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JimM1228

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I'm Bisexual and I love who God puts in front of me to love regardless of their gender. If you don't "believe in gay marriage" then don't marry someone of the same sex as you. To me it's as simple as that. Morality is about reducing the harm you do to people, that's why I see people saying that sexuality is unnatural (to be honest and a ok I'm going to be a bit harsh) it's because they don't understand that God is about love not hate. If he was willing to send his only son so that we can go to heaven how is that same God someone who would not like what he created? There is a lot of scientific evidence out there that shows that human sexuality is on a continuum. I just can't believe that a God that is worthy of my worship would be so mean. Also if it would hurt someone, or I had to in order to save a life I would lie. That's because I couldn't live knowing that I could have done something so easy and a person would still be here but I didn't and they are dead because of me. God would want us to do what we must to preserve the life he made, not flush it away just based on our stubborn principles. We must do what we can to love and to help everyone, to be the bright light that glorifies his light. :)
i apologize if i at all come off rude during this reply. But being in relation with the same sex is repeatedly spoken against in the bible directly by GOD. And once again we are taking our personal views and clouding what GOD has said directly in the bible. we dont take what he says and add to it. we take what he says word for word and try to live it. God isnt mean because he doesnt let us do whatever we want. God is just and holy and loving. and with those qualities we must respect what he asks of us and what he sees as wrong. he is loving in a sense that no matter how MUCH we SIN he will still LOVE US. he is JUST in such that his determination of what is right and wrong surpasses our opinion of what is right and wrong. he is HOLY meaning he is PERFECT. all these things connect and show that we must bow and heed to his word and not make up our own rules that make it easy for us. Jesus said this road is narrow and full of hardships. the road of sin is wide and easy. im praying for you God Bless.
 
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xEyesOnFirex

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I understand now why gay Christians may not feel welcome to post their stories for everyone to see and I'm very sorry that that's even the case. I am still curious, so maybe if anyone wants to ssend me a private message...and we could talk there.
It's a very tricky thing to speak of, and that makes me sad. I'd be willing to share my thoughts with you via a private message, so hit me up if you're interested :)
 
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if a lie would of saved someone would you do i.
I don't know.


I don't think anyone would blame you.
That's a bit scary that you don't value human life, when God said that it is sacred. The ends of one lie vs someones life I don't get at all how you can't do the real right thing and save that person. If I was in that position and failed by telling the truth and someone died then I would blame me. That isn't something at all that I could live with.

That is harsh, and to my mind, completely unfounded if you don't mind me saying so.
It's harsh to say that God is about love and not hate? I don't know what God you worship but mine is one with infinite compassion.

But despite the accounts of animal homosexuality, I'm sure even the biologists would be forced to concede that the main reason that sex exists is procreation. Yes, they may argue that sex is used for other purposes, even that homosexuality has apparent benefits, and that these acts are 'natural' (in their definition of the word), but the reason sex exists at all and the reason that those sodomite monkeys are even here today is because of the primary function of sex, that is procreation.

Just one further note, so as to avoid misundertandings: I have tried to be careful to always refer to procreation as the primary function of the sexual faculty (as opposed to only). Of course sex has other purposes (it is unitive, it is pleasurable etc.) but the Natural Law argument posits that these things are subservient to the procreative aspect. In this way, there is nothing immoral about having sex for pleasure, just as long as one is open to the possibility of procreation. Sexual acts, which by their nature are infertile, or positive actions taken or intentions to negate the possibility of reproduction (such as artificial contraception) would all be contrary to Natural Law, since they are subverting or frustrating the primary end of the sexual faculty.
Actually no the main purpose of sex is pair bonding. I have a BA in biology so let me explain things further. If as you claim sex's primary goal was reproduction then why aren't we made like cats, dogs, horses and rats? You can't tell when the female of our species is ovulating for a reason. If the main reason for sex was to reproduce then why do we have concealed ovulation? It seems in Gods designed to make sex something more. Also with the rate of overpopulation we aren't really being the good shepherd's wasting our resources the way we do. Why would any diety make a word for it's people to destroy? That's why that sex is for kids argument just doesn't work. Sex is about love. Call me naive to think that but I'd rather stay in that naivety then to be harsh to people and to me who only want to love the person that they love.

