I tried to give Fenner some rep points for Valentine's Day, but the system won't let me...
Well, at least now I have something ELSE to be disgruntled about on Valentine's Day instead of being single.
Aww thanks, you're to kind.
I tried to give Fenner some rep points for Valentine's Day, but the system won't let me...
Well, at least now I have something ELSE to be disgruntled about on Valentine's Day instead of being single.
Right, it's never like the movies.![]()
Grandma watches that channel with all those romance comedies. Around this time of year they get especially sappy.
Oh well, it's a break from "The Good Witch" over and over. I swear they have shown that series of movies at least three hundred times now.
Of course 'it' means watching The Notebook..
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well I'm sure V-Day is very romantic for married people and they probably do have the fuzzy bunny slippers kind of day quite often..... then kids arrive!!!!! End of story.
Unless you are an old newly wed married couple then all you have to do is wait for the grim reaper then it's End of story....lol
In the spirit of Chandler's oh-so-subtle hint, my birthday is after Christmas but before Valentine's Day.
Seeing as mine has already passed, I gladly accept after-sale candy from any holiday. Feel free to PM me and I will gladly leave instructions on where to send it.
Several female co-workers have their eye on a huge stuffed giraffe in our promotional department. At last count, there is only one left. I was thinking of trying to snap it up and raffle it off...
Like anyone else on Valentine's Day, I foresee a lot of red. As in... from a big huge fight, because three girls fighting over one large stuffed animal could turn ugly pretty fast.
P.S. This thread is the epitome of why our married friends here are so awesome. Thank you for having compassion (instead of pity!) on us and "giving us the real" of how life actually works. All the commercials, books, and movies, make us forget that sometimes.
married peoples.....Fenner's got it down as to the "romance" of a married person's Valentine's day. I got up this morning, took the dogs out, and enjoyed a cup of coffee before my wife got up, then snuck back upstairs to put her present and card on her pillow while she was brushing her teeth. We went out for breakfast at IHOP just because as long as the Sat morning breakfast lines can be at restaurants they're not nearly as long as the Valentine's Day dinner lines.
Currently my wife is napping on the couch while I'm starting a Love Comes Softly series marathon intermingled with some housework and cleaning tools from work yesterday.
Although I'm a romantic at heart and would love to do it up big on Valentine's Day, it just isn't in the budget this year because work has been sparse the past month.
Well my Valentine's Day was all warm and fuzzy. I burnt some cinnamon rolls, went outside and shoveled and got the car cleaned off in 9 degree weather. Did a bunch of laundry, went to my Son's Basketball game. Took the kids to the movie theater, got stressed out. Spent time in the horribly loud movie theater arcade. Was relived when I saw my Husband walk into the theater. Watched the SpongeBob Movie. Went out to my car, it's all frosted on the inside!!!??? Finally got that car defrosted, drove home with an 8 year old who kept drinking a large Icee and saying she had to go so bad. Got home, realized the key's I had didn't have the house key on them. Dug through my purse and finally found keys.
It's been a long stinking day and I'm glad I'm going to bed. I hope you all had a good day. The SpongeBob movie was very funny.
Well my Valentine's Day was all warm and fuzzy. I burnt some cinnamon rolls, went outside and shoveled and got the car cleaned off in 9 degree weather. Did a bunch of laundry, went to my Son's Basketball game. Took the kids to the movie theater, got stressed out. Spent time in the horribly loud movie theater arcade. Was relived when I saw my Husband walk into the theater. Watched the SpongeBob Movie. Went out to my car, it's all frosted on the inside!!!??? Finally got that car defrosted, drove home with an 8 year old who kept drinking a large Icee and saying she had to go so bad. Got home, realized the key's I had didn't have the house key on them. Dug through my purse and finally found keys.
It's been a long stinking day and I'm glad I'm going to bed. I hope you all had a good day. The SpongeBob movie was very funny.
I know some people are going to be upset that yes, I am bumping an old zombie thread.
But to tell you the truth, this has been one of my very favorites in all the time I've been on CC. Fenner isn't here as much but she's always been someone who is married but was extremely compassionate, nonjudgmental, and supportive of our single community. She also wrote some of the best threads ever posted here (check them out if you're so inclined.)
I love this thread because it's filled with a heaping dose of reality--and that's something many of us singles-who-think-we're-totally-missing-out need to hear.
Burnt cinnamon rolls, anyone? (reference to previous posts)
Of course 'it' means watching The Notebook..
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OK, I'm not sure what all married people do on Valentines Day, but this is what this married person is doing.
1. Waking up.
2. Cooking breakfast for kids, Husband is working.
3. Signing card she bought for Husband.
4. Laundry.
5. Clean house.
6. Take Son to his basketball game at 4 PM.
7. Stop at some restaurant after basketball game to eat before I take 3 wild kids to see the Sponge Bob movie.
8. Meet Husband at theater, me and 3 wild kids.
9. Go home after movie.
10. Sleep.
Valentines Day is always advertised as this super romantic fuzzy wuzzy kind of day. I just want to let you all know it's a normal day.
When I was single I always felt like I was missing out on something. It's a nice thought to say hey I love you, but you should let people you love know you care all year not just February 14th.
So please don't be depressed on Valentine's Day if you're single. It's just another day.
This is the only romantic movie I like:Funny thing about those horrendous "romantic" movies (as you can tell, I'm not a fan)--some of the stories behind them are a good hard punch-in-the-face of reality.
I don't know if it's true, but I've read that Ryan Gosling and Rachel McAdams HATED each other, to the point where Gosling was threatening to quit unless they found another actress for the lead role (I've never seen The Notebook, but obviously they must have worked something out, even though their teeth were apparently gritted at each other the whole way.)
Ah... a good old-fashioned cat fight. Now THAT'S REAL love and romance (just check out the Family Forum if you don't believe me!)