If You Had a Relationship With Someone On CC, Would You Announce It In The Forum?

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If You Had a Relationship With Someone On CC, Would You Announce It In The Forum?

  • Yes--right away!!! I am in love and want EVERYONE to know it, several times over!!

    Votes: 1 2.7%
  • Yes, but only after we had been together for a while.

    Votes: 5 13.5%
  • Yes, whether or no my honey boo wanted me to say anything. The world must know about our love!

    Votes: 1 2.7%
  • Yes, but only with the other person's permission.

    Votes: 11 29.7%
  • No--my love life is like Fort Knox, with no one else needing access to it.

    Votes: 6 16.2%
  • No--but only if the other person didn't want to say anything either.

    Votes: 2 5.4%
  • No--even if my sweetie pie wanted to announce it with a loudspeaker, I would ask them not to.

    Votes: 3 8.1%
  • Maybe--it depends on the situation and what we decide as a couple.

    Votes: 14 37.8%
  • Maybe--sometimes love is too good not to be shared with others, especially single people!!

    Votes: 2 5.4%
  • Other--I have a different answer to share in my post.

    Votes: 3 8.1%

  • Total voters
    37

seoulsearch

OutWrite Trouble
May 23, 2009
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#61
Ok, everyone.

I AM PUBLICLY ANNOUNCING MY BRAND-NEW RELATIONSHIP... WITH CC BOT.

He's informative, ever-present, and always introduces me to new people, often just out of the blue. And who doesn't like spontaneity in a relationship?

What more could I ask for?

I'll keep you posted.
 
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ServantStrike

Guest
#62
No because there's no guarantee on anything online, specially relationships.
Nothing is ever guaranteed except our salvation.

Everything else is a toss up.
 

Lynx

Folksy yet erudite
Aug 13, 2014
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#63
Ok, everyone.

I AM PUBLICLY ANNOUNCING MY BRAND-NEW RELATIONSHIP... WITH CC BOT.

He's informative, ever-present, and always introduces me to new people, often just out of the blue. And who doesn't like spontaneity in a relationship?

What more could I ask for?

I'll keep you posted.
Well shoot, there goes my chance. How could I compete with that? :rolleyes:
 

Jilly81

Senior Member
Jan 16, 2011
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#64
Ok, everyone.


I AM PUBLICLY ANNOUNCING MY BRAND-NEW RELATIONSHIP... WITH CC BOT.


I wanted the CC Bot for myself :(.


Do you think I could date it on even numbered Saturdays, Kim?
 
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skylove7

Guest
#65
Lol just don't let a date post your credit card number in the forum! That wouldn't be kind at all!
 

seoulsearch

OutWrite Trouble
May 23, 2009
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#67
Well shoot, there goes my chance. How could I compete with that? :rolleyes:
I wanted the CC Bot for myself :(.


Do you think I could date it on even numbered Saturdays, Kim?

Don't worry... where there's a Big Brother... I'm sure there are several other Little Brothers (and Sisters) not far behind...
 

Jilly81

Senior Member
Jan 16, 2011
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#68
I think Lynx was joking that now he can't compete for YOU, Kim :).






If I'm wrong, I guess I need to watch out for a flame-thrower pointed in my direction :p.
 

CatHerder

Senior Member
Mar 20, 2013
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#69
Ok, everyone.

I AM PUBLICLY ANNOUNCING MY BRAND-NEW RELATIONSHIP... WITH CC BOT.

He's informative, ever-present, and always introduces me to new people, often just out of the blue. And who doesn't like spontaneity in a relationship?

What more could I ask for?

I'll keep you posted.
But can he cook?
 

maxwel

Senior Member
Apr 18, 2013
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#72
I think there is plenty of room in the world for people to pursue relationships in different ways,
and also to communicate those relationships in different ways.

I think it's entirely subjective.

Also, I think it SHOULD be entirely subjective.

God made us all different.
I think that's a good thing.

It's like this one time a buddy asked me the best way to break up with a girl.
I said, "There is no good way to break up with a girl.
Now go forth, do what you have to do, and have a perfectly horrible, painful, guilt-ridden day."

: )
 

tourist

Senior Member
Mar 13, 2014
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#73
CC is my home away from home and it is like my extended family so I would be comfortable in extending a few details. I think that this is an excellent place to get to know someone, and just perhaps, fall in love. It happens.
 

JonahLynx

Senior Member
Dec 28, 2014
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#75
I probably wouldn't announce it unless I became more familiar with all the regulars and it seemed that people would actually care, lol. If for some reason I decided to start a relationship with another user (hypothetical, because I'm not here for that), the most I'd do is put her in my signature in some mildly discreet way. Not saying I have a problem with the "ME & X ARE TOGETHER" threads - it's just not my nature to bring personal affairs into the spotlight. I see CC as a community, so there's nothing wrong with taking the stage once in a while for something you find important.

I'm sure I would love every byte.
LOL brilliant.
 
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AgnusDei

Guest
#76
No.

I prefer to announce that in person. To look my best friends in the eyes and tell them with confidence.
 
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Tintin

Guest
#77
CC is my home away from home and it is like my extended family so I would be comfortable in extending a few details. I think that this is an excellent place to get to know someone, and just perhaps, fall in love. It happens.
Oh, Tourist. I don't think you two know how to extend only 'a few details'. :p ;)
 

Cee

Senior Member
May 14, 2010
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#78
Tintin,

You're an incredible person. Relationships should be celebrated. It's easy to say what you should have done. But you know what you've always been honorable and if people had a problem with it they could have told you privately, but still you can post whatever you want. Just as they can choose to read and comment on whatever they want. Many people including me, loved your updates and stories! And I don't read the forums that much so that's saying somethin'.

You will always have people for and against something. Doing nothing is the only way to not face criticism.

I think it's a mistake to believe censorship is love. It's not loving for me to allow people to live as victims. And I think it's totally okay that a relationship didn't work out! Better to know now then find out 5 yrs from now! There is no shame in it at all. And there is no shame in having the courage to get to know someone you wanted to know better.

Would I share in the forum if I met someone on CC? You bet I would. Would I share if it didn't work out? You bet I would. Because there is no shame in either. And if people wanted details, I would discuss with the person what they wanted me to share or not share. And that would be my answer.

My friend (and Arlene too) if she happens to chance upon this thread. You both are inspiring. Chasers and seekers of love. Honorable to the core. And your courage has probably given other people the courage to pursue something that many would scoff at. We can either ask ourselves, what if it doesn't work out? Or we can ask ourselves, what if it does? I believe you chose the better question.

And that should be celebrated. So both of you should hold your heads up high. For choosing to say yes to a life of adventure, excitement, and wonder. And God has amazing things in store for both of you. Because He is a good God. And you two are His loved children.

C.

Ugh, yes, I see that I've made mistakes with how I conducted myself on CC. The excitement of my first relationship ever blinded me to the fact that I was over sharing at times in our times together. I apologise to each and every one of you for the pain I may have caused. That was never my intention. I was naive and passionate, but that doesn't excuse my thoughtless behaviour and even good intentions can have bad outcomes. Please forgive me, my dear brothers and sisters. Thank you. Goodbye.
 
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Tintin

Guest
#79
Cee, your post is amazing, my dear brother. Thank you. Live and learn, I guess. Live and learn. Trust and obey, for there's no other way. To be happy in Jesus, but to trust and obey.
 
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