i apologize if i at all come off rude during this reply. But being in relation with the same sex is repeatedly spoken against in the bible directly by GOD. And once again we are taking our personal views and clouding what GOD has said directly in the bible. we dont take what he says and add to it. we take what he says word for word and try to live it. God isnt mean because he doesnt let us do whatever we want. God is just and holy and loving. and with those qualities we must respect what he asks of us and what he sees as wrong. he is loving in a sense that no matter how MUCH we SIN he will still LOVE US. he is JUST in such that his determination of what is right and wrong surpasses our opinion of what is right and wrong. he is HOLY meaning he is PERFECT. all these things connect and show that we must bow and heed to his word and not make up our own rules that make it easy for us. Jesus said this road is narrow and full of hardships. the road of sin is wide and easy. im praying for you God Bless.
Actually if you look at the bible in Greek (1 Corinthians 6:9-10) they use the word arsenokoite which in Greek if you were gay that word isn't something they'd use to describe you. In [FONT=Arial, Helvetica]Genesis 19:5 it's against rap, not being gay. [/FONT]The problem is there are many different translations of the bible and people have put their own bias in the bible to justify how they feel. I pray for you too. <3
 
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Consumed

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^_^;....*Sigh* Well you are not wrong sister....The problem with telling someone they are a liar is not truely righteous unless we have no sliver in our own eyes. We must know wisdom and how to apply it to those that do not know. *Reads proverbs* Wisdom is key to distributing knowledge to those who don't know so much.

intelligent statement:)
 
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In [FONT=Arial, Helvetica]Genesis 19:5 it's against rap, not being gay.[/FONT]
I know it's misplaced in such a serious thread, but this made me laugh a little. Finally, we know God's musical tastes. :D
 
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Credo_ut_Intelligam

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Actually if you look at the bible in Greek (1 Corinthians 6:9-10) they use the word arsenokoite which in Greek if you were gay that word isn't something they'd use to describe you. In [FONT=Arial, Helvetica]Genesis 19:5 it's against rap, not being gay. [/FONT]The problem is there are many different translations of the bible and people have put their own bias in the bible to justify how they feel. I pray for you too.
Actually, if you study the Bible seriously and not ludicrous pro-homosexual attempts to twist the Bible you'll see that it quite clearly is against homosexuality and this is how the Bible was universally understood up until recently when some homosexuals tried to twist Scripture to make it acceptable.

For instance:
Postbiblical Judaism stressed the homosexual element in the Sodomites&#8217; attempted rape of Lot&#8217;s male guests (Gen. 19:4-5; cf. Judg. 19:22), and Hellenistic Jewish writers denounced homosexuality as frequently as any sin&#8230;.The Greek word arsenokoitai in 1 Corinthians 6:9 and 1 Timothy 1:10, denoting literally (males) 'who lie [sleep] with males,' was almost certainly formed under the influence of the Septuagint text of Leviticus 18:22 and 20:13. Although first attested in Paul, the term also occurs in Hellenistic Jewish texts (Sibyll. Or. 2.73, influenced by Pseudo-Phocylides&#8217;s Sentences). The church fathers universally condemned male homosexual behavior&#8230;.They clearly regarded it as contrary to the created constitution and function of men and women, and not merely to the dispositions of particular individuals"

(David Wright, Encyclopedia of Early Christianity 542-543; emphasis mine).​
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"it is only in recent times that some writers have argued that the quality of a relationship, be it homosexual or heterosexual, is what determines its moral value"

(The Oxford Dictionary of the Christian Church 786).​
So isn't it odd that it took over 2,000 years for "Christians" to discover that the Bible really isn't that clear on this issue? I'm sorry, but the attempt to twist God's word here in order to justify sin is just disgusting.

And if you would like comprehensive arguments against the pro-homosexual reading of the Bible I suggest this website:

Robert A. J. Gagnon Home

For example, in this paper (link http://robgagnon.net/articles/homoBalchHBTReview2.pdf link) he critiques the "arsenokoitai" argument pro-homosexuals use in 1 Cor. 6:9 (scroll down to PDF page 226).

This paper (http://robgagnon.net/articles/homoHeterosexismRespPart2.pdf) responds to the "bonding" aspect you mention.
 
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holiness777

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Take your time ,look at those verses and meditate on them,just to show you homosexuality , it's purely demon or Satan. GOD just let you on this, because this is your desire to become gay and you never wanted to know him. GOD gave me a solution if you want to get it out in your life,you have to pend time with GOD daily,not one or two day per week but daily.

