next step is to work on it. Now there are a lot of people who'll tell you about different ways to overcome this. But it all comes down to you taking the "risk" and facing your fears.
Work on overcoming your shyness. Do things that will help you boost your self confidence. Approach random girls and talk to them. They won't be very receptive at first, some may even think you're a creep....but that's okay. You're just doing this to get the shyness off of your system. And the more confident you get in talking to girls, the more receptive they'll become.
Wish you all the best.
Cheers!
Seems like your problem is more than just about getting a girlfriend. Its also about socializing and making friends with girls your age.
You've already accepted that you're shy and suffer with low self confidence. Admitting it is the first step. The next step is to work on it. Now there are a lot of people who'll tell you about different ways to overcome this. But it all comes down to you taking the "risk" and facing your fears.
Work on overcoming your shyness. Do things that will help you boost your self confidence. Approach random girls and talk to them. They won't be very receptive at first, some may even think you're a creep....but that's okay. You're just doing this to get the shyness off of your system. And the more confident you get in talking to girls, the more receptive they'll become.
Wish you all the best.
Cheers!
