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The Lord created the marriage bed as a sacried place and that means that when two people become one flesh as the Lord says they do, then it would mean that wherever the two agreed on that is within the bounds of being married to each other that would be fine to do. .
When you love someone within the bounds of marriage you want to please them, you want to make them feel your love, you want to love them on a level only a husband and wife can love, this should include all activities that only the two of you are involved in and both feel comfortable doing, there is no sin only if it involves other party's or people and this would include porn as one or both are being stimulated by video that involves other people.
I hope this helps.
When you love someone within the bounds of marriage you want to please them, you want to make them feel your love, you want to love them on a level only a husband and wife can love, this should include all activities that only the two of you are involved in and both feel comfortable doing, there is no sin only if it involves other party's or people and this would include porn as one or both are being stimulated by video that involves other people.
I hope this helps.
I agree with woka. I am of the opinion that what happens in the bedroom of a man and his wife is a sacred act that should be cherished. Sex that is filled with love is a beautiful act. As long as both husband and wife are comfortable, and no sinful things (porn or other people, for example) are a part of the love making, then doing things that are pleasurable to each other is okay, in my opinion. I also feel that this sacred union should remain between husband and wife, not be discussed with any others. I cannot stand it when I am around other women and they want to talk about their sex life and question me about mine.
God Bless
God Bless
Was checking the similar threads list and found two like this, you can check em out if you so wish...however I will say this...
Whilst standing on neutral ground, this is a topic that many believers strongly castigate or defend. Some claim that it defiles the bed of holy matrimony because it is an act of lust and God did not intend for our sexual nature to be used any other way but the universal way. Some also bring in the Sodom and Gomorrah concept (in the case of sodomy). Some others believe once you are married you have the liberty of engaging how ever you wish...
Its not a topic I can really comment on but one thing I gotta say, apart from all the answers you will get on this thread ask God and get his opinion on the matter too...
God bless..
Whilst standing on neutral ground, this is a topic that many believers strongly castigate or defend. Some claim that it defiles the bed of holy matrimony because it is an act of lust and God did not intend for our sexual nature to be used any other way but the universal way. Some also bring in the Sodom and Gomorrah concept (in the case of sodomy). Some others believe once you are married you have the liberty of engaging how ever you wish...
Its not a topic I can really comment on but one thing I gotta say, apart from all the answers you will get on this thread ask God and get his opinion on the matter too...
God bless..
...........uh, well..............maybe..........
doesn't it seem odd that IF what you say is the case, they didn't hang around to discuss the issue? And, no, I didn't run them off, 'cause the thread had been up for many hours prior to my comment. This is what is known as a "flame question." One of several that often get posted on Christian Forums. It's designed to cause a certain response, and the poster disappears back into the netherworld of cyberspace.
(but, now, that's just me I suppose)
doesn't it seem odd that IF what you say is the case, they didn't hang around to discuss the issue? And, no, I didn't run them off, 'cause the thread had been up for many hours prior to my comment.
This is what is known as a "flame question." One of several that often get posted on Christian Forums. It's designed to cause a certain response, and the poster disappears back into the netherworld of cyberspace.(but, now, that's just me I suppose)
David and Salomon could have said anything about the subject and, of course, each persona has learned to live by his/her standars or likes, particularly when GOD permitted some freedom, unless men behaves and do things like women and, these do sexual things that are proper to man: They are pemitted (a man and his woman) to be ONE FLESH, from the very beginning.
To the person who posted that thread:
I guess you have seen some porn, you are an adult and a sinner (like me).
If you have learned from life experiences, you have heard what the woman like, and also men.
Your sex cannot be Christianized, but your mind.
If you plan to be come one flesh with your wife, ask what her needs are and tell her what yours are.
I do know women regret men asking issues. I know they hide many of their ideas, but I see here HOLY thoughts, humble opinions, but the issue HAS to be sorted with the one you married, in your intimacy.
What is the reason lesbians go to lesbians?
Part of that is not being loved the way they wanted to be loved.
part of it is sinful, lustful, but they needed someone to trust, more than a man (obviously! They cheat and lie like anyother person who lives and ungodly living).
Could a man please his wife? Yes!
In a holy way? Yes!
Watching porn? No!
Having fantacies with another man (or women)? No! That it would be a mental orgy and a BIG lie.
I guess you have seen some porn, you are an adult and a sinner (like me).
If you have learned from life experiences, you have heard what the woman like, and also men.
Your sex cannot be Christianized, but your mind.
If you plan to be come one flesh with your wife, ask what her needs are and tell her what yours are.
I do know women regret men asking issues. I know they hide many of their ideas, but I see here HOLY thoughts, humble opinions, but the issue HAS to be sorted with the one you married, in your intimacy.
What is the reason lesbians go to lesbians?
Part of that is not being loved the way they wanted to be loved.
part of it is sinful, lustful, but they needed someone to trust, more than a man (obviously! They cheat and lie like anyother person who lives and ungodly living).
Could a man please his wife? Yes!
In a holy way? Yes!
Watching porn? No!
Having fantacies with another man (or women)? No! That it would be a mental orgy and a BIG lie.
Dear God please forgive us, forgive me for speaking about this for as your word says,Ephesians 5:12
1611 King James Version of Ephesians 5:12.
For it is a shame even to speak of those things which are done of them in secret.
- King James Bible "Authorized Version", Cambridge Edition
1611 King James Version of Ephesians 5:12.
For it is a shame even to speak of those things which are done of them in secret.
- King James Bible "Authorized Version", Cambridge Edition