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18 For the wrath of God is revealed from heaven against all ungodliness and wickedness of those who by their wickedness suppress the truth. 19 For what can be known about God is plain to them, because God has shown it to them. 20 Ever since the creation of the world his eternal power and divine nature, invisible though they are, have been understood and seen through the things he has made. So they are without excuse; 21 for though they knew God, they did not honour him as God or give thanks to him, but they became futile in their thinking, and their senseless minds were darkened. 22 Claiming to be wise, they became fools; 23 and they exchanged the glory of the immortal God for images resembling a mortal human being or birds or four-footed animals or reptiles.

24 Therefore God gave them up in the lusts of their hearts to impurity, to the degrading of their bodies among themselves, 25because they exchanged the truth about God for a lie and worshipped and served the creature rather than the Creator, who is blessed for ever! Amen.

26 For this reason God gave them up to degrading passions. Their women exchanged natural intercourse for unnatural, 27and in the same way also the men, giving up natural intercourse with women, were consumed with passion for one another. Men committed shameless acts with men and received in their own persons the due penalty for their error.

28 And since they did not see fit to acknowledge God, God gave them up to a debased mind and to things that should not be done. 29 They were filled with every kind of wickedness, evil, covetousness, malice. Full of envy, murder, strife, deceit, craftiness, they are gossips, 30 slanderers, God-haters,* insolent, haughty, boastful, inventors of evil, rebellious towards parents, 31 foolish, faithless, heartless, ruthless. 32 They know God’s decree, that those who practise such things deserve to die—yet they not only do them but even applaud others who practise them.
 
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JimM1228

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[/quote]Actually if you look at the bible in Greek (1 Corinthians 6:9-10) they use the word arsenokoite which in Greek if you were gay that word isn't something they'd use to describe you. In [FONT=Arial, Helvetica]Genesis 19:5 it's against rap, not being gay. [/FONT]The problem is there are many different translations of the bible and people have put their own bias in the bible to justify how they feel. I pray for you too. <3[/quote]

1 Corinthians 6:9-10 - "Do you not know that the wicked will not inherit the kingdom of God? Do not be deceived: Neither the sexually immoral nor idolaters nor adulterers nor male prostitutes nor homosexual offenders nor thieves nor the greedy nor drunkards nor slanderers nor swindlers will inherit the kingdom of God."
this above verse is also followed by his next verse saying they can inherit the kingdom because they have been washed by Christ.

I could quote leviticus however using that book would not be fair because it is also filled with a lot of rules that the new covenant has broken.


Ezekiel 16:50 says that Sodom "committed abomination," and 2 Peter 2:6-8 refers to the city's destruction as it relates to the judgment of those who walk "in the lust of uncleanness" (v. 10, NKJV). In addition, Jude 7 states that the residents of Sodom gave themselves over to sexual immorality and pursued unnatural lust.

It is true that Paul coined arsenokoite. But that does not illegitimize its meaning. He formed the word using two Greek words: arsane, which refers to "male" and is derived from the Greek translation of the Levitical passages, and koite, which means "bed" and is used in a sexual connotation. Paul is speaking of men in bed together, in a sexual sense.


i do not look down nor do not love Gay or bi people. you are all equal brothers in my eyes and no man on this earth can Judge those. however i will continue to pray for those who are struggling to determine whether its ok or not. God Bless.
 
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JimM1228

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Actually, if you study the Bible seriously and not ludicrous pro-homosexual attempts to twist the Bible you'll see that it quite clearly is against homosexuality and this is how the Bible was universally understood up until recently when some homosexuals tried to twist Scripture to make it acceptable.

For instance:
Postbiblical Judaism stressed the homosexual element in the Sodomites’ attempted rape of Lot’s male guests (Gen. 19:4-5; cf. Judg. 19:22), and Hellenistic Jewish writers denounced homosexuality as frequently as any sin….The Greek word arsenokoitai in 1 Corinthians 6:9 and 1 Timothy 1:10, denoting literally (males) 'who lie [sleep] with males,' was almost certainly formed under the influence of the Septuagint text of Leviticus 18:22 and 20:13. Although first attested in Paul, the term also occurs in Hellenistic Jewish texts (Sibyll. Or. 2.73, influenced by Pseudo-Phocylides’s Sentences). The church fathers universally condemned male homosexual behavior….They clearly regarded it as contrary to the created constitution and function of men and women, and not merely to the dispositions of particular individuals"

(David Wright, Encyclopedia of Early Christianity 542-543; emphasis mine).​
and:
"it is only in recent times that some writers have argued that the quality of a relationship, be it homosexual or heterosexual, is what determines its moral value"

(The Oxford Dictionary of the Christian Church 786).​
So isn't it odd that it took over 2,000 years for "Christians" to discover that the Bible really isn't that clear on this issue? I'm sorry, but the attempt to twist God's word here in order to justify sin is just disgusting.

