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[h=3]1 Corinthians 7:5[/h]King James Version (KJV)
5 Defraud ye not one the other, except it be with consent for a time, that ye may give yourselves to fasting and prayer; and come together again, that Satan tempt you not for your incontinency.
Basically, it is okay Within marriage but it should fully be agreed upon by the spouse and it should not be forced. As long as it does not involve other people, physically and mentally, or porn then why does it matter.
5 Defraud ye not one the other, except it be with consent for a time, that ye may give yourselves to fasting and prayer; and come together again, that Satan tempt you not for your incontinency.
Basically, it is okay Within marriage but it should fully be agreed upon by the spouse and it should not be forced. As long as it does not involve other people, physically and mentally, or porn then why does it matter.
K
What is inappropriate is to tell a group of adults, having a polite discussion, that they are not "exercising their spirits". I was encouraged that this subject was handled with tact, and that the attempt at baiting the stuffy Christians was an epic failure. A lot of our brothers and sisters are too easily offended. I've honest to goodness had people tell me I was quenching their spirit by talking about what was for supper, or not want to eat with a traveler because his language might be coarse. I'm talking about adults too, it's sad. For me personally, I consider oral sex, to be any marital kissing. I wonder if anyone would appose french kissing for married couples. Probably. Oh, and that also means I don't agree with kissing outside of marriage. Not because of where it might lead, but because it's apparently already led there. Before the pastor says you're man and wife (assuming you are not about to unequally yoke yourself), you're still brother and sister.
H
This scripture is not referring to a lust for a particular sexual act! But instead marriage is honourable in all, if the two are one, as Christ and the church are one. Ephesians 5:22-28
Hebrews 13: 4. Marriage is honorable in all, and the bed undefiled: but whoremongers and adulterers God will judge.
Hebrews 13: 4. Marriage is honorable in all, and the bed undefiled: but whoremongers and adulterers God will judge.
J
I love loving men with my heart, not mouth, never will do that and no amount of money given will be taken, as for the opposite, if a husband feels free in this I wouldn't try to tame him, but don't force others when it is uncomfortable. Some hot topics, how about more verbal words of love,,, I'll take it... and just to be sure I would tell the man the Lord gives me, I don't do that, what you do is between you and God. 
I love loving men with my heart, not mouth, never will do that and no amount of money given will be taken, as for the opposite, if a husband feels free in this I wouldn't try to tame him, but don't force others when it is uncomfortable. Some hot topics, how about more verbal words of love,,, I'll take it... and just to be sure I would tell the man the Lord gives me, I don't do that, what you do is between you and God.
If people agrees on money (to have or give sex) that becomes prostitution.
I understand what you meant, but I know what prostitution could be and I have experience that, as a male (prostituting) and know how we paid, with things, to receive things, it be LOVE or token of affection and both can be "bought" or sold.
Just to point out the risk of endangering to buy love or those token by think could be love (and it´s not).
Love and friendship are COMPLETELY FREE. They are not to be asked or begged. (I thank GOD for that).
Same personal rule applies for sex.
I´m not sure what PAUL meant here (the only "single" apostle I have heard of, by the way) but if he said so, he referred to -in Greek- as COITUS (a private issue) labeled as BED, by religious "eufemismo".
Heb 13:4 Marriage is honorable in every way, so husbands and wives should be faithful to each other. God will judge those who commit sexual sins, especially those who commit adultery.
Heb 13:4 MarriageG1062 is honourableG5093 inG1722 all,G3956 andG2532 theG3588 bedG2845 undefiled:G283 butG1161 whoremongersG4205 andG2532 adulterersG3432 GodG2316 will judge.G2919
κοίτη This, in Spanish, is the root of coito = sex.
koitē
koy'-tay
From G2749; a couch; by extension cohabitation; by implication the male sperm: - bed, chambering, X conceive.
Heb 13:4 Marriage is honorable in every way, so husbands and wives should be faithful to each other. God will judge those who commit sexual sins, especially those who commit adultery.
Heb 13:4 MarriageG1062 is honourableG5093 inG1722 all,G3956 andG2532 theG3588 bedG2845 undefiled:G283 butG1161 whoremongersG4205 andG2532 adulterersG3432 GodG2316 will judge.G2919
κοίτη This, in Spanish, is the root of coito = sex.
koitē
koy'-tay
From G2749; a couch; by extension cohabitation; by implication the male sperm: - bed, chambering, X conceive.
I think we can answer a question without questioning our faith. As others have stated when you're married you can decide what is comfortable between you and your spouse. I don't mean bringing in a third person or animal.
I think Michael Douglas probably slept around and didn't get cancer from his wife. They separated shortly after he told the whole world about it.
I think Michael Douglas probably slept around and didn't get cancer from his wife. They separated shortly after he told the whole world about it.
J
In my opinion this topic should be posted in a private place.
Just as scripture said, "It is a thing done in private." I understand
if the person questioning it is seriously concerned, or just wanting
to 'shake up Christian beliefs.'
As for diseases, some diseases do not show up immediately. It can
be dormant for years, then appear.
Another thing women consider this as cause of urinary tract infection.
I am not a prude, I could get into the 'hot tub' with you and talk the
talk. But, my spirit ( the Holy Spirit ) doesn't feel comfortable talking
about my marital activities in a mixed forum.
At least it has been done decently and in order. God bless you ~ J-K-2
Just as scripture said, "It is a thing done in private." I understand
if the person questioning it is seriously concerned, or just wanting
to 'shake up Christian beliefs.'
As for diseases, some diseases do not show up immediately. It can
be dormant for years, then appear.
Another thing women consider this as cause of urinary tract infection.
I am not a prude, I could get into the 'hot tub' with you and talk the
talk. But, my spirit ( the Holy Spirit ) doesn't feel comfortable talking
about my marital activities in a mixed forum.
At least it has been done decently and in order. God bless you ~ J-K-2
O
seeing that it is just not easy to bring this topic up with regular people that you see on a regular day this form is a great way to get information regarding the subject so please do not be judgmental as believers we should be ready and willing to answer any question that any person may have because these are real life topics in subjects