To the person who posted that thread:
I guess you have seen some porn, you are an adult and a sinner (like me).
If you have learned from life experiences, you have heard what the woman like, and also men.
Your sex cannot be Christianized, but your mind.
If you plan to be come one flesh with your wife, ask what her needs are and tell her what yours are.
I do know women regret men asking issues. I know they hide many of their ideas, but I see here HOLY thoughts, humble opinions, but the issue HAS to be sorted with the one you married, in your intimacy.
What is the reason lesbians go to lesbians?
Part of that is not being loved the way they wanted to be loved.
part of it is sinful, lustful, but they needed someone to trust, more than a man (obviously! They cheat and lie like anyother person who lives and ungodly living).
Could a man please his wife? Yes!
In a holy way? Yes!
Watching porn? No!
Having fantacies with another man (or women)? No! That it would be a mental orgy and a BIG lie.