I personally don't believe that the fivefold ministry is for females. Ephesians 4 in English says Christ gave gifts to men. And in the Greek we read the same thing, that Christ gave gifts to males (man-faced men). Those gifts or should I say that Gift was very selfsame Mantle/Gift that the Lord Jesus carried as a man when he walked the earth. That mantle was Apostle, Prophet, Evangelist, Shepherd and Teacher. We can interchange Function/Role/Office with "the Gift(s)" that Jesus gave unto men.
As for Junia (who many consider was an apostle) in Romans 16:7 in English it says that she was of note among the apostles. To be of note among somebody means you are well spoken of. It does not mean she was an apostle, it just means she was highly favored among the apostles.
I believe a believing woman can do things for the Lord and for the Gospel outside of the Church. My total focus about women in ministry is on the Order within the Church (not outside of it). And I believe if a married believiing women wanted to talk about God or the Gospel to an unbeliever in the world, then that's fine unless her husband commands her not to.
If Christian women really believed in the Bible as the infallable word of God, then there should be no debate whatsoever among them if a man of God in the Church said that they couldn't speak during the service, and teach or preach etc. If they read their Bible's, or better yet, if they listened* to holy Scripture in their Bible's, then they should completely and coherently understand without a doubt that men of God in the Church have the authority over them for the sake of God's Order. God is not the author of confusion/disorder. I went off topic here but I felt led to jot these thoughts down.
I said this on my last comment: "
Until the Lord fully reveals every point about an issue, you have to wait for the revelation to be complete or else you will fall into error." That basically means we can't understand or latch to a thing until it is revealed to us.
For now, the only thing I see regarding the five-fold ministry being for men is this: when Elijah ascended in a burning chariot, his mantle fell down to Elisha. When Jesus ascended, He purposely divided His mantle into five parts and let them descend. In that particular meaning or way, the five-fold ministry
as a mantle is only for males. A mantle is different from an office or gift or function. It is like how the word 'majestic' is masculine and a synonym of the masculine 'stately'
but can be used for females as well as males;
but the word 'stately' is masculine and can really only properly be used for males. Majestic implies wonder and grandeur; but stately implies strength and ascendancy as in 'a stately oak'. You don't hear about stately flowers but might hear the word 'majestic' used to describe a flower. This is why word meanings are very important. Isaiah said, "To us a Son is given, and
the government will be on His shoulders" (Isa. 9:6). The words 'government' and 'shoulder' tell me 'masculine' (as in a mantle that is placed, from ages back, on the shoulders of apprentices, nobility, princes, etc.).
Now, as for Junia or women who have ministry 'gifts' (not mantles of government which God has reserved for males as surely as male lions, not female lions, have manes), I believe that a woman can share a mantle with her husband (and that a woman can have a 'sub-calling' to the five-fold gifts). It seems that Andronicus and Junia were married, like Aquila and Priscilla, and that Andronicus was an apostle with Junia his wife sharing his mantle (and God does do this-- get husband and wife to share). I haven't looked into this but will wait for the revelation which will come. God sent Adam and gave him orders on how to rule earth;
but He created Eve to be Adam's helpmate. If Eve was to help Adam rule,
then she would have to be a ruler herself (as in a king and queen, not a king and his wife). This is how the Lord often works with ministry calling so that if a man holds a pastoral mantle, for example, his wife can share in it and rightfully be called a pastor as well (but a pastor to women). This is the pattern I see throughout the Bible, from OT to NT.
And I want to include one more thing. You said that Junia and Andronicus (who I believe were a couple) were not apostles but were just noted among the apostles. That might be true; but remember that most of the post-ascension apostles are not called apostles by title (twelve or more post-ascension apostles are mentioned in the NT) and when called apostles sometimes not named (from Acts through the Epistles we see this). Again, the Lord leaves it to us to seek the Spirit for revelation here. Sometimes, you have to get to the Greek words to know who is an apostle and who isn't. Matthias was the real 13th apostle, and Paul and Barnabas are named as apostles. Others such as Apollos, Silas, Timothy, and Epaphras are said to have been apostles by noting word usage and Greek meanings. For example, I wasn't looking to see who was what, but it took me just one verse to realize that Titus was a real authorized post-ascension apostle. In the verse, Paul tells Titus to do things that only an apostle has authority and ability to do. As an apostle himself, Paul would not have charged Titus to do this if Titus was not an apostle also (i.e. if God hadn't given Titus to Grace or ability and authority to do these things). Here is the verse:
"For this reason I left you (Titus) in Crete, that you should
set in order the things that are lacking, and
appoint elders in every city as I commanded you" (1:5).
I highlighted the three standout points that authorize Titus specifically as an apostle. With each point, Titus' apostleship is made much more apparent so that where the first point says there's a 75% chance he was an apostle, the last point says there is a 90% chance he was an apostle; and all together, the three points say that he was undoubtedly an apostle. But not everyone can see these things just by reading; like the rest of God's Word, they have to be made plain by revelation. So, if a passage says, "They were outstanding among the apostles", it may mean just that: they were apostles with something unique about them which may have been their special 'dual-apostleship'. "Judge nothing before the time, until the Lord comes" (1Cor. 4:5), so I'll wait till it's totally clear.