My focus is on Jesus, if somethings happens than it does (I doudt it). I'm just not going to keep trying.
Let it be Gods will, not mine!! I tried on my own and I think I will let God take it from here.
Matthew 21:21
Jesus replied, "Truly I tell you, if you have faith and DO NOT DOUBT, not only can you do what was done to the fig tree, but also you can say to this mountain, 'Go, throw yourself into the sea,' and it will be done.
Mountains don't hop into seas Joshua. People go their whole lives never getting past their mountains (those things that seem immovable). People end up spending their entire lives walking around their mountains never getting to the place God has prepared for them because they doubt their mountain can move; preposterous; impossible! It just doesn't happen.
...But in this passage, the master of all is literally telling you, "you can do what seems impossible" if only you have faith. Now while I completely agree with the advice the others have given you (to make sure you're properly prepared by God to be a man worthy of one of his treasured daughters), I want to hopefully help grow your faith a little more.
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Now faith is like a receipt after making an (online) purchase. When you have that receipt there's not a shadow of doubt in your mind that you WILL receive what you expect. You have the proof. That receipt is not a wish list where you're *hoping* to get what you want, though you may or may not get it. No! You KNOW what you want is as good as yours...it's only a matter of time before you get it. This is exactly what the following passage on faith means:
Hebrews 11:1 KJV
Now faith is the substance of things hoped for, the evidence of things not seen.
Notice that faith is not hope but the assurance or confidence in what one hopes for. It's literally
the proof before the actual thing arrives;
it's the receipt of purchase. But what happens if one makes a purchase but never receives a receipt? Can they have any confidence that they'll receive what they expect? Do they have any claim to what they bought? Absolutely not.
Joshua, you have
to KNOW that whatever you ask for in prayer
is as good as yours as soon as you ask it, else it's like buying something online without getting a receipt. And doubt is literally like canceling the order.
Mark 11:24
Therefore I say unto you, What things soever ye desire, when ye pray, believe that ye receive them, and ye shall have them.
Matthew 21:22
And all things, whatsoever ye shall ask in prayer, believing, ye shall receive.
The connotation here of believing in what you pray for is "past tense"; "foregone conclusion"; "looking backwards"; "already done", as in "believe that you have received". It seems strange to think like that, maybe even a little crazy, but this is what "walk[ing] by faith and not by sight" actually means. It means you know that you know that you have it before you see it.
Now always be careful of what you ask for before it's time (this is what the others are alluding to). The scriptures are littered with examples of people who were too rash, having to suffer the consequences of impatience. But when you ask for your woman in prayer, know that you know that you have her...as sure as if she is standing right in front of you, and then "rest" (i.e. act) in that truth every single day (because "faith without works is dead"):
- Send up prayers of thanksgiving for your woman morning and night; literal "thank you's", not requests.
- Be faithful to God and her whenever you're out around other women so to keep you under control (so you don't come off as needy or as a skirt chaser...be cool).
- Be faithful to God and her whenever you're alone.
- Be faithful to God and her by preparing yourself as the spiritual leader of your house, because that's your role. Study the book of Hebrews until you understand it.
- Start preparing yourself financially to take care of the Father's daughter. Unless you've an inheritance you better start working on it now.
God gave his son a bride, but it was after some SERIOUS work on the son's part. So if you want the bride that's prepared for you it's time to get to work.