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There is no way to impart wisdom to you. Just as you probably couldn't impart wisdom to a 12 year old girl wanting to date a 17 year old. YOU would know that it is a terrible idea for the 12 year old BUT SHE just couldn't grasp why dating a guy 5 years older than her in her teen years would be a bad thing.
This is what we are trying to get you to see. I fear we won't be successful because you are unable in your innocent mind to foresee the possibility of something bad coming of this.
Your innocence is touching, and NONE of us would like to see that innocence shattered.
Please get off the internet with this person until you discuss it with your parents.
This is what we are trying to get you to see. I fear we won't be successful because you are unable in your innocent mind to foresee the possibility of something bad coming of this.
Your innocence is touching, and NONE of us would like to see that innocence shattered.
Please get off the internet with this person until you discuss it with your parents.
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Sweetie, you're 15 and he's 19. He's an adult, you're not. You're still just a young baby.. You need to tell your parents, I'm sure they want to know their naive 15 year old child is chatting up an online relationship with a 19 year old man.
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you r too young to be in a relationship like that if you too r just friends that makes it better but you say you r in love...is he the same age as u? i hope so because anyone older is a pedifile...i feel ilke you wont be able to meet him if he is all the way in italy so its safe but u should still tell your parents before u make any major decisions about this guy... ill be praying for you,,,
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Hi Gracie,
The fact that you're asking for advice is both encouraging and disturbing. It shows that you're mature enough to realize you don't have all the answers. It also shows that you're not sure what you're doing is right. And let me tell you, it is not! Parents (even when they seem to get in the way of what we want), are a gift from the Lord. They've lived longer than us and have more experience than we do. Deception is a form of lying, and hiding something can't be honoring your parents. That's two Biblical commands broken.
I can't promise it is going to be easy for you to tell your parents. In fact, it probably won't be. The easy is usually not the right one. HOWEVER, in the long run, it will be better.
And one more note of warning: Do NOT, under any circumstances, try to meet this guy without your parents' knowledge and consent. Watch the YouTube clip one of the other users posted. Scary stuff, but too serious to be ignored. That kind of stuff really does happen.
God bless you, dear sister! I know this will all work out for your ultimate good!
The fact that you're asking for advice is both encouraging and disturbing. It shows that you're mature enough to realize you don't have all the answers. It also shows that you're not sure what you're doing is right. And let me tell you, it is not! Parents (even when they seem to get in the way of what we want), are a gift from the Lord. They've lived longer than us and have more experience than we do. Deception is a form of lying, and hiding something can't be honoring your parents. That's two Biblical commands broken.
I can't promise it is going to be easy for you to tell your parents. In fact, it probably won't be. The easy is usually not the right one. HOWEVER, in the long run, it will be better.
And one more note of warning: Do NOT, under any circumstances, try to meet this guy without your parents' knowledge and consent. Watch the YouTube clip one of the other users posted. Scary stuff, but too serious to be ignored. That kind of stuff really does happen.
God bless you, dear sister! I know this will all work out for your ultimate good!
I love it how you always twist and turn words of people you just simply dislike.
I said most, not all. In my small town a lot of italians live, in fact, my first crush was a italian guy.
I could go on with stories of people I know but I know about your attitude towards me, which doesnt allow me to talk to you in a normal way without being attacked, so I just wish you a blessed day.
I said most, not all. In my small town a lot of italians live, in fact, my first crush was a italian guy.
I could go on with stories of people I know but I know about your attitude towards me, which doesnt allow me to talk to you in a normal way without being attacked, so I just wish you a blessed day.
You see Demi,
YOU are the one that made the unfortunate remark
yet you think I AM the one that is attacking !!
Interesting.
I told you that you should watch what you say.
MOST means a lot more than 50%
That would mean that more than 50% of the men I know HERE IN ITALY WHERE I LIVE
are abusive.
I know this isn't true, but how about those that are reading along and don't really
know and MAYBE believe you, although I would hope that they understand this cannot be.
So if you think I have a bad attitude toward you, I'm sorry.
It does seem to me that YOU have a rather bad attitude toward ME since
I don't believe we've ever spoken to any great length before.
In fact, I remember telling you once that you're a very smart girl.
I'm not here make friends or to make enemies.
I say it like it is. That's my character.
If you don't like it, I'm sorry but I said nothing to you which requires an apology.
ANZI....
YOU are the one that made the unfortunate remark
yet you think I AM the one that is attacking !!
Interesting.
I told you that you should watch what you say.
MOST means a lot more than 50%
That would mean that more than 50% of the men I know HERE IN ITALY WHERE I LIVE
are abusive.
I know this isn't true, but how about those that are reading along and don't really
know and MAYBE believe you, although I would hope that they understand this cannot be.
So if you think I have a bad attitude toward you, I'm sorry.
It does seem to me that YOU have a rather bad attitude toward ME since
I don't believe we've ever spoken to any great length before.
In fact, I remember telling you once that you're a very smart girl.
I'm not here make friends or to make enemies.
I say it like it is. That's my character.
If you don't like it, I'm sorry but I said nothing to you which requires an apology.
ANZI....
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let me make things clear. this guy is not the person you think he is. he's so different and has complete respect and no inflections of being a pedophile. he has never asked of my address, phone number, not has he ever asked to meet. im very sure. ill post about in full detail so you can judge what he's like.
i didnt watch the video because it really has nothing to with him. if he was like 30yrs…then thats something to worry about. i appreciate all of your advice and it has really helped but you're kinda wrong about what he's like. dont worry…you all will soon find oitout
i didnt watch the video because it really has nothing to with him. if he was like 30yrs…then thats something to worry about. i appreciate all of your advice and it has really helped but you're kinda wrong about what he's like. dont worry…you all will soon find oitout
People can act one way on the computer, and another in real life.. No one is saying that he absolutely IS a pedophile. IF he truly is 19, and respects you and your privacy, that's great.. But you do need to be careful nonetheless.. Even some people on THIS site are not who they appear to be. Women pose as men, men pose as women or even as teenagers. :/
Listen NNM
I agree with those here that say that Gracie should tell her parents. I believe parents are supposed to protect their children.
However, those that post that idea here are probably very good parents that would know how to help their daughter that found herself in this particular situation.
I'll say this, I was in a Dangerous situation when I was about 14.
I told my parents because I was really afraid and didn't know what to do.
Instead of helping me, they blamed me.
No only was I left with no help from anyone, but I never told them anything
again.
Not every parent could be spoken to...
Gracie finds herself in a bind and is not certain what to do.
To just keep repeating that she should tell her parents, is not helping her any.
Although I agree that she should, we cannot know why she isn't.
She sounds like a pretty smart girl. Let's give her some credit...
You know how many couples are meeting on the net these days?
I'd also like to say that here, most kids who start dating at 19 end up marrying the girl.
This is not unusual.
I agree with those here that say that Gracie should tell her parents. I believe parents are supposed to protect their children.
However, those that post that idea here are probably very good parents that would know how to help their daughter that found herself in this particular situation.
I'll say this, I was in a Dangerous situation when I was about 14.
I told my parents because I was really afraid and didn't know what to do.
Instead of helping me, they blamed me.
No only was I left with no help from anyone, but I never told them anything
again.
Not every parent could be spoken to...
Gracie finds herself in a bind and is not certain what to do.
To just keep repeating that she should tell her parents, is not helping her any.
Although I agree that she should, we cannot know why she isn't.
She sounds like a pretty smart girl. Let's give her some credit...
You know how many couples are meeting on the net these days?
I'd also like to say that here, most kids who start dating at 19 end up marrying the girl.
This is not unusual.