In the past I would never have considered this a possibility (I had never had any experience in this arena, so everything was new), but I've heard others mention it before (family, a friend or two) that it can happen. I see now that this is quite possible, but for future reference, how does one avoid over sharing with their loved one? If you're honest with each other and passionate about each other and just want to share with each other, what are some steps you can take to share at a more considered pace? I see the value of mystery in the relationship, but I'm not sure how this would play out when we should be open and honest with each other etc. I'm a little confused. Does this topic need another thread? Thanks.