And if you would like comprehensive arguments against the pro-homosexual reading of the Bible I suggest this website:

Robert A. J. Gagnon Home

For example, in this paper (link http://robgagnon.net/articles/homoBalchHBTReview2.pdf link) he critiques the "arsenokoitai" argument pro-homosexuals use in 1 Cor. 6:9 (scroll down to PDF page 226).

This paper (http://robgagnon.net/articles/homoHeterosexismRespPart2.pdf) responds to the "bonding" aspect you mention.
amen. we are to read the bible for what it is, without pre conceived thoughts of what it should mean. we do not twist the rules to make them convenient for us. read the bible from the INSIDE OUT. not the outside in. let go of all knowledge of the subject and just read it for what it is.
 
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Hunt4TheLord

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Upfront (not that it matters), I am not gay.

That being said, I don't know how I feel about whether or not being gay and acting on it is a sin or not...but right now, I'm thinking that it's not. Again: I DON'T KNOW ECACTLY HOW I FEEL.

I know all of the verses that people use to point out that it is wrong and not how God created it.

BUT, I've also heard views on the other side of it. I also study a bit of ancient history in school and know that man-on-man action in the Bible wasn't what it is today. Then, it was talking about rape and that has never been ok. (I also don't have all the facts on this.)

I know Christians who are gay and are ok with God. They feel that it is not a sin (and I know they aren't justifying their sin by saying this--they've actually experienced God's comfort in who they are with this...meaning that they are gay).

So, I was wondering if anyone on here is gay and would like to share how they feel in their relationship with God on this.

Comments from straight people are welcome, too, of course.

I've just been incredibly curious and confused about this for a while.

I know quite a few people who sleep with any girl they see who are comfortable with God.

God created marital love to be between one man and one woman. It's a sexually immoral sin. /thread.

Of course, we can't go all "God Hates Homosexuals" on them. We have to gently show them the light of God. Jesus hung out with tax collectors and harlots, so we can't just shun them.
 
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Maddog

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That's a bit scary that you don't value human life, when God said that it is sacred. The ends of one lie vs someones life I don't get at all how you can't do the real right thing and save that person. If I was in that position and failed by telling the truth and someone died then I would blame me. That isn't something at all that I could live with.
Have you any idea how offensive (and false) it is to suggest that I don't value human life? But the issue here is whether or not immoral means should be used for good ends; lying was just one example, but there are others. Is torturing a prisoner moral if it could extract information that may prove vital to the nation and its citizens' safety and security? Or let's up the ante; is genocide ever moral, even if it was to prevent an even greater genocide?

Additionally, we don't know the future. We can't ever know for certain that our evil actions will actually bring about the intended good. All we know is that we would be committing an evil.

Moral theology is complex, but as far as I understand it, 'the end doesn't justify the means' is a sound principle. But anyway, all I said was that I don't know what I'd do in that situation, which I don't. In future please spare me the insulting non sequiturs.



It's harsh to say that God is about love and not hate? I don't know what God you worship but mine is one with infinite compassion.
Forgive me, but is this a deliberate misunderstanding? I meant it was harsh and unfounded to suggest that people who believe that some expressions of sexuality are unnatural do so 'because they don't understand that God is about love not hate'.



Actually no the main purpose of sex is pair bonding. I have a BA in biology so let me explain things further. If as you claim sex's primary goal was reproduction then why aren't we made like cats, dogs, horses and rats? You can't tell when the female of our species is ovulating for a reason. If the main reason for sex was to reproduce then why do we have concealed ovulation?
You seem to misunderstand. Primary &#8800; only. Of course there are other purposes to sex, pair bonding being one of them. But these are ancilliary to reproductive aspect. Why is pair bonding so important for a couple? It provides a healthy and safe environment for their offspring.

