Romans 2:1 - Therefore thou art inexcusable, O man, whosoever thou art that judgest . . . now this is said after we are told about the reprobate in chapter 1 . . .
But we are sure that the judgment of God is according to truth against them which commit such things - commit what things? again Chapter 1 . . .
And thinkest thou this, O man, that judgest them which do such things, and doest the same, that thou shalt escape the judgment of God? . . . still referring to Chapter 1
Or despises thou the riches of his goodness and forbearance and longsuffering; not knowing that the goodness of God leadeth thee to repentance? . . . Now - God's forbearance and longsuffering and goodness should lead "O, man" to repentance - lead one to want to change
But after thy hardness and impenitent heart treasurest up unto thyself wrath against the day of wrath and revelation of the righteous judgment of God; Who will render to every man according to his deeds: To them who by patient continuance in well doing seek for glory and honour and immortality, eternal life [those who are lead to repentance]. . . . But unto them that are contentious, ad do not obey the truth, but obey unrighteousness, indignation and wrath, tribulation and anguish, upon every soul of man that doeth evil, of the Jew first, and also of the Gentile; [those who remain unrepentant] But glory, honour, and peace, to every man that worketh good, to the Jew first, and also to the Gentile [those who have repented]
This context does not say what you are trying to make it say - this context is speaking of judgment - God's judgment - NOT THE MYSTERY . . .