Why am I having so much of a problem getting a good Christian girlfriend?

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luke15chick

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try asking her again or asking another girl.
 
dothackzero

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luke15chick said:
try asking her again or asking another girl.
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There isn't any girls I that I like and live around here. Sadly...

Maybe it's for the best right now. I need to concentrate on God right now anyway, which actually has been getting a lot easier lately though I can't figure out why. Hopefully it's partly God getting me ready for a girlfriend. ^_^
 
loveschild

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Go back to your very first responce and start talking to her.
 
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chelsers

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Well I mean if I want to talk about my illustrious underwear modeling career with someone who understands my plight I may feel very deceived!!! :)
 
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chelsers

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Silex said:
Gets a response, breaks the ice etc. Why? What's your definition of "works"?:p
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Oh and by works I mean as a pickup line, not effective...Especially when you tell people you used it :)
 
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MusicalMe

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chelsers said:
Well I mean if I want to talk about my illustrious underwear modeling career with someone who understands my plight I may feel very deceived!!! :)
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Hahahahaha, Chels you're awesome!
 
Silex

Silex

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chelsers said:
Oh and by works I mean as a pickup line, not effective...Especially when you tell people you used it :)
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Ah. Different definitions of "work". I wouldn't wanna pickup anyone....don't wanna put more strain to my bad back.
 
dothackzero

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Anyway, so I'm starting to goto a new Chruch thing on Thursday. Where there's a lot of girls my age, hopefully I'll meet someone there sooner or later. Besides, I think it's really gonna help me grow as a Christian. ^_^
 
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I wish you were about 8 yrs older. My Oldest daughter is looking for a good christian man. Do you have an older brother that is a good christian? God bless, pickles
 
dothackzero

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Anyway, I think I'm gonna make another attempt to beat my shyness.
 
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bluebutterfly

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It really is hard to find Christians now these days though, I can't seem to find a good Christan man at all! (sigh but I know I will, good with everything the right women will come a long sooner or later.
 
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jgrig2

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Every thought thats because God is trying to teach you humility and dependence upon his all sufficience for your joy? Work hard, study hard, be a good church member and trust God. And if you are not ready to marry, I do not think you are ready to date. Are you ready for that?
 
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npuit

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The only advice I can give is to try and get yourself out there more. Get out of the house more for any reason... join a book club or something through your church or a random dance class. If your not the dancing type, I generally am not, try ballroom dancing... it's simple if you can remember patterns well. And it's not always a good thing to have dated alot of people, I have and break-ups suck. Your honest though and that's definately a plus. If you have a small church, try going to conferences held by bigger church in yoru area. Might be hard to find, but I know wave church in va beach holds some pretty awesome ones. Tons of people always show up.
 
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gr8ful1

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I'm sorry you're going through this lonely period. I know what its like myself. But we must wait on God because He knows what's good and right for us. Its not about us, its about God. I know its not as easy as it sounds but He does work in mysterious ways. Many times the issues we face are not only for our benefit but for the benefit of others. People are watching you. They are waiting to see you fold, slip and go back on your word and promises to God so they can feel justified in breaking or never making their own.

Be strong, stand firm and pray for strength. Ask God to remove some of the desires, the loneliness, etc. He'll never give you more than you can handle and it sounds like you can handle a great deal! I pray for your strength in the Lord. You sound like a wonderful person and I know when the right girl comes along it will be worth all the wait and the loneliness and you will appreciate her and worship the Lord even more.

-gr8ful1
 
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Chybike

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Waoo! I don't think this should be a problem to u my beloved brother,my BIBLE made me to understand,in the book of Ecclesiastes that everything have a set time to every purpose,under heaven.So when the time for u to get girlfriend comes,u wil know! As for now,u may be physically matured for that but not spiritually matured.My advice to u,is for u to continue seeking the kingdom of God and every other thing needed in ur life,will be added unto u by the ALMIGHTY GOD.GOD LOVES U!!! Don't feel rejected because He is there for u,when it seems like everyone around u hated u,He loves u the more.GOD BLESS!!!
 
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