But if we were to flip this around and say (as you're arguing) that in fact pair bonding is the primary purpose of sex then what are children? Is the purpose of having children simply to bring the parents closer together? Sorry, as you, I view human life as sacred and am greatly uncomfortable in viewing children as merely a means to an end. These new lives are the end and we ought to respect them as such.


It seems in Gods designed to make sex something more.
Yes, as I explained, sex does have other purposes, but none of these trump the reproductive aspect.

Also with the rate of overpopulation we aren't really being the good shepherd's wasting our resources the way we do. Why would any diety make a word for it's people to destroy? That's why that sex is for kids argument just doesn't work.
I think these are two separate issues, and there's nothing here that negates the Natural Law argument that sex is primarily for reproduction. Also, as I remarked to Vikki earlier, the truth of this has really only been questioned as recently as the 20th Century. What I'm arguing would have been taken as read by practically all Christians 100 years ago.

Sex is about love.
Yes it is. But you err if you think that such love can be truly expressed if one is actively trying to avoid conception.


Call me naive to think that but I'd rather stay in that naivety then to be harsh to people and to me who only want to love the person that they love.
Yes, ignorance is bliss. It is however, not a state I'd recommend one lingers in for too long. After all, to seek Truth is to seek God.
 
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JimM1228

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maddog the bottom line is sin=death. no thing on earth can change that. "for the wages of sin is death". so keep doin what youre doing. do not cause your brother to fall, and stay true to Gods commands and everything shall follow.

"Seek the Kingdom of God above all else, and live righteously, and he will give you everything you need." Matt 6:33
 
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KisDawn

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I know it's misplaced in such a serious thread, but this made me laugh a little. Finally, we know God's musical tastes. :D
Lol XD That gave me the giggles. :)

Actually, if you study the Bible seriously and not ludicrous pro-homosexual attempts to twist the Bible you'll see that it quite clearly is against homosexuality and this is how the Bible was universally understood up until recently when some homosexuals tried to twist Scripture to make it acceptable.
I love how it's the pro-homosexual when in fact it is the pro humanity attempts. With the Sodomites they wanted to rape the angles not have consenting sex. There is a big difference between the two things. If you don't see that, that's on you not me. That's why Lot didn't want them raped because they were guest in his home.

So isn't it odd that it took over 2,000 years for "Christians" to discover that the Bible really isn't that clear on this issue? I'm sorry, but the attempt to twist God's word here in order to justify sin is just disgusting.
Using Gods word to justify your bigotry is disgusting. If the only reason you are with someone is to have kids then you are nothing more then an animal. When I am with someone it's because I love them with all my heart, and I wish to do whatever I can to help them because I care.


Take your time ,look at those verses and meditate on them,just to show you homosexuality , it's purely demon or Satan. GOD just let you on this, because this is your desire to become gay and you never wanted to know him. GOD gave me a solution if you want to get it out in your life,you have to pend time with GOD daily,not one or two day per week but daily.
Being hateful is purely Satan. It's not about sex that people are gay or that like me I'm bisexual. It's because we truly love who we love. If you make it just about sex then your cheapening something that is meant to be special. Also some of the laws back then were meant to get people to act right since morality wasn't fully developed. Have you ever wore wool and linen together? I can't because I'm allergic to wool however if you take the bible that way for gays and bisexuals then you also have to take it literally for everything else. Also do you work on the Sabbath? If not are you willing to kill anyone who does?

"For six days, work is to be done, but the seventh day is a Sabbath of rest, holy to the LORD. Whoever does any work on the Sabbath day must be put to death."

Yes the bible is suppose to be followed however now that humanity is more morally evolved like we don't own slaves there are some things that need to be more evolved as well. God has given us the ability to think and to be able to use good judgment for a reason and for that reason we must also make the earth like heaven where there is love not hate. That is the thing that God has put in my heart the ability to love and I just can't waste it.

Have you any idea how offensive (and false) it is to suggest that I don't value human life? But the issue here is whether or not immoral means should be used for good ends; lying was just one example, but there are others. Is torturing a prisoner moral if it could extract information that may prove vital to the nation and its citizens' safety and security? Or let's up the ante; is genocide ever moral, even if it was to prevent an even greater genocide?
Then why did you say you'd have think about it if you were given the choice of lying or having someone die? I can only read what you write I can't see inside your head.

