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You're the one saying that I said every guy used that thread. I was using it as an example that looks do bring some sort of impact when it comes to what people prefer since personality isn't what stands out when you first see someone. It's even proven biologically as to how people find as a suitable mate. I'm okay with that, just not when people deny the looks and say it's all about personality without second thought since that denies how we work when it comes to the chemistry when having relationships built. That's how you will get to the personality of someone.
I applaud you for that. I'm not trying to make it seem like I'm attacking women by the way. I know you didn't accuse me but for anyone who to read it, just wanted to clarify. I agree it's all bout the heart and spirit. It's just unfortunate we can't see that. And more often than not it'll be the built guy or skinny girl who gets the more attention to a guy who isn't as built or a woman who isn't as skinny. That's why I think stuff like eyes and hair matters. We can comment about those and we all have favorite colors.
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I'd rather have a loving heart and brains than beauty. 
And the majority of our society's idea of beauty is actually done thru photoshop... It doesn't even exist in reality...
And the majority of our society's idea of beauty is actually done thru photoshop... It doesn't even exist in reality...
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Excellent post, Ella! I believe I'm very much the same way. Initially it was Arlene's godly wisdom, refreshing innocent spirit and random silliness that drew me to her (I mean, she had a taco avatar - for a long time I didn't know what she physically looked like). Then, on the phone, her voice and giggles did it for me. And later, in a heartwarming video Arlene sent me, her smile and eyes completed the picture. It doesn't hurt that Arlene's beautiful, but physical looks mean little in the long run if the person doesn't have godly character and an interesting personality. I can't wait to meet Arlene face-to-face. Roll on late-September!
If all a woman has to offer is her looks then she isn't wife material. A good man will look beyond the physical beauty of a woman. And if a woman thinks she isn't attractive enough to have a man then she needs to work on her self confidence before entering a relationship in the first place. I was insecure for many many years. When I let my insecurity go is when I found love. Cheesey? Yes but true.