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Today I can witness a person whose longs for money and her daily needs, now are suplied, because she´s become rich by an heritance and, in advance, He (God) told her, by dreams and teachings, He is her helper.
(No further info on request). Just to thank GOD, publicly, because HE is peoples righteousness and ABSOLUTE strengh.
Today I can witness a person whose longs for money and her daily needs, now are suplied, because she´s become rich by an heritance and, in advance, He (God) told her, by dreams and teachings, He is her helper.
(No further info on request). Just to thank GOD, publicly, because HE is peoples righteousness and ABSOLUTE strengh.
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Im not sure if this will be of any help but I do hope so.....dont, DONT, loose hope that your husband is out there being molded for you. IT COULD BE WORSE! So wait on God, trust that he has the perfect timing. Trust me...you could be now married to whom you believed was finally your chance at love, at a family, at a home only to have them turn on you and destroy that dream, stomp on you daily and leave you shattered. N the dreaming, the hoping, all the praying and all the waiting you....wasted. Thats a horrible feeling. Instead....you can still dream and wait for that family you WILL have in God's perfect time. It may not seem like a perfect love story or romantic the idea of waiting alone for a decade....but trust me you rather that hope of the soon to be your beautiful love story than an early found love that...kills your hope.
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I liked reading your encouraging words for Laura.....here is what I shared with her....maybe it encourages you too
Im not sure if this will be of any help but I do hope so.....dont, DONT, loose hope that your husband is out there being molded for you. IT COULD BE WORSE! So wait on God, trust that he has the perfect timing. Trust me...you could be now married to whom you believed was finally your chance at love, at a family, at a home only to have them turn on you and destroy that dream, stomp on you daily and leave you shattered. N the dreaming, the hoping, all the praying and all the waiting you....wasted. Thats a horrible feeling. Instead....you can still dream and wait for that family you WILL have in God's perfect time. It may not seem like a perfect love story or romantic the idea of waiting alone for a decade....but trust me you rather that hope of the soon to be your beautiful love story than an early found love that...kills your hope.
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i'm sorry to hear of your pain...you are not alone. Everyone has their own struggle and a large number of folks are overweight nowadays. My main problem is being a short man @5'6". You can try a diet/workout regimen, but the main point is to take hold of the Lord with all your soul. Satan loves to bring us down and we tend to let him hold us there. I wasted many years hanging out with "friends" that "weren't", doing things to be "cool" and none of which paid off. Was getting spiritual back 20 years ago, but my "friends" took me down, had all the guys at work giving me junk about not having a woman. So my opportunity came along, she was not what I needed as a spiritual person, but I tried way too hard to keep it together, just to finally be who everyone thought I should be. I got a wonderful daughter out of all that, but also made a drunk butt of myself once to my wife's ex's friends early in our relationship. Someone got it on tape and brought me down with it at work. Its amazing what Satan can do, especially when he gets your friends involved. He is very powerful if you let him.
But the bible says Satan's fate is already sealed. Ultimately my marriage didn't work out, as my wife was attracted to crappy people.
You need to take God with all your heart. Let him direct you into a hobby or group of people you can grow genuinely happy around. Live your life, in Christ and eventually good things will come. Take it from me, "do not be conformed of this world" was never truer...Satan's butt-whoopin' is coming, he's just trying to bring God's children down along the way. Do what you want to do in your life as God would want you to do. Ask him in prayer. Many times, as I did long ago, we pray for a miracle when what he wants is for us to let Him in, and make some true effort on our own, with is wisdom. Prayers to you...
But the bible says Satan's fate is already sealed. Ultimately my marriage didn't work out, as my wife was attracted to crappy people.
You need to take God with all your heart. Let him direct you into a hobby or group of people you can grow genuinely happy around. Live your life, in Christ and eventually good things will come. Take it from me, "do not be conformed of this world" was never truer...Satan's butt-whoopin' is coming, he's just trying to bring God's children down along the way. Do what you want to do in your life as God would want you to do. Ask him in prayer. Many times, as I did long ago, we pray for a miracle when what he wants is for us to let Him in, and make some true effort on our own, with is wisdom. Prayers to you...
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First, you are your best company so your never alone. No its not cliche though it may sound like it but if you learn to love yourself as you are you then learn to enjoy your own company, your thoughts, your likes, dislikes even grabbing a cup of coffee or a smoothie by yourself or a movie. Trust me learning this will heal SO many wounds...take baby steps but its doable and so healing. Second, God is with you and yes this is said constantly n when there's harsh days when you dont even feel him nearby its hard to believe or survive but He is. Go to YouTube n look up BarlowGirl "never alone" n listen to it. This song helps me a lot! Listen to it n believe no ur never alone. The song helps me on harsh days... I get you....thats why I shows my Avatar as a girl (me) w the quote "you may feel alone but God knows exact where you are and He has a plan for you" I promise you He does....so fight the suicide thoughts. YOU are worth so much that you havent yet realized and no it wont take a man loving you,Iit will take YOU loving YOU.....you'll see so survival mode ok
it wont take a man loving you,Iit will take YOU loving YOU.....you'll see so survival mode ok
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Ilc84, I want you to know that you are not alone in this struggle. I have suffered for many years because I'm single. I want to share a scripture with you. Psalm 37:3-7. Please meditate on that. God is probably preparing your husband for you . The devil is putting these thoughts in your head. You are wonderfully and fearfully made. God doesn't want just anyone for you. He's preparing your best friend, confidant, soulmate. Maybe focus on yourself until he comes when you least expect him to. I struggle with co-dependency so even though I am still single, I am glad I have this time to acknowledge the areas of my heart that aren't quite right. I don't want to make a man the soyrce of my happiness which is where I have been in my head lately until god showed me. I am listening to sermons about marriage. What it means to be a godly wife, how to be a sorce of comfort for my future hubby, learning how to manage a household, putting others first, how to emotionally supportive of him, ...up until now, I haven't considered all of this so I'm grateful I have time to focus then I'll feel more prepared for it when it happens!
. The devil is putting these thoughts in your head. You are wonderfully and fearfully made. God doesn't want just anyone for you. He's preparing your best friend, confidant, soulmate. Maybe focus on yourself until he comes when you least expect him to. I struggle with co-dependency so even though I am still single, I am glad I have this time to acknowledge the areas of my heart that aren't quite right. I don't want to make a man the soyrce of my happiness which is where I have been in my head lately until god showed me. I am listening to sermons about marriage. What it means to be a godly wife, how to be a sorce of comfort for my future hubby, learning how to manage a household, putting others first, how to emotionally supportive of him, ...up until now, I haven't considered all of this so I'm grateful I have time to focus then I'll feel more prepared for it when it happens!