First, Romans 12:3 does not say that every man is given a measure of faith (meaning unbelievers). If they had faith, they would believe. The word "every man" in Romans 12:3 is in context to only believers. For if you were to read the chapter, it does not split and talk of unbelievers before or after verse 3. The surrounding verses are addressed to believers. How so? 2 Thessalonians 3:2 says, "all men have not faith." For without faith, it is impossible to please Him. In other words, if all men had a measure of faith, then they would be pleasing God in some way by being an unbeliever. But that's not possible. Only someone who comes forth in faith pleases God.
How do we get faith? By the Word of God. For faith comes by hearing the Word of God (Romans 10:17).
This is what the Parable of the Sower is all about. Those who receive the Word (i.e. God's Word or the Scriptures of the gospel message) had taken it to heart and repented and accepted Jesus Christ. Some have a deep root in God's Word and they endure persecutions and the cares of this life. Some who do not have root (no faith in God's Word) can fall away due to persecution and or the cares of this life. In other words, some do not endure because of a lack of faith. Remember the verse that says perfect love casts out fear? This is our walk in faith perfected with Jesus Christ.
This is what the Parable of the Sower is all about. Those who receive the Word (i.e. God's Word or the Scriptures of the gospel message) had taken it to heart and repented and accepted Jesus Christ. Some have a deep root in God's Word and they endure persecutions and the cares of this life. Some who do not have root (no faith in God's Word) can fall away due to persecution and or the cares of this life. In other words, some do not endure because of a lack of faith. Remember the verse that says perfect love casts out fear? This is our walk in faith perfected with Jesus Christ.
In other words, a person has a dead faith because they lack faith. Faith to take that step with God in order to get cleansed by Him and to study and trust His Word. Some people try to follow God their own way. But faith comes by hearing and hearing the Word of God. Faith. For by grace are ye saved by faith and not that of yourselves. Not that of yourselves. Not that of yourselves. See. Jesus saves. Not that of yourselves. Grace is a free gift that changes a person so that good works will flow from that true faith. But if a person starts to doubt God, then they can backslide into sin and or even apostasize from the faith. But the foundation of faith is believing and not works. For a person can go thru all the external motions (works) and not be changed inwardly. They can have no real belief or no real faith. They could even be worshiping a false Christ or god of their own imagining.
And be not conformed to this world: but be ye transformed by the renewing of your mind, that ye may prove what is that good, and acceptable, and perfect, will of God.
[SUP]23 [/SUP]And be renewed in the spirit of your mind;
[SUP]24 [/SUP]And that ye put on the new man, which after God is created in righteousness and true holiness.
[SUP]25 [/SUP]Wherefore putting away lying, speak every man truth with his neighbour: for we are members one of another.
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Second, God ultimately does the good work within the believer. For Jesus is the author and finisher of our faith. So if a believer chooses to be unfruitful, backslides into sin and or apostasizes, they are working against the Spirit of God trying to move within their life. For God is not willing that any should perish, but that all should come to repentance. For repentance is what will get a person's heart right with God. Can a person stray away from God after being born again? Yes. They still have free will. But if they are born again, it will be natural for them to allow God to work within their hearts and lives. But salvation is in a person named Jesus Christ. For He that has the Son has life and He that does not have the Son, does not have life (1 John 5:12). And if a person has Jesus living in them, then naturally Christ will do good works within their life (If a person allows Him).
John 1:12
But as many as received him, to them gave he power to become the sons of God, even to them that believe on his name:
Jesus here was not promoting salvation by works. He was trying to convince them that He was One with the Father. Big difference, my friend.
Verily, verily, I say unto you, He that believeth on me, the works that I do shall he do also; and greater works than these shall he do; because I go unto my Father.
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