Additionally, we don't know the future. We can't ever know for certain that our evil actions will actually bring about the intended good. All we know is that we would be committing an evil.
We can if we think about the potential outcomes. We can't be right all the time, however you have to look yourself in the mirror every night and I do knowing that I have a clear conscious.

You seem to misunderstand. Primary &#8800; only. Of course there are other purposes to sex, pair bonding being one of them. But these are ancilliary to reproductive aspect. Why is pair bonding so important for a couple? It provides a healthy and safe environment for their offspring.
Gay couples can have kids. I'm not going further into explaining this. Pair bonding is about a family, and it's better to have a loving family then anything else. :)

But if we were to flip this around and say (as you're arguing) that in fact pair bonding is the primary purpose of sex then what are children? Is the purpose of having children simply to bring the parents closer together? Sorry, as you, I view human life as sacred and am greatly uncomfortable in viewing children as merely a means to an end. These new lives are the end and we ought to respect them as such.
So what about people who want to get married but not to have kids? Not everyone wants kids, and there are a lot of straight couples who never have kids. Should they then just not be together? Children are a blessing however they aren't the solution to a family, you have a family first which is made out of love. :)

Yes it is. But you err if you think that such love can be truly expressed if one is actively trying to avoid conception.
Why would we have birth control then? That's actively trying to avoid conception so everyone who uses it is what? Love is about love not a hedonistic need to make more of yourself. Kids come when they do, however that shouldn't be the only or primary reason you are with the person you are with. It should be about something much more.

Yes, ignorance is bliss. It is however, not a state I'd recommend one lingers in for too long. After all, to seek Truth is to seek God.
Ignorance isn't bliss, I just expect more out people, like humanity, don't you think God's expectations are even higher?
 
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I love how it's the pro-homosexual when in fact it is the pro humanity attempts.
This is just empty rhetoric. In fact, it's not "pro-humanity" to call what God calls evil and contrary to nature "good." That doesn't help humanity, that hurts humanity. Sin is always damaging and harmful and when we try to cover up sin and sugarcoat it and make it acceptable we are essentially trying to switch labels on a bottle of poison and make it look safe when it is deadly.

Is that pro-humanity? No, that's anti-humanity. In fact, it's worse than that because it's not openly anti-humanity. It's not like a nihilist who is openly anti-humanity, at least he is open and up front about it. Everyone knows what they are getting when they buy his product. But you're giving false advertising too.

With the Sodomites they wanted to rape the angles not have consenting sex. There is a big difference between the two things. If you don't see that, that's on you not me. That's why Lot didn't want them raped because they were guest in his home.
This is an old canard. Let's look at the text:

Genesis 19:4&#8211;7 But before they lay down, the men of the city, the men of Sodom, both young and old, all the people to the last man, surrounded the house. And they called to Lot, &#8220;Where are the men who came to you tonight? Bring them out to us, that we may know them.&#8221; Lot went out to the men at the entrance, shut the door after him, and said, &#8220;I beg you, my brothers, do not act so wickedly.​

Now if you want to say that rape is the issue, notice that the men don't simply burst down the door of the house nor do they rape the men when they first came into the city. No, they approach the house and ask. Is that something rapists do? Do rapists knock on doors and say "Um, hi, sorry to disturb you. But can you come out so we can rape you?" No. Before forcible sex is suggested, Lot understands for it to be a wicked thing.

Furthermore, your understanding of the narrative is historically unprecedented. As Gagnon notes: "Philo of Alexandria (Abraham 135-37 and Questions on Genesis 4.37) and Josephus (Antiquities 1.200-201), among other early Jewish texts (e.g., the Testament of Naphtali 3:4; Jubilee 16:5-6; 20:5-6; 2 Enoch 10:4; 34:1-2)" understood the narrative to be a condemnation homosexuality as such. Why did it take all but until about 50 years ago for people to finally understand the Bible narrative?

And as Gagnon also points out, it's not as though this was the only place in Scripture that mentions homosexual practice. We can look at other explicit, across-the-board condemnations not only in Scripture but in other Ancient Near Eastern societies and see that it was condemned. So when we read the Sodom narrative in its cultural milieu it's painfully obvious that rape wasn't the only crime. So Gagnon: "If someone told [us] a story about a really bad town where adults raped their parents, would [we] conclude that the storyteller was condemning only forcible incest? If not, why [should we] conclude that the story of Sodom in a broader cultural environment that is aware of (but still critical of) non-coercive forms of male-male intercourse, is indicting only forcible male-male intercourse?" (cf. http://robgagnon.net/articles/homosexStacyJohnsonMoreReasonsCritique.pdf).

