I don't think what we think with our carnal minds is very important in making this decision, it is what we think after we put on Christ, we renew our minds with the Holy Spirit. We are to listen to the Holy Spirit that would never direct us to ignore what any of scripture tells us. Scripture tells women not to wear pants.
I don't think that is the end of the story. Christ came to fulfill the law. We know there are God principles behind each law, God wants women to be women and men to be men, God wants us to not change his creations. I think we can wear the feminine pants without it saying to us or the world that we want to be like men, we don't honor how we were made.
How we dress does announce to ourselves and the world what we think of God. If we refuse to let what God wants for us be any part of how we dress, it shows.
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