Nothing is wrong with video gaming, as long as it does not take you away from life's responsibilities and God's response to your life.
Good thread, decipheringcat, just add God to the mix is my only suggestion, let Him lead you, and, it may be to a girl, it may not, but, it will be His leading and if you are dwelling in Him then it's all good wherever you go
Mention God wherever you go. My devotion this morning from Psalm 7 tells us to always "thank God, for He is just.' And, to "sing praises to the Lord Most High." What I found most fascinating of this verse is that we are to thank God for things of our life, like allowing us to meet girls, etc., because 'He is just.' But, there is no reason for praising him given. We are just to praise Him wherever we go.
We never know when we can get ourselves in a scrape, like David, maybe, with a girl even, doing something to hurt her feelings or something. And, God knows our hearts, sees our past ways of prasing and thanking Him for things of our life and I am not guessing but not knowing either but God will accordingly bless and mete out justice and blessings, like giving you a girl, based on your past thanking and praising of Him. Praying too.