Why do christian woman prefer a non-christian husband?

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If you listened to any of the advice given to you maybe you wouldn't be forced into singlehood.
i am not negative outside of this forum.

i dont want hints and tips on how to get "better" because no woman can accept me because of all those flaws i have. what i want is hints and tips on how to accept a forced singelhood because i dont feel called to celibate.
 

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i am not negative outside of this forum.

i dont want hints and tips on how to get "better" because no woman can accept me because of all those flaws i have. what i want is hints and tips on how to accept a forced singelhood because i dont feel called to celibate.
You just proved my point. You make it out like you'd rather wallow in slef pity. No one can help you with it if that's the way you choose to be. Have a good evening
 

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nope sharia teaches that homosexuality is a sin but that they should be left alone. and transexuals are respected in islam.
While sharia already has a foot in our door in the matter of minor disputes
like inheritance and domestic violence, it should concern you that sharia:

commands that drinkers and gamblers should be whipped;
allows husbands to hit their wives;
allows an injured plaintiff to exact legal revenge, literally an eye for an eye;
commands that a thief must have a hand cut off;
commands that homosexuals must be executed;
orders unmarried fornicators to be whipped, and adulterers to be stoned to death;
orders death for both Muslim and non Muslim critics of Muhammad, the
Qur'an, and even sharia itself;
orders
apostates to be killed; commands offensive, aggressive, and unjust jihad.

As written in the Qur'an, sharia is the law of Allah; any other form
of government is a sin. It is the duty of every Muslim to keep striving
until all governments have been converted to sharia law.


bible say kill the gays.
Christians are commanded not to murder. We are commanded to love our enemy. You are pretty twisted in what you believe about Christianity, and deceived and/or seeking to deceive concerning what Islam teaches.
 
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how can you call yourself a christian while lying like this ? you know very much that i am very very ugly....(you saw my picture).

telling the truth about christian women and islam do not make me a bad person.
You are accusing Kim of lying especially when it was her personal opinion?! You are low. Idk what game you are playing but it seems like nobody is interested in playing it with you. Maybe find somewhere else to play it. Don't blame other people for the way YOU see yourself because the two have nothing to do with each other. You seriously need to get a psychological evaluation because something is definitely not right with your head and you need to find Jesus. As far as the answer to your OP, I am attracted to Christian men who confess their faith and live that life so not all women look for guys who are not Christian. It is not fair to assume anything about anyone
 
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You just proved my point. You make it out like you'd rather wallow in slef pity. No one can help you with it if that's the way you choose to be. Have a good evening
i dont have any self pity, i started a thread weeks ago about how i can copy with forced singelhood, ever since then you people keep bringing it up in threads where its off-topic. this thread is not about me its about christian women choosing non-christian husbands at large scale and why is that so.

there is no help for me and therefore i do not want it, all of your tips and hints is not working since i already tried them. tell me instead how to accept forced singelhood and i will listen.
 
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You are accusing Kim of lying especially when it was her personal opinion?! You are low. Idk what game you are playing but it seems like nobody is interested in playing it with you. Maybe find somewhere else to play it. Don't blame other people for the way YOU see yourself because the two have nothing to do with each other. You seriously need to get a psychological evaluation because something is definitely not right with your head and you need to find Jesus. As far as the answer to your OP, I am attracted to Christian men who confess their faith and live that life so not all women look for guys who are not Christian. It is not fair to assume anything about anyone
she is lying because no woman ever wanted me not even as a friend, so how then can she say that i am not very very ugly? if you go your whole life with never getting any attention from woman then something must be wrong...

there is no games being played, you are paranoid.
 

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i dont have any self pity, i started a thread weeks ago about how i can copy with forced singelhood, ever since then you people give bringing it up in threads where its off-topic. this thread is not about me its about christian women choosing non-christian husbands at large scale and why is that so.

there is no help for me and therefore i do not want it, all of your tips and hints is not working since i already tried them. tell me instead how to accept forced singelhood and i will listen.
Maybe we'd better take this back to Square One.

Are you even aware of what self-pity is, and why it's so unattractive?

In your opening statement, you claim that you don't have any self-pity, and yet, your concluding statements are flooded with it.

It seems that you aren't even aware of what the term means, or rather, you won't accept it.
 

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i dont have any self pity, i started a thread weeks ago about how i can copy with forced singelhood, ever since then you people keep bringing it up in threads where its off-topic. this thread is not about me its about christian women choosing non-christian husbands at large scale and why is that so.

there is no help for me and therefore i do not want it, all of your tips and hints is not working since i already tried them. tell me instead how to accept forced singelhood and i will listen.
Nobody says it better than God's book.

[h=1]Matthew 6:33 English Standard Version (ESV)[/h]
[SUP]33 [/SUP]But seek first the kingdom of God and his righteousness, and all these things will be added to you.
 
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Maybe we'd better take this back to Square One.

Are you even aware of what self-pity is, and why it's so unattractive?

In your opening statement, you claim that you don't have any self-pity, and yet, your concluding statements are flooded with it.