The suggestion is ridiculous and only shows to what great lengths people are willing to go in order to justify their sin.

Using Gods word to justify your bigotry is disgusting.
More empty rhetoric. Do you consider yourself a bigot against pedophiles? Are you bigoted against rape? Now, I know how these things go because, as I've pointed out before, I've had these conversations a million times. And, without fail, your response will be something to the effect of "Rape isn't equivalent to pedophilia!" and "It's consenting and loving." But that merely misses the point because it *begs the question* (or assumes what needs to be proven) that homosexuality is not itself in the *same category* of *a perverse sexual practice.*

If the only reason you are with someone is to have kids then you are nothing more then an animal.
Straw-man. I never said this.

When I am with someone it's because I love them with all my heart, and I wish to do whatever I can to help them because I care.
But I don't (and Scripture doesn't) accept homosexual practice as legitimate expressions of love. Calling homosexual practice "love" is just as misguided as pedophile organizations calling their position "man/boy love."

Being hateful is purely Satan.
Psalm 5:4&#8211;6: &#8220;You are not a God who takes pleasure in evil; with you the wicked cannot dwell. The arrogant cannot stand in your presence; you hate all who do wrong. You destroy those who tell lies; bloodthirsty and deceitful men the Lord abhors.&#8221;

Psalm 11:5&#8211;7: &#8220;The Lord examines the righteous [and acquits them], but the wicked and those who love violence his soul hates. On the wicked he will rain fiery coals and burning sulfur; a scorching wind will be their lot. For the Lord is righteous, he loves justice; upright men will see his face.&#8221;

Psalm 7:11: &#8220;God is a righteous judge, a God who expresses his wrath every day.&#8221;

Hosea 9:15 Every evil of theirs is in Gilgal; there I began to hate them. Because of the wickedness of their deeds I will drive them out of my house. I will love them no more; all their princes are rebels.

Does your theology have room in it for these Bible verses? Is the God of the Bible "purely Satan" by your measuring stick?

It's because we truly love who we love. If you make it just about sex then your cheapening something that is meant to be special.
You calling a perverse lust "love" is cheapening something that is meant to be special.

Also some of the laws back then were meant to get people to act right since morality wasn't fully developed. Have you ever wore wool and linen together? I can't because I'm allergic to wool however if you take the bible that way for gays and bisexuals then you also have to take it literally for everything else. Also do you work on the Sabbath? If not are you willing to kill anyone who does?...Yes the bible is suppose to be followed however now that humanity is more morally evolved..
Category fallacy. You're trying to lump cultic laws together with moral laws and say that since we no longer practice one (i.e., the cultic or ceremonial) we can dismiss the other (i.e., the moral). But this is another demonstration of how ridiculous people are willing to get in order to justify their sin. By this same argument, I can justify any sort of sexual perversion I want simply by calling it "morally evolved." So, those condemnations of beastiality? Simple a product of a less morally evolved society. I trust that one day we will evolve enough to recognize man/beast love. Condemnations of pederasty? Product of an inferior society. Eventually we will recognize man/boy love. This is the twisted logic of the pro-homosexual. What's amazing is how many people have swallowed such ridiculous lines of reasoning.

...like we don't own slaves there are some things that need to be more evolved as well.
There is a difference between laws of permission and statements of condemnation. A law can permit something that is itself immoral. In this case, it makes sense to move beyond the law to abstaining from the immoral act altogether. But if something is condemned as being immoral, I don't see how anyone could say it will someday move into the category of moral. These are two totally different things. The Bible nowhere says that non-slavery is sin, such that we have to maintain slavery in order to maintain a moral state. Rather, the Bible permits certain forms of slavery. Yet the Bible clearly doesn't permit homosexuality; rather, it condemns it. So there is no parity in your analogy.

