Before you say it's different for every person or when it feels right. Let me relay this:
I was watching this dating show where women were interviewing male candidates. They asked one man, 'When did you say,"I love you" in your last serious relationship?' He replied, 'After two years.'
The women gasped. I started thinking, what does timing and the words, "I love you" signify?
Of course there is a spectrum of subjectivity. But if a stranger walks up to you on the street and says, "I love you", chances are the person wants something from you and isn't committed to you.
On the flip side if it takes someone two years to finally say it does that mean they are more committed? Or does it mean he/she can't express their emotions properly?
*This post was written expressly to provoke discussion not a fight. If you feel angry/intellectually offended by my bad punctuation or indignant upon reading this post and you would like to personally attack me or others, please chatmail me. I do run a corporation in China where I kill kittens. My top kitten killer, who checks my chatmail, would love to take a break and hear your problems with this post. Otherwise I'm busy selling kitten fur and I will ignore your negative post on my thread. Cheers!*
I was watching this dating show where women were interviewing male candidates. They asked one man, 'When did you say,"I love you" in your last serious relationship?' He replied, 'After two years.'
The women gasped. I started thinking, what does timing and the words, "I love you" signify?
Of course there is a spectrum of subjectivity. But if a stranger walks up to you on the street and says, "I love you", chances are the person wants something from you and isn't committed to you.
On the flip side if it takes someone two years to finally say it does that mean they are more committed? Or does it mean he/she can't express their emotions properly?
*This post was written expressly to provoke discussion not a fight. If you feel angry/intellectually offended by my bad punctuation or indignant upon reading this post and you would like to personally attack me or others, please chatmail me. I do run a corporation in China where I kill kittens. My top kitten killer, who checks my chatmail, would love to take a break and hear your problems with this post. Otherwise I'm busy selling kitten fur and I will ignore your negative post on my thread. Cheers!*
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