Break up

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Maddijanex

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Hi there. I started dating my boyfriend a year ago today and we live 2 hours away from each other and both graduated school last year and are in full time jobs long distance relationships are definitely not easy but both being Christians we put boundaries into our relationship so nothing can harm it. We see each other 1-2 times a month and I feel it grows our relationship.
Relationships aren’t easy and take time to develop. I think today’s generation is completely different to 30 so years ago what I’m saying is growing up as a teenager in this world is hard and there will be those temptations for us but that doesn’t mean god won’t forgive us as I honestly believe he knows how hard it is for us in this generation and even though we should not sin no one is perfect. If I was you I would not get your self woken up on this boy I would move on with my life and live the best life I possibly can have because at the end of the day he is the one who left you.
 
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That’s true. I also saw him as much as you see him but would you be able to move on easily if he left you? I’ve waited a whole month to heal and it hasn’t gotten better, my feelings haven't changed. I’ve been able to cope better but it’s not enough :/. I’m thankful God is helping me though.
 

Maddijanex

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If I’m gonna be honest I wouldn’t be able to move on easily if he left me it would break my heart but if I had a guy treat me like how he is treating you then I think I would be able to move on easier but that’s me. Your feelings aren’t gonna go away at the click of a finger be aware of that but god will be with you all the way
 
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Ya. It’s so hard because I know he still has feelings for me. He’s distancing himself and trying his hardest so he’s becoming very cold and changing because of the influence of his friends. I just pray that God will lead him in the right direction so he realizes that he’s lying to himself and that he’s letting non-christians influence his thinking.
 

Maddijanex

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It’s definitely hard when his got non-christians influencing him is his family Christian ?
 
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His mother and grandma are but his father is very atheist and doesn’t want him to choose a faith until he’s old enough. But he’s chosen to be Christian secretly and meeting me has developed that even more and he began to read the bible every night and pray every day.
 

Demi777

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Why are so many people fleeing into long distance relationships. That is not what you need. Especially we woman need hugs and stuff to feel appreciated and connected
And the break up of these are almost as bad as a real one..in the end for nothing besides chats and a few meet ups.
Its super hard to let go. We all have been there at some point. It takes time. Sometimes more and sometimes less. Theres nothing we can do to make it better.
I can just give u the most simple advice..dont get into long distance relationships. Keep your head up and eyes open as you walk in life and God will fulfill all your needs
 
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That’s really good to hear about him choosing a Christian but did he become a Christian for him self does that make sense
 
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long distance relationships can definitely be hard work but it can also grow the relationship and yes you might not get to see your partner 247 but if their gonna go on to get married and spend the rest of their like together why rush into seeing each other and making that a priority. Don’t get me wrong I love seeing my boyfriend and spending time together but I know that I’m gonna spend the rest of my life with him and that’s the main thing. I think don’t go into a relationship if you can’t see your self being married to this guy, i can’t lie and say their not hard because they seriously are hard but at the end of the road there will be a pot of god.
 
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That was also what I thought. He was truly the first one I’ve envisioned to marry. I’ve never been so sure of someone like that. So much that I started basing my university paths on both our ideals. We wanna do the same thing so it made that easier. But now I’m very lost
 
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Girl i wanna say it’s gonna be okay but it’s gonna be hard but your not alone. I think if this guy is truely the person your going to marry and spend your life with then god will make that happen but if not then there’s gonna be an amazing man for you but until that happens you need to focus on you and your future and god.
 
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Thank you. I really believe that. I believe God will lead me to the right person and that if he is the guy that he will be led to me too.

Thank you 💗