It seems that you aren't even aware of what the term means, or rather, you won't accept it.
saying the truth is not self-pity. if you complain about pain in the foot, does that mean that you hate yourself? nah.
 
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Nobody says it better than God's book.

Matthew 6:33 English Standard Version (ESV)

[SUP]33 [/SUP]But seek first the kingdom of God and his righteousness, and all these things will be added to you.
so god will delete my 100+ flaws?
 
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she is lying because no woman ever wanted me not even as a friend, so how then can she say that i am not very very ugly? if you go your whole life with never getting any attention from woman then something must be wrong...

there is no games being played, you are paranoid.
It's in how you approach life. If you approach any situation saying to yourself that you are ugly and no one wants you...guess what?! You just spoke that into reality. If you keep saying such negative comments about yourself no one will want to be around you, no man or woman would want that. I firmly believe in speaking positive affirmations at myself every day when I look in the mirror (I know, it's a bit corny but it works). When God created everything, he created it without flaws, being perfect and sin and disease entered the Garden. You are Gods creation and he created you the way you are meant to be and that is beautifully and wonderfully made. When you start comparing yourself to these people on tv you are being envious and that is a sin and that has caused you to have a warped sense of yourself. You are awesome and you have a purpose in Christ. Declare you are a son of the most high God and no doubt or the enemy can change that. It sounds like you are dealing with severe depression, which is an imbalance of the brain and it may be worth getting checked out
 
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It's in how you approach life. If you approach any situation saying to yourself that you are ugly and no one wants you...guess what?! You just spoke that into reality. If you keep saying such negative comments about yourself no one will want to be around you, no man or woman would want that. I firmly believe in speaking positive affirmations at myself every day when I look in the mirror (I know, it's a bit corny but it works). When God created everything, he created it without flaws, being perfect and sin and disease entered the Garden. You are Gods creation and he created you the way you are meant to be and that is beautifully and wonderfully made. When you start comparing yourself to these people on tv you are being envious and that is a sin and that has caused you to have a warped sense of yourself. You are awesome and you have a purpose in Christ. Declare you are a son of the most high God and no doubt or the enemy can change that. It sounds like you are dealing with severe depression, which is an imbalance of the brain and it may be worth getting checked out
how many people have 100+ flaws, very few. i am forced to live in singelhood because of this.
 

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i dont have any self pity, i started a thread weeks ago about how i can copy with forced singelhood, ever since then you people keep bringing it up in threads where its off-topic. this thread is not about me its about christian women choosing non-christian husbands at large scale and why is that so.

there is no help for me and therefore i do not want it, all of your tips and hints is not working since i already tried them. tell me instead how to accept forced singelhood and i will listen.
saying the truth is not self-pity. if you complain about pain in the foot, does that mean that you hate yourself? nah.
One of the tips many of us would give you for coping with singlehood (because many of us have been single for a long time) is to get out there, start some hobbies, join some groups, do some volunteer work, participate in Bible studies, and make some friends.

But obviously, you aren't open to even trying to do any of that.

You'll just tell us that everyone will reject you because of how ugly you are, then wonder why you're not making friends, and say that it's everyone else's fault because they're being shallow.

Sigh.

And here we go, round and round the mountain yet again.

Best wishes to you, Jovanivic.

May God speak to your heart, because the rest of us obviously just can't get through to you.
 
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how many people have 100+ flaws, very few. i am forced to live in singelhood because of this.
Interesting?! I can bet everyone on here could come up with about a couple hundred flaws about themselves because I do. The key is, not allowing these flaws to define who you are, let God take care of that and embrace them and know that's what adds to your personality and what makes you different. And trust me, being different is not at all a bad thing
 
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One of the tips many of us would give you for coping with singlehood (because many of us have been single for a long time) is to get out there, start some hobbies, join some groups, do some volunteer work, participate in Bible studies, and make some friends.

But obviously, you aren't open to even trying to do any of that.

You'll just tell us that everyone will reject you because of how ugly you are, then wonder why you're not making friends, and say that it's everyone else's fault because they're being shallow.

Sigh.

And here we go, round and round the mountain yet again.

Best wishes to you, Jovanivic.

May God speak to your heart, because the rest of us obviously just can't get through to you.
i dont want to try to get a woman because i know it will never work, there is people on this forum who tried their whole life without any sucess so how could there be hope for me.
 
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Forget it he's trolling in another forum too so just leave him to kick his self out.
 
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Interesting?! I can bet everyone on here could come up with about a couple hundred flaws about themselves because I do. The key is, not allowing these flaws to define who you are, let God take care of that and embrace them and know that's what adds to your personality and what makes you different. And trust me, being different is not at all a bad thing
nope, i never seen anyone come up with 100+ flaws on internet.

the flaws are me since they are a part of me.

god do no delete physical flaws and neither does he make someone smart and funny.

my personality is robot.

i am different in a very bad way....
 

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You could just admit you are wrong instead of falsely accusing and resorting to your usual logical fallacy/ad hom attack :) Well, that would be the Christian thing to do. However, I highly doubt you are a Christian.
 
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