If You Had a Relationship With Someone On CC, Would You Announce It In The Forum?
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I think there is plenty of room in the world for people to pursue relationships in different ways,
and also to communicate those relationships in different ways.
I think it's entirely subjective.
Also, I think it SHOULD be entirely subjective.
God made us all different.
I think that's a good thing.
It's like this one time a buddy asked me the best way to break up with a girl.
I said, "There is no good way to break up with a girl.
Now go forth, do what you have to do, and have a perfectly horrible, painful, guilt-ridden day."
: )
and also to communicate those relationships in different ways.
I think it's entirely subjective.
Also, I think it SHOULD be entirely subjective.
God made us all different.
I think that's a good thing.
It's like this one time a buddy asked me the best way to break up with a girl.
I said, "There is no good way to break up with a girl.
Now go forth, do what you have to do, and have a perfectly horrible, painful, guilt-ridden day."
: )
I probably wouldn't announce it unless I became more familiar with all the regulars and it seemed that people would actually care, lol. If for some reason I decided to start a relationship with another user (hypothetical, because I'm not here for that), the most I'd do is put her in my signature in some mildly discreet way. Not saying I have a problem with the "ME & X ARE TOGETHER" threads - it's just not my nature to bring personal affairs into the spotlight. I see CC as a community, so there's nothing wrong with taking the stage once in a while for something you find important.
LOL brilliant.
LOL brilliant.
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Tintin,
You're an incredible person. Relationships should be celebrated. It's easy to say what you should have done. But you know what you've always been honorable and if people had a problem with it they could have told you privately, but still you can post whatever you want. Just as they can choose to read and comment on whatever they want. Many people including me, loved your updates and stories! And I don't read the forums that much so that's saying somethin'.
You will always have people for and against something. Doing nothing is the only way to not face criticism.
I think it's a mistake to believe censorship is love. It's not loving for me to allow people to live as victims. And I think it's totally okay that a relationship didn't work out! Better to know now then find out 5 yrs from now! There is no shame in it at all. And there is no shame in having the courage to get to know someone you wanted to know better.
Would I share in the forum if I met someone on CC? You bet I would. Would I share if it didn't work out? You bet I would. Because there is no shame in either. And if people wanted details, I would discuss with the person what they wanted me to share or not share. And that would be my answer.
My friend (and Arlene too) if she happens to chance upon this thread. You both are inspiring. Chasers and seekers of love. Honorable to the core. And your courage has probably given other people the courage to pursue something that many would scoff at. We can either ask ourselves, what if it doesn't work out? Or we can ask ourselves, what if it does? I believe you chose the better question.
And that should be celebrated. So both of you should hold your heads up high. For choosing to say yes to a life of adventure, excitement, and wonder. And God has amazing things in store for both of you. Because He is a good God. And you two are His loved children.
C.
You're an incredible person. Relationships should be celebrated. It's easy to say what you should have done. But you know what you've always been honorable and if people had a problem with it they could have told you privately, but still you can post whatever you want. Just as they can choose to read and comment on whatever they want. Many people including me, loved your updates and stories! And I don't read the forums that much so that's saying somethin'.
You will always have people for and against something. Doing nothing is the only way to not face criticism.
I think it's a mistake to believe censorship is love. It's not loving for me to allow people to live as victims. And I think it's totally okay that a relationship didn't work out! Better to know now then find out 5 yrs from now! There is no shame in it at all. And there is no shame in having the courage to get to know someone you wanted to know better.
Would I share in the forum if I met someone on CC? You bet I would. Would I share if it didn't work out? You bet I would. Because there is no shame in either. And if people wanted details, I would discuss with the person what they wanted me to share or not share. And that would be my answer.
My friend (and Arlene too) if she happens to chance upon this thread. You both are inspiring. Chasers and seekers of love. Honorable to the core. And your courage has probably given other people the courage to pursue something that many would scoff at. We can either ask ourselves, what if it doesn't work out? Or we can ask ourselves, what if it does? I believe you chose the better question.
And that should be celebrated. So both of you should hold your heads up high. For choosing to say yes to a life of adventure, excitement, and wonder. And God has amazing things in store for both of you. Because He is a good God. And you two are His loved children.
C.
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