I...tried...to talk to my mom this morning. About what happened last night. I had been a little afraid to say anything because she's been pushing me so hard to just "simply fix" things with my ex. But I thought, well, she's my mom for crying out loud, she'll care, and maybe she'll kind of see a little better why I'm in this situation.
*sigh*
The whole thing kinda really blew up in my face.
The end of the conversation went like this:
Mom- "Well...you're still married to him-"
Me- "That's not my fault. He hasn't-"
Mom- "AND AS HIS WIFE-"
Me- "You can't be serious."
Mom- "You have to do some things you might not-"
*click*
Fun times.
In pray and prayed for you to see as you are seeing the hypocrisy in others trying to control others to their satisfaction a sif Father is a tyrant and we are told we have to, if that is true, then god seriously can't claim god just love you,. and would have never gone to the cross for you, and all
Yes it is not your fault that the other in this marriage is not compassionate to you, and only is, when he sees he can get what he is after. And when thinks he has shown you this, by as an example do the dishes, and then turns to you and expects, a return
That is doing to get and was not done from the heart, if expectations afterward came to light
It shows just like in Luke 14, a real enlightening truth there invite be good to those that can't return your goodness to you. And if good to those that can, expect not to be returned to, and if are okay,
For all not just a few have free will choice.
And if peaople would look back as in the day of Noah, might see exactly what God was and is angry about
PEOPLE TAKING AWAY OTHERS FREE WILL
Stand therefore and I bet he won't do what he did anymore, i think you gained respect. yet remain wise, trusting god to reveal to you when to make that right or left