When he checks out another girl in front of you.
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I find it amazing the garbage women will put up with.
He looks at porn, but he's still a good Christian and I know those women don't mean anything to him.
He flirts with other women, but I know he's just being polite. Those women don't mean anything to him.
He had an affair, but he was weak. I know that other woman didn't mean anything to him.
He stares at other women, but that's just what men do. I know those women don't mean anything to him.
Oh really? If they don't mean anything to him, then I suppose it might be high time he gave it up.
He looks at porn, but he's still a good Christian and I know those women don't mean anything to him.
He flirts with other women, but I know he's just being polite. Those women don't mean anything to him.
He had an affair, but he was weak. I know that other woman didn't mean anything to him.
He stares at other women, but that's just what men do. I know those women don't mean anything to him.
Oh really? If they don't mean anything to him, then I suppose it might be high time he gave it up.
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If he's looking at other women, it doesn't seem like he has that much respect for you.
I'm assuming that you've told him to stop, and he most likely knows how much it bothers you. Not to judge, but if he really cared for you, he would stop doing it, or try as hard as he could to stop doing it. You need to discuss something like this with him.
I'm assuming that you've told him to stop, and he most likely knows how much it bothers you. Not to judge, but if he really cared for you, he would stop doing it, or try as hard as he could to stop doing it. You need to discuss something like this with him.
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Which of course, begs the question if someone does this to a woman, are they even born again?
Matthew 7
"You will know them by their fruits. Grapes are not gathered from thorn bushes nor figs from thistles, are they?
Luke 6
For a good tree bringeth not forth corrupt fruit; neither doth a corrupt tree bring forth good fruit.
I usually don't encourage people to judge someone's salvation, but when it's something permanent like getting married, I see very little reason to believe that behavior will improve with time if a man isn't already behaving as a Christian should.
Matthew 7
"You will know them by their fruits. Grapes are not gathered from thorn bushes nor figs from thistles, are they?
Luke 6
For a good tree bringeth not forth corrupt fruit; neither doth a corrupt tree bring forth good fruit.
I usually don't encourage people to judge someone's salvation, but when it's something permanent like getting married, I see very little reason to believe that behavior will improve with time if a man isn't already behaving as a Christian should.
That's something I can agree with. When my grandparents were young and dating my grandfather one time kept 'ogling' other women in the church congregation who were walking by. My grandmother told him that if he wanted one of them so badly he could have her. But he said that he was looking at their beehive hairdos, because he didn't know how they got their hair to stay up like that. lol But I would agree that if he doesn't stop it after you tell him how you feel and politely ask him to stop, then that would be a red flag.
I think this sort of thing is similar to when your girlfriend hugs an old friend. She may have quite a few old male 'friends' and for some reason she feels the need to hug every one of them. If you tell her to stop she may think you're controlling and become defensive of her friends. If you tell her how you feel, she may think you're a wuss. So it's a difficult situation. But a person of understanding will be considerate and avoid emotional responses. Just tell him and consider his following response.
I think this sort of thing is similar to when your girlfriend hugs an old friend. She may have quite a few old male 'friends' and for some reason she feels the need to hug every one of them. If you tell her to stop she may think you're controlling and become defensive of her friends. If you tell her how you feel, she may think you're a wuss. So it's a difficult situation. But a person of understanding will be considerate and avoid emotional responses. Just tell him and consider his following response.
"...he always seems to be checking out other girls..."
Here you are checked and scanned. Ja! Ja!
"I know he loves me..."
Wow! If I were eating well, if I sleep well. Do I need to think on another thing? (Just to keep in mind).
We (men) even OLD, like to see, but if I have my own ice cream, do I NEED to look at others cups? (I gave a sigh)
Open your eyes and ask more girls / women.
This week, when I came back from the hospital, my brother was scanning all those he liked. When he invited me to lunch, I told him why he insists on asking girls their phones... He is sleeping with a woman who loves him. He is not completely happy, because she is fat (i would feel the same) but I NEVER GET ENGAGED with some I don like.
Next question, for her, it'd be: Am I being liked or loved?
Some people is used and left, abused.
I hope you are smart to GUESS what I am saying.
Here you are checked and scanned. Ja! Ja!
"I know he loves me..."
Wow! If I were eating well, if I sleep well. Do I need to think on another thing? (Just to keep in mind).
We (men) even OLD, like to see, but if I have my own ice cream, do I NEED to look at others cups? (I gave a sigh)
Open your eyes and ask more girls / women.
This week, when I came back from the hospital, my brother was scanning all those he liked. When he invited me to lunch, I told him why he insists on asking girls their phones... He is sleeping with a woman who loves him. He is not completely happy, because she is fat (i would feel the same) but I NEVER GET ENGAGED with some I don like.
Next question, for her, it'd be: Am I being liked or loved?
Some people is used and left, abused.
I hope you are smart to GUESS what I am saying.
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When I was married,both my wife & I were secure enough in our love for one another that if either of us happened to notice an attractive man or woman when we were out somewhere or even watching a film or something on T.V. it didn't bother us or make the other feel insecure. Neither of us acted like pigs about it or became lustful in our talk or actions concerning it,we simply acknowledged that we found said person pretty/attractive/handsome,and then we moved on. I don't think it's wrong to see someone & find them physically attractive & own that thought. The problem is when it becomes lustful. Men & Women are both "visual" creatures. Sure,Men may be a bit more than Women...but lust is lust & gawking is gawking...and that's just plain wrong & disrespectful weather you are in a relationship with the opposite sex or not.
Good! Comparison are needed BEFORE choosing or being chosen but, after a DATE (which is a more close friendship) why do I need to compare?
She, the one who invited me, the one I INVITE, needs no one else, except me.
By the way, Does any one here want to date me (or be dated by me)?
Ha! Ha! Ha! Ha! Just delete the advertisement. (It was a x-mass present a Grinch left)
She, the one who invited me, the one I INVITE, needs no one else, except me.
By the way, Does any one here want to date me (or be dated by me)?
Ha! Ha! Ha! Ha! Just delete the advertisement. (It was a x-mass present a Grinch left)