Just trying to get an understanding of your thought process since it appears you are relating food which is an actual necessity to sex which is a want not a need.
And yes if God gave us choices and then allowed us physically able to dis-obey them why are you trying to suggest it is right to provide easy outs to escape the consequences for disobedience to our maker.
That's very much like a parent who keeps bailing their kid out of jail over and over instead of letting them endure what they brought upon themselves.
This ideal only serves to raise spoiled children who are not taught to respect and obey the authorities above them which leads to future "issues and problems" with a disrespect for not only their maker but the laws of the land that are put in force by God himself.
.....remember that verse "spare the rod spoil the child.
That means yes we are to endure our discipline when called for
This is also what Jesus himself was speaking of when someone strikes you to turn them the other cheek.
If one has done something deserving of punishment they are to shut up and take it and accept it without fighting back with an attitude that
THEY THEMSELVES are the mini God allowed to escape all they wish, including their maker.
Again with the attitude of I am and there is no one besides me. me me me. I want I want gimme gimme
Its my body I can do what I want with it, just do what makes ya happy etc.
Then they go on to follow a false God making excuses just as an adulturess
"She eats and wipes her mouth and says, Ive done nothing wrong"
Why would a person think they've done nothing wrong unless they have been misled into thinking such
Why do you assume people who have sex before marriage are spoilt? It's like putting everyone who has sex in the bracket of deliberately mischeivous, maliceful, rebellious people when really, most of the time, it's ignorance.
I'm far from spoilt, but I WAS ignorant of the value of sex before I stopped having it with partners.
And if I'm honest; if I hadn't been treated like dirt and messed around, and didn't feel so inadequate because of a serious burn that left me pretty badly scarred; I'd probably still be having it.
But my experiences led me to where I am and now I see the benefits of marriage before sex. I wasn't spoilt and deliberately rebellious, I was young and didn't know much better.
Being uneducated and inexperiences isn't the same as being a spoilt brat.