So I just finished reading the Hobbit last night. What a delightful book! And not one of those things did I find that were mentioned in the OP.
Of course, the first installment of the movie about Hobbit is just a nightmare! Radegast on a skateboard? I doubt Tolkien had heard of them!! I do hate movies that do not follow the book!
Tonight I start the LOR. For about the 20th time or so. I started back in high school - 1970 or so. Didn't really understand them that well, so no influence. Then I totally gave up all such "evil" fiction, because apparently it might pull me away from God and into the occult. (The 1980's was very dogmatic about some things in Christian circles!)
Well, I didn't need a book to do to my relationship with God what Rheumatoid Arthritis did! So yes, we are all influenced by different things, and sometimes ordinary things, or extraordinary things can draw us closer or farther from God. It is because we are all created uniquely. RA had me down for the count with God for quite a few years, but in the end, God used it to draw me closer to him and to do ministry to the hurting and broken. Amazing the way that verse always works out from Romans.
"And we know that in all things God works for the good of those who love him, who have been called according to his purpose." Romans 8:28 NIV
I do hate blanket condemnation of whole things. My husband was like that. I wasn't allowed to watch or read an science fiction the first 10 years of our marriage. Strange how it never hurt me before I was a Christian. Then one day, I watched Star Trek the Next Generation. I found some very humanist teachings and a lot of interesting imaginative things.
In fact, OST (Original Star Trek) inspired some geeks to think about things like how to make a strange device that Mr. Spock used - the one that sat on his desk and he consulted about facts. Or those sliding doors in stores that open with a laser. In OST, they had two men pulling ropes to make those doors magically open. Now we take them for granted - computers, doors that open perfectly before you get to them. Lucky someone didn't tell Steve Jobs and Bill Gates that Sci Fi and fantasy was bad for them, or you and I wouldn't be talking at all! (You in the plural, of course!)
Since my husband lifted his bans and I refound my childhood interests, I have become a much stronger Christian. Walking with God is what counts, and as long as things are not advocating murder and evil, I cannot see the harm.
My thought is some people do come from a difficult or occultic background and perhaps books like LOR and Narnia and Harry Potter might confuse their relationship with God. They should therefore stay away from those kinds of books and movies. I hope I have not led them down a dangerous road with my insistence that they have not harmed me or my family.
I am really looking forward to starting "Fellowship of the Rings" tonight, after my nightly devotions. Reading fiction and fantasy tends to make me sleepy and helps knock me out. I think that is a better option that handfuls of pills. So please try not to push your thoughts about my personal reading habits on me. For one thing, I am long past the point of being led astray by fantasy and sci fi, and for another, don't be a stumbling block to me, because of your predilection for reality, or confusing reality with fiction.