In fact, William Webb has written a book that argues for the disanalogy of these issues. See: "Slaves, Women, and Homosexuals: Exploring the Hermeneutics of Cultural Analysis." In, the book, he concludes:
"The comparative outcome is this: the homosexual texts are in a different category than the women and slavery texts. The former are almost entirely transcultural in nature, while the latter are heavily bound by culture. [The argument presented throughout the book] brings into clearer focus issues that people often confuse and blur together... If this work has demonstrated anything, however, it has shown the fundamental difference between the women's issue and the homosexuality issue. Regardless of perspective, it is necessary to ask the obvious question, 'If we are able to take slavery and women texts as culturally bound (within much of their non-abstracted formulation), then why not the homosexuality texts?' This book provides the 'why not' to that question" (252-253; emphasis original).​
Of course you'll have to read the book to get the argument.

God has given us the ability to think and to be able to use good judgment for a reason and for that reason we must also make the earth like heaven where there is love not hate. That is the thing that God has put in my heart the ability to love and I just can't waste it.
But apparently you can twist it.
 
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itchy ears that blinds the heart. God makes it clear, its an abomination - period.

Sin entered the world, the original design is flawed, God didnt create eve and eve in the garden, He made man and woman.
 
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always a good read credo :)
 
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AnandaHya

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No such thing as a Gay Christian....
thats like saying there is no such thing as a sinful Christian. that every thing a christian does is good and eating the apple won't kill you.

All have sinned

Romans 3 v. 4 "certainly not! Indeed, let God be true but every man a liar. As it is written:

That You may be justified in Your words. And may overcome when You are judged.

But if our unrighteousness demonstrates the righteousnes of God, what shall we say? Is God unjust who inflictgs wrath? (I speak as a man)

certainly not! For then how will God judge the world? for if the truth of God has increased through my lie to His glory, why am I also still judged as a sinner? And why not say "let us do evil tha good may come?" as we are slanderously reported and as some affirm that we say. Their condemnation is just.....

There is none righteous, no. Not ONE:"


So would you call GOD a liar?
 
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A Gay behaviour (having sexual relationship with or marrying someone of same sex) is a sin of course, but It doesn't mean that gays are more sinners than the rest of us are. Before God, we too, are sinners as much as they are. By nature, we are all sinners and we all need Christ to be our Saviour. So what's the difference between them and us ? Don't we lie, cheat and still like to be called Christians ? Nevertheless, we can not join these two different words together, for these don't agree with each other. So, better say simply either "A Gay" or "A Christian". The phrase "Gay Christian" I guess, could have been developed by some people for easy identification of a type of person in a Christian community.
 
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Upfront (not that it matters), I am not gay.

That being said, I don't know how I feel about whether or not being gay and acting on it is a sin or not...but right now, I'm thinking that it's not. Again: I DON'T KNOW ECACTLY HOW I FEEL.

I know all of the verses that people use to point out that it is wrong and not how God created it.

BUT, I've also heard views on the other side of it. I also study a bit of ancient history in school and know that man-on-man action in the Bible wasn't what it is today. Then, it was talking about rape and that has never been ok. (I also don't have all the facts on this.)

I know Christians who are gay and are ok with God. They feel that it is not a sin (and I know they aren't justifying their sin by saying this--they've actually experienced God's comfort in who they are with this...meaning that they are gay).

So, I was wondering if anyone on here is gay and would like to share how they feel in their relationship with God on this.

Comments from straight people are welcome, too, of course.

I've just been incredibly curious and confused about this for a while.
I'm not gay but I have heard something interesting on this topic and I have my own opinions on this matter as well.

In respect to something I heard that i wanted to bring up, I think it's important that people reality that Homosexuality isn't just another bracket of sin on it's own. It's a part of sexual immorality. In that sense, people who say that Gay people cannot be Christians or can't be saved are also saying that those who commit adultery are also not capable of being Christians or being saved. I'm pretty sure straight men and women here would also agree with me when I say that adultery in general is not one of those temptations that are going to be going away any time soon.

I believe a gay person can have a great relationship with God just like any person can. It kinda annoys me that people give off the impression that God wont "deal" with a person who is gay but he has no problems dealing with anyone else even though we're all constantly sinning. Homosexuality is just like like every other sin. The wages of sin is death, period. I personally think Homosexuality is not within God's will or pleasing to him, but neither is any of the stupid stuff I do, yet I believe that (at least eventually) I will be refined over and over in Christ and be someone pleasing to him. This applies to all people imho. It all goes back to what I call the Push and Pull of Christianity. Draw near to God and he'll draw near to you (pull) and resist the devil and he will flee from you (push).